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Topic: Scorpio Men
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FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
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posted November 14, 2013 02:04 AM
  
Sorry to start another thread on Scorpios but it's probably one of my favorite signs, and I think Scorpio is a great match for Capricorn (both are dark and crazy enough to almost balance each other out lol) But their secretive ways can be confusing at times, especially when it comes to sex... They're very passionate, but also like to have control and won't bare their soul to just anyoneI had a pretty intense, but short lived fling with a Scorpio who I now live across the country from. We haven't talked in a while but he texted me today just making small talk, but then started mentioning how he misses what we had.. and then very bluntly says something along the lines of "if I could f*** you every day... I would." Soooo just curious to hear opinions on how far the mind games really go with Scorpio.. Manipulation was always off the table with us because we're both expert bullsh** detectors, and it takes one to know one lol IP: Logged |
mercuryflow
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From: alberta, canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 14, 2013 02:40 AM
aha, sounds about right!
i hear that once a scorp has had you, they'll never let ya go!
unless of course, you make it clear that you wish them to truly leave you alone. but if there is even a teeny weeny part of you that enjoys their little game, they'll know!
i have this with a cancer male who's chart is comprised mainly of scorpio energy. even to this day, years since we've 'parted ways', have LTRs, kids, etc…we still have uncut threads. once a year or so, i might get the 'sure would like to **** you' email.
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PixieJane
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posted November 14, 2013 02:46 AM
I wonder how much of that is just gauging how much control they have over you. I know at least one Scorpio woman who says things like that just to see how firmly she has men in her power but she is by no means "baring her soul" or being kind. Another Scorpio woman admitted to me that she liked to throw that out there to see if a guy was interested because if he wasn't then she was interested in him (and her flirtation bordered on pornographic) until she successfully gained his interest and then she lost all interest (perhaps because she achieved some level of control?) though a short fling was common. And I was close to one Scorpio female who genuinely loved the sex but her lovers were completely disposable to her (though being rejected hurt like hell, I think more than many, not that showed how much it hurt to anyone but me who was her best friend). So I can't help but wonder how many Scorpio men might be playing similar games.But OTOH men are men no matter their sign (one Scorpio dominant woman described it as "men get up early because they heard there's a 'crack' at dawn"  ). Maybe linoleum makes them want to have sex so they're just sorta saying what's on their mind like so many men do (you know like how many men on the internet constantly post about how they're touching themselves or how they want to kiss the feet of some actress). IP: Logged |
mercuryflow
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From: alberta, canada
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posted November 14, 2013 02:59 AM
pixiejane…i definitely think that the control trip/gauging factors into it big time!IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 14, 2013 03:28 AM
They just laid there giving me sexy eyes.
Wtf...
You expect me to do everything.
Plus I hate when people just lay on the bed..
Jeez we're not married with 3 kids.
Yawn..I actually much prefer energetic Aries boys that pretty ravage the entire place while making out...
You need to have some Aries in your chart to keep up with me. Sun, venus, or mars. They are nice lovers for some but sexually we're not in tuned.
Maybe if they had some fire or air their chart. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted November 14, 2013 03:39 AM
The mind games can go quite far. My scorp ex sent me emails after we broke up saying things that he thought would provoke reactions, then logged on to my email address to see if I read them...etc.. Some other scorps I know do similar stuff. I get the feeling that they see it as some sort of experiments, they're interested in the reactions and how other people's minds work. It's strangely endearing, I often just let them do their things and don't get involved or read too much into it. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 14, 2013 10:54 AM
I wholeheartedly agree – that caps and scorpios are an excellent match (especially in moon signs); scorpios provide security and a bit of that jealousy/possessiveness that caps really desire in a partner. I think it’s all about aspects and placements between two people that determine how far the scorpio mind games go; I have a scorpio asc. and cap moon and my bf has a scorpio moon – we’ve known each other for years and the mind games are rare because we both (as heavy scorpios) know what the other is doing and can spot it easily. So perhaps scorpios are less successful in mind games with one another. So, I practice mind games on non-scorpios. The mind games can stretch pretty far I admit, but are usually a result of how much I dislike someone and/or how bad they have hurt me. Also, it’s fun to just do things for ‘shock value’ and to watch other people fight or get flustered once you’ve instigated something (so his text might be that, pure shock value). It’s really social psychology to me – I love seeing the reactions of others and whatnot. I've never had a scorpio man 'play' me because of my own scorpio placements, but they are very successfully secretive and can plot and plan for years about stuff to hurt others. My bf watched me for 3 years before he admitted how he felt.IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
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From: Pluto
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posted November 14, 2013 04:46 PM
Scorpio men are...very attractive if they have Sag influence.At least,for me.
