posted November 12, 2013 10:55 AM            

I'm a Scorpio girl, no, I don't like the way Scorpio guys play around. Too much to cope (I need to cope with myself AND another one? No, I pass).

And NO Pisces. They hide. They lie. They can't get enough for themselves and make everyone's life a mess. My father is this way, I know few Pisces and... meh!

posted November 12, 2013 11:13 AM            

Cancer: females, yes. Not too fond of the male version.

posted November 12, 2013 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Where is your Mercury? Leo?

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posted November 12, 2013 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by geea:
mine?

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posted November 12, 2013 02:04 PM            

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Favorite Water sign?
Ha, ha, ha...

posted November 12, 2013 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
Cancer, scorpio or pisces you can tell the pros and negative things of each other based on your experience please....

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First i like to say that the connection i feel with all people born of water signs is like a tribe-ish blood bound feeling. It doesnt mather if its a scorpio, pisces or a fellow cancer, i mostly like them very much all of them!

I love scorpio women! They are all a little crazy and thats probably why i fall for them. I think its also kind of easy to feel that lurking possessivenes and as a cancer it sure gets me going :P
My experience is that scorpio-women dont mind taking the lead in bed and tell exaclty how they like it and it suits my 'cancer-sun Virgo-Mars servant in bed'- personality perfectly (minus the scorpio woman who wanted me to be really really rough with her that didnt work out particulary good)

My experience with pisces is rather limited but i love their imagination and their sense of humour.
They may be enjoy playing the victim and martyr a little bit too mouch sometimes but i really like them (the few i
ve got to know).

posted November 12, 2013 04:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
How can someone tell which Scorpio they are?
Like how can they tell if they are a Scorpion, Eagle or Phoenix?

Because I want to know what state my Scorpio Mars and Pluto are in?

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Quoting myself, from here: www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum32/HTML/000342.html

The eagle and the phoenix represent fully transformed and evolved Scorpio energy. The eagle/phoenix has matured beyond the lizard's/scorpion's hedonism and destructiveness; the eagle/phoenix lives with purpose and vision. Self-actualized, spiritual and soulful, loving selflessly, healing, rebuilding, creating. When Scorpio's passion is permanently focused in a constructive, positive direction, that's when the eagle and phoenix take flight.

I imagine that being an eagle or phoenix is like being in love. No one can tell you if you are or aren't. You just know. And if you aren't sure, then you haven't gotten there yet. Only you can judge your evolution and maturity.

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I have a simple, concise addendum or summary that I can add to that. Something I picked up from depthastrology2.com:

For Scorpio, the difference is emotional security.

And my interpretation of that:

The lizard is insecure, lacks confidence, and functions (or malfunctions) from a place of fear -- fear of loss, insult or hurt. The result is often selfishness and a desire to control, in order to avoid loss, insult or hurt.

The eagle is secure, confident, and functions from a place of love, trust and courage. The result is selflessness. The eagle has no desire for control because it is confident, and it is not afraid of "losing control".

One of Scorpio's lessons is letting go. The things that Scorpio fears losing the most are precisely the things that must be released and given up in order to transform and grow.

Scorpio is a fixed sign. An insecure Scorpio fears change. A secure Scorpio embraces change, and can become an agent of transformation.

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
Evolved, mature people will show more of the good traits of their signs.

posted November 12, 2013 05:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
I have a simple, concise addendum or summary that I can add to that. Something I picked up from depthastrology2.com:

For Scorpio, the difference is emotional security.

And my interpretation of that:

The lizard is insecure, lacks confidence, and functions (or malfunctions) from a place of fear -- fear of loss, insult or hurt. The result is often selfishness and a desire to control, in order to avoid loss, insult or hurt.

The eagle is secure, confident, and functions from a place of love, trust and courage. The result is selflessness. The eagle has no desire for control because it is confident, and it is not afraid of "losing control".

One of Scorpio's lessons is letting go. The things that Scorpio fears losing the most are precisely the things that must be released and given up in order to transform and grow.

Scorpio is a fixed sign. An insecure Scorpio fears change. A secure Scorpio embraces change, and can become an agent of transformation.

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Ah, I see.

Thanks Blackbird

Yes, I think I'm the Eagle Mars/Pluto.
I noticed I used to be the Lizard I guess, but not as bad as that.

And the Eagle and Phoenix are the same, but just a different name, right?
And the Scorpion, Lizard and Gray Lizard are the same too, right?

posted November 12, 2013 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
So there's only two states?

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I think there are more than two.

posted November 12, 2013 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I think there are more than two.

It's a spectrum... Myself for instance: I don't qualify as an "eagle" but I'd like to think that I'm past the grey lizard stage, as well.

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posted November 12, 2013 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
Ail221 i know and i accept that its only that sometimes surprises me that so much people say the same thign about cancers and the majority always goes for pisces....i know there can be anything and signs which you dont have the feeling you have to others, but is the thing that a lot of water people dont like other water people, i know this can happen, and for example i have a feeling with saggitarius which its supposed not to have a very good feeling with cancer, but i have met a lot, not only met a lot of my best friends have been saggitarius or saggitarius rising or moon, i know that everything can happen ok but i wanted to know what people think about each water sign and what are the differences the people see between them

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posted November 12, 2013 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Reve:
^ Blackbird.

Which one are you?

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I think you're right, it is a spectrum.

I was a gray lizard. All the negative thinking and feeling was directed inward, though; I did not destroy other people's lives because of my insecurity or out of some desire for control. I've never really felt any desire to control other people.

I'm not exactly sure where I am now, but it is somewhere in between. I move around on the spectrum.

I have never reached the complete selflessness and spirituality that I imagine the eagle embodies, but in the past few years, I have gradually let go of many old hurts, and I have gradually overcome many old fears. The change has been imperceptibly slow, except in the past few months.

I look up at the peak of the mountain from my present vantage point, and I feel weighed down sometimes with the distance I still have to climb. But when I turn around and look down, the height I have already ascended is incredible, exhilarating. "I climbed *that*? Maybe I can do this after all..."

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
Evolved, mature people will show more of the good traits of their signs.

posted November 12, 2013 06:00 PM            

The last part of your post sounds very Saturnian - which is not surprising since your Saturn is pretty prominent.

posted November 12, 2013 07:19 PM            

With Scorpio its hit or miss with them, I have had both good and aweful experiences with this water sign.

posted November 13, 2013 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
Some people may think im totally against pisces....but it's not that way, of the three water signs, my favourite is pisces, and i'm cancer with scorpio rising, moon in aquarius, my neptune is very aspected, but i dont have pisces planets, just to let you know

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stop being a hater