Worst aspects/placements for family-life/harmony?

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Knowflake

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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013

posted November 15, 2013 06:06 PM

I just wondered about this, cause in my chart I'm second dominated by cancer so off this makes the urge in me to start a family pretty huge, more so with time

But it's like this area of my life is doomed, to begin with I have moon/mars square uranus (about 2 degrees), which makes me unstable and restless… then I have mars in 4th house and mars opposition moon also (so random rage and sometimes on the edge of being violent!) ANd this is especially visible in close relationships/family

On the top of all these messy aspects I have lilith in 4th house libra…

Which makes me really wonder whether I should have a family at all, or if I should ever get kids? I'm afraid that it will bring problems in my life I cannot control or stop, even if I really tried…and that I will suffer in this area?:/

It's just that I really like the dream of myself in the future with nice husband, children and house you know, true cancerian style….any thoughts, then I would like help with this?

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12muddy
Knowflake

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Registered: Feb 2013

posted November 15, 2013 07:27 PM

With those Uranus aspects there will likely be quite a few upheavals in your life. I and my s.o have similar placements , our life together ins't the easiest and we have experienced misfortunes. But it's not bad either. At the end of the day we'll still together lol how bad can it be

Just go ahead with your plans and see where they take you. An aspect can play out in different ways. Look in your chart for potential strength. Deal with things as they come, don't worry too much.

Lilith in the 4th, my s.o has it, his desire to have a family is strong.

moon/venus square Uranus: you probably will do well with a partner who gives you freedom. Sometimes you need time for yourself, apart from the "family life". Balancing between "me" time and "family" time is key.

mars in the 4th: I have this. In my case I learned to practice self-control and find a good anger outlet.

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