My bf is a Scorpio and he's very possessive but he does it in such a flirty and sexy way that you just can't say no to him.Thank God,he does not "press" me in any way.I'm an Aqua moon and can't stand being controled and he doesn't do it so we're fine.If I can stand Scorpio males with so much air influence i'm sure you can too  just be careful because some of them are..creepy as hell.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 14, 2013 05:32 PM
@mercuryflow: that definitely seems like something a Cancer/Scorpio would do!! I kind of like that about water signs tbh because I don't forget about people easily either, even if I don't try to reach out years later lol@PixieJane: very valid point about him just being a guy haha. I also see what you mean about it mostly being a control/power trip.. I learned with him there was a fine line to walk between not showing enough interest (in which case yeah he would get very persistent) and showing too much interest... He's probably just having girl problems right now or something and wanted someone to flirt with, but he's an interesting case cause even though he gets plenty of female attention and could basically have his pick, he holds back in the sex/relationship department and has been single for quite a while now as far as I know @Kerosene: lol I know what you mean.. Aries can make water planets seem pretty vanilla especially if you have a lot of air/fire in your chart. But Scorpio is intercepted in my 5th house so I find them really attractive and fun to be around... Plus we have Sun opposite Mars DW so that probably helps with the attraction too lol @12muddy: haha wow that's a little bit crazy sorry you had to deal with that! The whole testing to see if they can provoke a reaction does seem to be a classic scorpio move lol @starmoon: I totally agree I think this combo makes each other stronger... Scorpio gives Cap the courage to explore their deeper emotions, and Cap helps Scorpio find ways to direct their strong passions... But yeah I agree his text could've been partly for shock value lol. His mercury conjuncts my Sag Moon/vertex (which could be responsible for why we've actually kept in touch over time, and also why we "get" each other's weird and blunt sense of humor) Other than that we have decent synastry overall, and if we've had any power struggles they've mostly been in a sexy way lol and grudges have never been held. I'm actually just glad to have him as a friend even though it couldn't turn into anything regardless since we live so far. Btw that's cute about your bf watching for 3 years before confessing his feelings (another thing Caps and Scorpios have in common-we can be patient if we know it's worth the wait) @IrisRainbow: I agree! Sag gives enough light heartedness to tame down some of the intensity lol. That's good that your bf isn't too possessive... I actually think Scorpio and Aqua planets can be a good mix too cause scorpio helps thaw out some of Aqua's aloofness, and Aqua helps scorpio take a rational step back from getting too absorbed in strong emotions IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted November 14, 2013 05:57 PM
Thats how they are. I have dated many and have kept in touch throughout the years. My daughters father is the only ******* though. He had the nerve to call me a few months ago and asked me if i still loved him. Yet he abandoned our daughter. ****** idiot. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted November 14, 2013 06:02 PM
Scorpio men sure sound like they have a pack of "sure would like to f*** you again" greeting cards lying around in their house which they'll use to mass send to their ex.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted November 14, 2013 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Thats how they are. I have dated many and have kept in touch throughout the years. My daughters father is the only ******* though. He had the nerve to call me a few months ago and asked me if i still loved him. Yet he abandoned our daughter. ****** idiot.
