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Topic: Venus conjunct Chiron Synastry = Pain like no other..
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1214
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 10:20 AM
  
No one is able to hurt me the way he does, the littlest things he can say could make me or break me. He blows hot and cold AND it terrifies me how much I need him. I want to hate him, I want to punch him but once I get to see him right in front of me, all I want is to run to his arms and hide in there, I want to soak myself up in his scent and locked it up inside my memory forever. I'm incapable of letting him go. I've never felt this vulnerable with any other man before. He drives me crazy with passion and anger and frustration and yearning...oh god..it never ends...
Why is it that I feel so MUCH towards him when he doesn't seem to be feeling the same ???
I hate it 
He is Venus, I'm Chiron. The conjunction is in the 12th House.
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Ceridwen
Knowflake Posts: 9659
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 11, 2013 11:10 AM
quote:
Originally posted by SilverFeather:
I've never felt this vulnerable with any other man before.
That - to me- is what Chiron is all about. Not necessarily about the hurt; it is that when you are at your most vulnerable, of course the other person can hurt you, but the reason for that really is your vulnerability and defencelessness. IT is like where your Chiron is you do not have a skin, no shell to retreat into, no defense mechanism - the planet person slips just through them all.
This could actually be the most loving most wonderful and trusting experience of all, or it could feel like the most destructive hell.
But on the other hand your vulnerability is also your strenght. It shows just how deeply you are able to feel. Maybe not a consolation right now, but maybe some day.
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1214
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 11:28 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
That - to me- is what Chiron is all about. Not necessarily about the hurt; it is that when you are at your most vulnerable, of course the other person can hurt you, but the reason for that really is your vulnerability and defencelessness.IT is like where your Chiron is you do not have a skin, no shell to retreat into, no defense mechanism - the planet person slips just through them all.
This could actually be the most loving most wonderful and trusting experience of all, or it could feel like the most destructive hell.
But on the other hand your vulnerability is also your strenght. It shows just how deeply you are able to feel. Maybe not a consolation right now, but maybe some day.
What kills me is that he seems oblivious/uncaring of all that internal anguish going inside me.. His Venus happens to square my Mars and Sun. My Venus opposite his Mars.
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Azurenite
Knowflake Posts: 63
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 07:03 PM
Where is your Venus to his Chiron?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 6938
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 07:09 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Not necessarily about the hurt; it is that when you are at your most vulnerable, of course the other person can hurt you, but the reason for that really is your vulnerability and defenselessness.IT is like where your Chiron is you do not have a skin, no shell to retreat into, no defense mechanism - the planet person slips just through them all.
This could actually be the most loving most wonderful and trusting experience of all, or it could feel like the most destructive hell.
But on the other hand your vulnerability is also your strength. It shows just how deeply you are able to feel. Maybe not a consolation right now, but maybe some day.
I love your interpretations this is how I feel about chiron in synastry.
It's beautiful feeling, not in the frilly fairytale sense. It helps in you have natal chiron aspects too, it's easier to deal with energy. IP: Logged |
jjj
Knowflake Posts: 206
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 11, 2013 07:10 PM
Dont start me on this topic ughh.
Do you have a relationship?IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
Knowflake Posts: 3614
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 08:02 PM
i have this DW with my boyfriend sooooo it's not as bad i guess i think he is actually more vulnerable than i am.
the conjunction where i am venus is tighter than his. but his conjunction in his natal chart is tighter than mine. (we both have venus conjunct chiron in our natal charts. his bday is in may and mine in august but venus went retrograde after he was born and then back direct before i was and our venuses are 1 degree apart. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 2043
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 11, 2013 08:05 PM
I have it natally exact.It's THE worst aspect ever, IMO. Besides Mercury square Neptune, which I also have. In all honesty, if he's not going to man-up and show that he feels the same for you, you should just leave him.
It will be beneficial for your feelings in the long-run  Because I for one, would never do this to the woman I love. Ever. Good luck, and I hope you find a solution to the problem soon, SilverFeather IP: Logged |
jjj
Knowflake Posts: 206
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Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 12, 2013 05:03 AM
I dont think that he hurts you on purpose, you are just very very sensitive to him. My take with this aspect is that it works a bit like Venus/Saturn... wounded love. Often people who have Venus/Chiron in natal (helio and parallels count as well) are attracted to each other and have Chiron/Venus interaspects. Double whammies are easier, then there is more balance.
You are sratching your deepest wounds until you become aware of them and then the healing starts. It is a wonderful aspect actually.
I have double whammy (conj, square and parallel) with someone. Smallest things he says or does seem to impact me tremendously... then I started asking myself why... it has been exciting to say the least. He has come to share light on your deepest wounds. and vice versa.IP: Logged |
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