posted November 14, 2013 11:03 AM            

Overall, our composite looks good, not fantastic, but we have Sun/Moon conjunction(0) semisex Venus in Libra(0), Mars is in Leo.

But there is something, that freaks me out! We have a Venus/Saturn/Pluto conjunction in Libra in 12th house. While I don't mind Venus there that much. It's actually quite nice, it gives us a great telepathic feel, where we finish each others sentences, start talking about the same thing at the same time, feel each others mood without words, etc. it's pretty amazing. And Venus conj Saturn and Pluto are good aspects, too, but when they all are in 12th house of "karmic lesson", a lesson, that you learn as a couple, and then usually part!

Does anyone have planets in 12th house in their composite?
Are you in a long-term relationship?
How can people work on it?

posted November 15, 2013 09:39 AM            

They have been together for 7 years now.

EDIT:
They do have a Moon-Pluto-conjunction in Scorpio in the 7th house as well, though.

They are both Pisces with Sunand Mercury in 12th house natally, and her Venus falls into his 12th house, while his Sun, Venus and Mars fall into her 12th house, and his Mercury is conjunct her 12th house cusp (though technically being in 11th).

posted November 15, 2013 04:03 PM            

My bf and I have mars in the 12th house composite. however it is tightly conjunct the asc as well (in libra) so I don't now if it should be interpreted as mars in the first house instead of the 12th.

We started off as a LDR, of 4 years. We broke up for about a year, got back together, moved in and actually have been living together for a year and 3 months. We broke up quite suddenly and unexpected for all of the ppl who knew us, but we were going through many problems at the time, most of which stem from the fact that we were way too far apart. Literally in two different continents. But after some time apart from each other to experience the world around us without one another, we decided to talk things over and it led back to starting over, and fixing the problem that was the underlying issue: the long distance.

posted November 15, 2013 04:27 PM            

However, they have quite different temperaments, but nevertheless there seems to be a hard to grasp bond between them, almost like their differences (complementary) make them grow individually, too.

It`s actually sweet to see how much in love they are, even after these 7 years of being together.

My parents also have Moon in 12th composite house, and it is a similiar scenario. Totally different individual temperaments, but still totally in love (after almost 40 years, they are still holding hands, and spending time with each other, and laughing and hugging and kissing. It is realy gross. Just kidding, but when I was a kid I really found that inappropriate. lol), and they just somehow get each other on an emotional level, no matter how much their temperaments might clash at times.

My friend and her husband (13 years together, 8 years married) also have a 12th house Moon, in Pisces, squared by Neptune.
That surely looked like a desaster to happen; but in fact her husband was so in love with her from the beginning (she was the only one blind to this fact. lol), that he would step back and wait for her for 3 years, before she even remotely considered him relationship-material.
It was not before she had been struggling through two real bad breakups, that they got togehte,r and al that time he had been there for her, quietly suporting her in everything.

Over the time he or their relationship had an extremely healing influence on her. All he anxiety attacks (and she had plenty of those) are gone now. And she has never been as confident as she is now.
Maybe they had some good karma there between them.

and again, different temperaments individually, but strong, almost psychic bond. And it seems that their love grows stronger, the longer they are with each other.

posted November 15, 2013 04:47 PM            

@Ceridwen, thank you a gazillion times for your input. I really respect your opinion (I think, I told you that a week ago), I'm so happy for your brother and his long-term relationship. I did some research in a last few days after I got "paranoid", and I saw some people happy with even more 12th house planets, than me or your brother in our composite.

@malicefey, thank you! It looks like 12th house may have separated you two, but you guys got back together because other forces are too strong to have you apart. I wish you to have a happy life together!!! x

@Rosalind, what if you learn this Karmic lesson for the whole life? After all, life is all about learning and experiencing. You can never learn anything 100%

posted November 16, 2013 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Liliya:
Thanks everyone for a reply.

@Ceridwen, thank you a gazillion times for your input. I really respect your opinion (I think, I told you that a week ago), I'm so happy for your brother and his long-term relationship. I did some research in a last few days after I got "paranoid", and I saw some people happy with even more 12th house planets, than me or your brother in our composite.

@malicefey, thank you! It looks like 12th house may have separated you two, but you guys got back together because other forces are too strong to have you apart. I wish you to have a happy life together!!! x

@Rosalind, what if you learn this Karmic lesson for the whole life? After all, life is all about learning and experiencing. You can never learn anything 100%

EDIT: I just read the rest of Ceridwens 2nd post. Wow, it's great to know your parents and your friend have this 12th House placements. I wish them all the best, and hope they will be happy forever!

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Thanks.

And well, in the case of my parents. 40 years is quite a feat I think. Definitely qualifies as lasting.

As for my brother and my friend; well 7 years and 13 years are not really that shortlived either. And neither has ever been a secret affair, nor long distance.