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Topic: How many of you really notice the effects of ascendant conjunctions?
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 11, 2013 11:42 PM
I have three planets on my ascendant, have always had no problem getting noticed by others, to the point I long to slip under the radar. I wonder how many of you have this phenomena in your lives and you have planets on your ascendant? Share your experience with your rising planets and getting noticed. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 12:43 AM
Nah, I slither in the shades - master of stealth sun-Neptune oh yeah. I have venus and Saturn on the ascendant. Neptune too but orb is wide. IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti Knowflake Posts: 65 From: uranus Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 12:47 AM
well i actually don't have this phenomena in my life no planets either conjuncting my asc, or in my first house, since i'm assuming asteroids don't count however, i have the exact opposite: I don't get noticed very easily. i've been told that i'm difficult to keep track of, and have a soft presence. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 12:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Nah, I slither in the shades - master of stealth I have venus and Saturn on the ascendant. Neptune too but orb is wide.
Thanks for your input, 12muddy I am wondering if something has happened that has resulted in everyone noticing you, something in public that might have been an accident or something unintended? When you go out, do people notice you for some reason? Do things happen out of the blue that gets other's attention? I'll give you an example of something that happened to me once, although it's a bit embarrassing. I was leaving the restroom when I was in college and was in this computer lab. The lab's attendant told me the back of my skirt was caught in my underwear and I was very embarrassed and surprised. I corrected it as quickly as I could but I am sure others besides him saw it. Stuff like this happens off and on. Unwarranted attention, lol. It used to really bother me, now whenever something like this happens I just brush it off and forget about it, hope no one is video taping with their phone. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 Knowflake Posts: 2053 From: 👾🔮The Moon Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 12:54 AM
I have 4 planets on my ascendant, 3 of them being pretty hard aspects. I have first house venus and like you SSS wish I could slip under the radar. It gets annoying sometimes. I'm used to being stared at and judged automatically just because that's what people have done my whole life. No matter where I go I'm always being stared at and made to feel like I'm the only person in a room crowded wih people. :/ IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:02 AM
Only Pluto. I suspect that there is a lot that I don't see. I've noticed that most won't make eye contact. Except this one woman at work who I'm interested in (but wouldn't ever have a shot with LOL). She isn't shy at ALL about making eye contact and she holds it. Mostly though, if I express an opinion, no matter how smoothly, how lightly I try to present it. It's often met with a very strong reaction. The people that know me well or see me every day seem to lose that strong reaction to things. Anyway, I think it's sort of difficult to tell because people just look down and cruise by. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Barbiegirl19: I have 5 planets on my ascendant, 4 of them being pretty hard aspects. I have first house venus and like you SSS wish I could slip under the radar. It gets annoying sometimes. I'm used to be stared at and judged automatically just because that's what people have done my whole life. No matter where I go I'm always being stared at and made to feel like I'm the only person in a room crowded wih people. :/
I relate so well to that, Barbiegirl! Sometimes, silly things happen to me in public and I really hate that and I feel stupid and self conscience afterwards, like everyone one earth knows about it but me and I'm careless, clumsy, and confused. That's the Neptune affect, even though it's not on my ascendant, the confusion and lack of attention to certain details feeds into it. Other times, it's just me that gets the attention for being myself, not because of mistakes I make. This is entirely first house. Again, Neptune helps from the second house. In fact, when I was a kid, my mother worried about the affects of too much attention on my psyche. For one thing, I'm an only child so she had this fear I would develop a complex without other kids around to share parental attention with. I find this appropriate with the stellium right on the ascending degree with Jupiter less than one degree away!
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Only Pluto. I suspect that there is a lot that I don't see. I've noticed that most won't make eye contact. Except this one woman at work who I'm interested in (but wouldn't ever have a shot with LOL). She isn't shy at ALL about making eye contact and she holds it. Mostly though, if I express an opinion, no matter how smoothly, how lightly I try to present it. It's often met with a very strong reaction. The people that know me well or see me every day seem to lose that strong reaction to things. Anyway, I think it's sort of difficult to tell because people just look down and cruise by.