I'm sorry. That's not cool at all. I think like with any other sign there are higher/lower ways the traits can manifest depending on the maturity of the person, but regardless of his chart there's no excuse for something like that imo...
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FireMoon
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posted November 14, 2013 06:42 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
Scorpio men sure sound like they have a pack of "sure would like to f*** you again" greeting cards lying around in their house which they'll use to mass send to their ex.
Haha yep. That's one thing I like about them, when they show that side of themselves they make no apologies. I'm a Taurus mars so I can be straightforward about sex too on a surface physical level, but Scorpio cuts through that and goes straight to the core of body/soul connection and intimacy... So they are alluring for sure and once they have that bond with you it can run deep IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted November 14, 2013 07:01 PM
They never forget the best ***** they ever had, that's for sure.
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FireMoon
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posted November 14, 2013 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
They never forget the best ***** they ever had, that's for sure.
That's what confuses me though, how they separate lust from love since sex seems to be so all or nothing and emotional/deep... But thats just part of the mysterious charm I guess lol. He's the only Scorpio I've slept with and I know I'll probably never forget it tbh. I learned what it's really supposed to be like from him lol
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Venusian Moon
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posted November 14, 2013 11:47 PM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
That's what confuses me though, how they separate lust from love since sex seems to be so all or nothing and emotional/deep... But thats just part of the mysterious charm I guess lol. He's the only Scorpio I've slept with and I know I'll probably never forget it tbh. I learned what it's really supposed to be like from him lol
Those ******** are hot in bed but they can be little ***** too. Play dumb games. Then when u move on for good they wanna come crying so they can **** you one more time and see if anything is still there. ------------------
Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
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Venusian Moon
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posted November 14, 2013 11:50 PM
I love them though lmfao.Except for my daughters father. Hes a piece of crap. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted November 15, 2013 12:18 AM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Those ******** are hot in bed but they can be little ***** too. Play dumb games. Then when u move on for good they wanna come crying so they can **** you one more time and see if anything is still there.
Haha yeah pretty much... But then how do they know if something is there?? And how do you know if they're not actually going to say it? For most people I would assume the sex is usually only that good if there's some emotional involvement outside of it, but for Scorpio maybe that's just not really an issue.. Must be nice lol IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted November 15, 2013 12:49 AM
Any Scorpios wanna weigh in on this? I have barely any water in my chart so maybe it's a simple concept I'm not understanding...IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 15, 2013 12:50 AM
Myself, I'm really just Plutonian. Well and Uranus.  I'm far from sex crazed. The last.. well few people it just felt dead. I didn't want to or continue if it started getting there. There's no passion for me. They all came to me.
Now, are Scorpio women very similar? Or no?
I went out with a Scorpio woman years ago for about 4 months. She was sex crazed! Again, for me, it really was nothing. I think she sensed that after the first few times. I kind of didn't even want to any more. It was meaningless.
She also didn't play ANY mind games whatsoever. I didn't either with her. We were both very honest, yet respectful to each other.
The MOST passionate was with an Aquarius Sun which they felt the same. It was like losing yourself.  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted November 15, 2013 12:51 AM
Hehe actually I'm willing to deal with craziness, as long as the sparks are still there. But with my ex, it was a dull affair, the relationship died shortly after it began and there wasn't anything worth saving. Their inner world is complicated, like uncharted waters, full of unidentifiable emotions and thoughts. I'm not a water dom, so I won't even go there haha cap and scorp could be a good pair, I've seen some couples who are very much in love. But the ones I've met ... hmm I'm quite indifferent towards them. Our signs sextiles, and in two different modes... I often prefer other cardinals, for better or worse haha IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted November 15, 2013 12:54 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Any Scorpios wanna weigh in on this? I have barely any water in my chart so maybe it's a simple concept I'm not understanding...
