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Topic: Your Father
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IrisRainbow
Knowflake Posts: 576
From: Pluto
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 09:36 AM
  
What was/is your father like?And how does he show up in your chart? My sun is in Cancer,in the 11th House.It squares my north node,my saturn and my chiron.It opposites my jupiter,conjuncts my mercury,sextiles my pluto.
My dad is a very dark part of my life.He is the most annoying person I've ever me.He does not communicate and he is always right.He also doesn't care and he doesn't feel anything.He can't put limits to himself and ,generally, he is all the things I hate on a man.I can't deny that he's given me some good things but the bad he does is ten times worse.What about yours? IP: Logged |
AriesLilith
Knowflake Posts: 160
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 09:49 AM
Sun in 8th house Aries square Neptune. He was distant and often away during my childhood, and he is hard to read.IP: Logged |
PeterPan
Knowflake Posts: 166
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 10:18 AM
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3418
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 10:47 AM
My father is an arrogant, pushy, overly critical sexist who's always seemed to care more about his siblings and mother than us, to the point of naiveness. Beware of male Leos with a Leo Mercury  From the tighest orb to the widest:
Sun sextile Pluto
Sun conjunct Neptune
Sun trine ASC
Sun opposite Chiron
Sun conjunct Uranus
Sun conjunct Saturn As far as I remember (I don't have many childhood memories), I had an ok relationship with him when I was a kid. He was rather distant though. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7044
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 11:57 AM
Positive:
Charming
Funny
Popular
Sensitive
Affectionate
Open minded
HonestNegative:
Critical
Dramatic
bossy
superficial
unrealistic
unreliable
Sun conjunct, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Ascendant
Sun trine Saturn and Square jupiter.
He has Leo sun Libra moon Cancer Ascendant IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 217
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 12:32 PM
My father is a very humble, compassionate, and spiritual soul with a quick and impulsive temper. He loves all children & wants to teach everything to everyone and anyone willing to listen. He's very protective of me, my mother, and my sister. He's also very strong, silent, and observant while also being silly and charismatic. My dad has so many different aspects to his personality but his core is raw and authentic. He has never allowed me to take anything he says on face value and has always encouraged me to seek the truth in everything. He's not religious and his idea of God is different than the traditional idea. He respects anyone who respects him. He had a very rough childhood which is why he's so family oriented now. My dad's heart is big, but he never lets anyone take advantage of it, not even me. He is an honorable man who is very sincere in everything he does. He's extremely hardworking and intelligent. His bad points? His temper, impulsiveness, and he can be extremely stubborn. When I was younger, he would always catch me in a lie or deviant behavior so I never really got away with anything.
I think my Sun-square saturn and my mars in Saggittarius reflects him to a degree. Also my Taurus Ascendant because he has a Taurus moon. He is also a Sagittarius. My dark aspects might also reflect him because I never could keep a secret from him and since I have a stellium in Scorpio, that caused quite a few problems when I was younger and it still does!
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JudyVanTassel
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: The Moon
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 12:57 PM
I don't see my father since i was 3 years old, he's from another country. I have sun opposition saturn and neptune.
My sun is in cancer in 8/9 house, scorpio rising, moon in aquarius.
My father is a taurus sun, leo moon, scorpio rising.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5596
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 01:44 PM
I have a Sagittarius sun father with a Pisces moon and I have Mars in Sagittarius, Jupiter in twelve and moon opposite Neptune. Mercury conjunct Jupiter on the ascendant.My mother and father separated when I was really young. Sun conjunct cusp of twelve trine eighth house Saturn. IP: Logged |
Faith
Moderator Posts: 6109
From:
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 16, 2013 02:03 PM
Sad for people who didn't have a good relationship with their fathers.I totally loved my dad. His Venus trine my sun
His Mercury conjunct my NN
His sun conjunct my sun-Saturn MP (I'm a Cap)
His Saturn conjunct my Venus
My Pallas conjunct his Jupiter
His moon possibly on my ASC (no birth time for him)
His Pluto opposing my sun
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unforgiven_soul
Knowflake Posts: 205
From: Greece
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 02:11 PM
I always loved the way I communicated with my dad, he is openminded, funny, clever, loves sciences-technology, traveling, conversations, sports. On the other side he's not a steady character and couldn't settle in one point. Through my early years and teens we had a great time together and were best friends even though he couldn't get along with my mother, but after that he moved abroad all of a sudden. We had huge arguements and didn't talk for at least 5 years. We finally managed to rebuild everything and today we have a great contact again.He's a Sagittarius Sun, with Leo Asc and Moon in Taurus. In my chart:
Sun square Moon
Sun square Pluto
Sun conjunction Venus
Sun square Saturn
Sun conjunct South Node
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unforgiven_soul
Knowflake Posts: 205
From: Greece
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 02:13 PM