So you aren't the kind of guy everyone looks at when you enter the room? I wonder how many people have this happen with their ascendant planets, sun or moon? I am particularly interested in the outer planets, Jupiter and Saturn. Mars, too. I have read a lot about Venus on the ascendant, what about some of the others? Venus seems to get people noticed due to the native being exceptionally pretty or attractive, with good, clear skin, pleasing features, and a Venusian personality that relates well to others. What about the rest? Sun gets attention just by being very lively and animated. The sun person will grab that attention by making sure they are noticed by their own words and actions. Is Mars similar? How many people with Pluto on the ascendant have others gravitate toward them for no discernible reason they can see? Stuff just happens.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6105 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 12, 2013 01:11 AM
I have…Sun Mercury Venus -All sextile my Gemini ASC Moon in Taurus is semi-square ASC Mars is conjunct ASC Chiron is conjunct ASC (if anyone could clarify how that affects my appearance or outward manner, briefly, that'd be great. I don't get Chiron but the ASC is sorta big deal) If I had to describe the feeling I get when I enter places… it's like I can't go unnoticed. Glammed up or not, I always feel "noticed" and it makes me self-conscious, though I don't think I'm being judged in a bad way. IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:14 AM
Oh SSS that must have been awkward. Sorry to hear that stuff like that happens to you. Do they happen a lot? Gah. I walked into a men restroom once and it was embarrassing -__-Nah, I haven't noticed similar things in my case. I'm the invisible (wo)man, I bet I could empty a bank and no one would even notice my presence haha. Oh, but I get "noticed" a lot at work, school, job interviews.... I come off as competent and good at what I do, although the truth is I'm only as good as the next person. When I first graduated and started to work as a "professional" - not really, kinda a "novice". 6 months later there was this strange "award" thingy at my workplace where every senior ranked the junior "new blood" and they told me I was the most competent. I was like "Ermmm... Thank you." I have noticed people who have stellium in the 1st or the 10th, strong Uranus, mars, or sun - people can't help but notice them, whether they want it or not. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6927 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:20 AM
Hair and outfits are always on point, and I smell good. What's not to notice lol.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Oh SSS that must have been awkward. Sorry to hear that stuff like that happens to you. Do they happen a lot? Gah.Nah, I haven't noticed similar things in my case. I'm the invisible (wo)man, I bet I could empty a bank and no one would even notice my presence haha. Oh, but I get "noticed" a lot at work, school, job interviews.... I come off as competent and good at what I do, although the truth is I'm only as good as the next person.
That's great to hear, you get noticed for doing nice things and good work. I am glad you are here to balance the thread because people have noticed me for both good and bad things, lol. I am giving the impression I am talking about what's negative only but it can be anything. When I was a teenager, I was so lost most the time, worried and uneasy around a lot of people, that's when embarrassing mistakes were made, when I wasn't paying attention and stressed because I felt much more comfortable with close friends or alone, in my own house. I had trouble shutting everything out and concentrating with so much going on around me. Luckily, things like that only happen rarely now that I have more experience coping. My neurons must have deadened some. I used to lock my keys in the car, too, haven't done it in years. I felt like the absent minded professor most of the time! I was especially bad when I first started driving. Venus and Saturn indicate diligent, studious workers, sometimes, with a talent they can develop. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 2042 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:25 AM
I have no 1st House or conjuncting Ascendant planets, lol.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Hair and outfits are always on point, and I smell good. What's not to notice lol.
Haha, people can be noticed for smelling bad too, Kero. They might even make more of an impression for that. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by DeepFreeze: [b]Only Pluto. I suspect that there is a lot that I don't see. I've noticed that most won't make eye contact. Except this one woman at work who I'm interested in (but wouldn't ever have a shot with LOL). She isn't shy at ALL about making eye contact and she holds it. Mostly though, if I express an opinion, no matter how smoothly, how lightly I try to present it. It's often met with a very strong reaction. The people that know me well or see me every day seem to lose that strong reaction to things. Anyway, I think it's sort of difficult to tell because people just look down and cruise by.