Have Scorpio Venus/Mars/Jupiter Suspect what happens is for a Scorpio, a relationship is always fresh in their mind, time is not really a factor. Other thing to keep in mind is Scorpio is also very locked up in their emotions and thoughts. Could be they are going through something which to most would seem silly to them is a big deal so they step back to work through it. Of course not saying a word to the other half of the relationship about whatever it is. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted November 15, 2013 02:47 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Haha yeah pretty much... But then how do they know if something is there?? And how do you know if they're not actually going to say it? For most people I would assume the sex is usually only that good if there's some emotional involvement outside of it, but for Scorpio maybe that's just not really an issue.. Must be nice lol
Not all Scorpios are obsessed with sex, at least not so much that you'd notice. I think, generally speaking, it's more about control (as opposed to hedonism) which means in the bad apples they'll even have sex they don't enjoy to gain power over you and/or revenge. I think some of the negative ones actually fear enjoying it as they might lose control of the sitch and become too vulnerable if they do. The better ones are about self-control rather than controlling others. They might have seemingly casual sex but they'll be honest about it, no mind games (offhand I only knew one good Scorpio like that and she had an occult angle to it though she shared very frank sex and relationship tips). Most of the better Scorpios I've known were very careful about sex and 2 (1 man, 1 woman) were also too classy to say anything like "If I could I'd **** you every day." (If they did say it then it would be a whisper in the ear, not a text, though the Scorpio guy I knew like that was before texting became so common.) They treat it as more sacred as it's an intense vulnerability and intimacy they deeply respect. The male Eagle I knew was an intense lover of a woman but he was also choosy and loyal (and "all or nothing") and he did not seem to kiss & tell like most guys did (about everything I heard about that was from his girlfriend and the guys were intensely curious, too, but he was secretive about that aspect of himself). IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted November 15, 2013 05:18 AM
@DeepFreeze, I’ve been close friends with two Scorpio females (who weirdly enough were born the same day/year), one has gone from extremes of either being completely celibate or sleeping with numerous people w/ no commitments, the other was verrry promiscuous until she met her current love interest who she became engaged to after 3 months of dating. ..@12muddy, lol I agree their world is a bit difficult to navigate for someone without similar water placements. I still almost always get along with Scorpios though.. I guess the only reason I can think of that they’re so attractive/intriguing to me is that they fall in my 5th house… @Padre, Thanks for your response. Very true.. I’ve noticed this too and can relate. He’s also a Cap venus so getting him to reveal his true feelings isn’t an easy task. @PixieJane, we were always honest and on the same page about the sex not turning into anything since I was only living in the state for a short amount of time. But there was also always mutual respect and a genuine connection between us. He is classy and genuinely a good person imo, and yeah if anything sleazy comments like that would usually be a turn off, but it would be very out of character for him to say something like that overtly or in public.. His strategy has basically been to play it cool for the most part and then sneak in risqué gestures like that when least expected (probably a control thing lol) But it’s really always been very private/intimate, and there was a lot of emotional trust. Honestly until him I didn’t know sex could go so far beyond the physical and I’ve never really allowed myself to be that vulnerable with someone.. But it’s just ironic that during any other time we’re both so guarded that we can’t even have a real conversation about it, and end up resorting to thrill of the chase games… And there’s really no incentive at this point so idk what to make of it. But sorry this is probably getting off topic and/or too much information lol
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starmoon
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posted November 15, 2013 08:21 AM
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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Haha yeah pretty much... But then how do they know if something is there?? And how do you know if they're not actually going to say it? For most people I would assume the sex is usually only that good if there's some emotional involvement outside of it, but for Scorpio maybe that's just not really an issue.. Must be nice lol
funny. I had this conversation somewhat with a scorpio moon man. he knew my ex-bf and when I commented that my ex-bf was a great lover he said that was impossible. I told him, 'no, it's entirely possible because being in love (emotionally intimate) is what makes somebody the best.' he couldn't get that concept at all. he just doesn't understand that. IP: Logged |
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