So you aren't the kind of guy everyone looks at when you enter the room? How many people with Pluto on the ascendant have others gravitate toward them for no discernible reason they can see? Stuff just happens. [/B][/QUOTE] Mmmmmmm..... yeah I think so. I keep thinking about work and I've been there 6 years so everyone knows me. If I walk into a Subway or something like that. Yeah, I feel very awkward. I just like to get my stuff and sit in the corner. LOL IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: I have no 1st House or conjuncting Ascendant planets, lol.
Do you get noticed anyway? If you do, you are welcome to share here and we'll try to figure out where it shows up in your chart IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 2042 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Do you get noticed anyway? If you do, you are welcome to share here and we'll try to figure out where it shows up in your chart
Well I don't know, I have a Leo Ascendant, so that right there will do something. Get noticed as in appearance or just presence? IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6927 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Haha, people can be noticed for smelling bad too, Kero. They might even make more of an impression for that.
True but people usually scatter away from those people. Whenever I go out some person is complimenting me, but I don't think that has much to do with astrology, i just put effort I guess.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6927 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:35 AM
Actually know someone with and empty first hour who simply gets attention for their pink hair color lol.but to be honest I don't notice people who are relevantly normal dressed unless they approach me or something. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: Well I don't know, I have a Leo Ascendant, so that right there will do something. Get noticed as in appearance or just presence?
You know what's really strange? Okay, I can be driving down the street, there is someone walking on a sidewalk beside the road, and I will look over briefly and as soon as I look over, they will turn around and stare at me. I have wondered what makes them turn and stare. Does this sort of thing happen to you? I just find it odd they would turn and look at my car and it's happened more than once. They don't stare at all the other cars. What gives?
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Mercurian Intellect Knowflake Posts: 2042 From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow. Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: [b] Well I don't know, I have a Leo Ascendant, so that right there will do something. Get noticed as in appearance or just presence?
You know what's really strange? Okay, I can be driving down the street, there is someone walking on a sidewalk beside the road, and I will look over briefly and as soon as I look over, they will turn around and stare at me. I have wondered what makes them turn and stare. Does this sort of thing happen to you? I just find it odd they would turn and look at my car and it's happened more than once. They don't stare at all the other cars. What gives? [/B][/QUOTE]Yes, except I don't drive, yet. (other things happen, can't think of them now) Maybe it's just that when they come in contact in your peripheral vision, you come in contact withe their's as well or just that they hear the car and look over. And are you sure they don't look at other cars? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: Actually know someone with and empty first hour who simply gets attention for their pink hair color lol.but to be honest I don't notice people who are relevantly normal dressed unless they approach me or something.
I thought someone who did that would have at least one item in their first? I have, in the past, colored my hair but not for attention. I just wanted to be in that crowd, the kind that colored theirs, as opposed to the ones who didn't who I considered boring.
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12muddy Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:42 AM
^ Once bleached and coloured mine blue lol it was trendy at the time n I thought it was neatSSS lol on the bad side, I do get noticed by pervs and the likes. I can relate to a lot of what you said about your teenage years. Just that even my own feelings are “blurry” to me, it’s a blessing in disguise. You know, instead of forming a huge monster licking its chops, they form a kind of a faint shadow hanging over my head. I know it’s there, just that I don’t “see” it clearly so I find it easy to ignore.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5433 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 01:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect: Yes, except I don't drive, yet. (other things happen, can't think of them now) Maybe it's just that when they come in contact in your peripheral vision, you come in contact withe their's as well or just that they hear the car and look over.And are you sure they don't look at other cars?
They don't look at others while I am there. They are looking at the ground or straight ahead and turn to look at me. I have wondered if they can feel my presence or me staring at them? Maybe it has something to do with my energy? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 01:44 AM
How does Uranus affect you? SSS, you have this correct? Or Neptune? I mean, are these first house? Pluto 1st house, I seem to always be a project of some sort. Currently, I'm forcing myself to quit drinking soda. I don't want to. I also quit buying bread because I eat too much of it. So I just didn't buy it. I'm CONSTANTLY doing things like this. I'll just decide something that I need to start doing, or stop doing and use will power to just do it. IP: Logged |