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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
I always loved the way I communicated with my dad, he is openminded, funny, clever, loves sciences-technology, traveling, conversations, sports. On the other side he's not a steady character and couldn't settle in one point. Through my early years and teens we had a great time together and were best friends even though he couldn't get along with my mother, but after that he moved abroad all of a sudden. We had huge arguements and didn't talk for at least 5 years. We finally managed to rebuild everything and today we have a great contact again.He's a Sagittarius Sun, with Leo Asc and Moon in Taurus. In my chart:
Sun square Moon
Sun square Pluto
Sun conjunction Venus
Sun square Saturn
Sun conjunct South Node
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LionFish
Knowflake Posts: 898
From:
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 16, 2013 04:37 PM
My dad was my best friend! He was super charming and more than once I watched women tripping over themselves to help him in a store setting. He had a wide circle of friends and business associates that always seemed to bend to his will for some reason. Or maybe it was just that his way was the best way. IDK, but he usually got the outcome he desired. The one time he didn't, he left the company and started his own, unintentionally taking all of their business within a 500+ mile area. Whoopsie! lolHim and my mother got on pretty well. They had their arguments, but never anything too serious. He loved her dearly, even when she drove him mad  I wouldn't say his family was EVERYTHING to him, but we were important, protected, and loved. I'm a better person for all his attention and lessons (I grew up an only child) He taught me more than he'll ever know.  He had quite the temper, but it took a mile long fuse to set it off. He loved to tinker with things, ie - take them completely apart just to see if he could rebuild it (and he could every dang time!!) He was:
Aqua Sun
Leo Moon
Pisces Merc
Cappy Venus/Mars/Saturn In my chart, my Sun is my chart ruler, it sextiles my Moon and they form a YOD with my IC. I wonder if this shows the fact that I was adopted into their family. Especially with the fact that my Sun is in my 9H. He wasn't a foreigner, but he was definitely foreign to me, not even related by blood. What I find interesting between us is what we have in synastry even though he wasn't my biological father. Sun quintile Saturn DW
His NN Opp my Sun (orb 0'05")
His NN trine my Moon (orb 0'15) And a fun little tidbit: for me, my most aspected planet by my Aquarian father is my natal Uranus. His most aspected planet by his Piscean daughter (meeeee!!) is his natal Neptune. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1171
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 04:49 PM
My sun is in my 12th houseSun opposite Neptune
Sun semi-sextile Moon
Sun semi-sextile ASC
Sun trine Jupiter
Sun trine Pluto
HE commited suicide when I was 4.
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JudyVanTassel
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: The Moon
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 05:43 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
My sun is in my 12th houseSun opposite Neptune
Sun semi-sextile Moon
Sun semi-sextile ASC
Sun trine Jupiter
Sun trine Pluto
HE commited suicide when I was 4.
That's very hard, i'm sorry. I think thau is represented by your sun/neptune opposition.
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PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 106
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
My dad is a very dark part of my life.He is the most annoying person I've ever me.He does not communicate and he is always right.He also doesn't care and he doesn't feel anything.He can't put limits to himself and ,generally, he is all the things I hate on a man.I can't deny that he's given me some good things but the bad he does is ten times worse.What about yours?
LOL. We must have the same father. JK. Mine was the exact way. I refuse to talk to mine even though people keep telling me I should just forgive and forget. I just don't' want anything to do with mine.
I have a Cancer sun in the 5th house. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 1171
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 16, 2013 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
That's very hard, i'm sorry. I think thau is represented by your sun/neptune opposition.
Yes and sun in 12th house.
My daughter has the sun/neptune opposition in synastry with her father and his sun is in her 12th house.
-57 Opposition Sun - Neptune
Negative aspect: The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3229
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 16, 2013 07:58 PM
I'm not able to get Dad's chart as I'm not really on speaking terms with him or his family. I'd like to but it would take some work and preparation on my part (and the potential for hilarity is intense given that the town most of his family lives in who would know the details of his birth has spread I'm a Satanist and a witch back in my teen days) and I'm not in a position to do that right now. But I do know he's a Sag sun. And I have A LOT of Sag in my chart which is perhaps why we've grudgingly gotten along in a "we can't stand each other but we might as well find the funny side when we must." Of course he's worked very hard to make sure we don't HAVE to talk at all (the most he's done in the last several years is accept Christmas presents I've mailed him every few years without sending them back to me). And maybe Sag being my 5H is why I can be casual about it. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 783
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted November 17, 2013 03:04 PM
Th ruler of my fourth house(Sun) is conjunct Neptune in the 8th.My father was never present when we were growing up and so, I never got to know what kind of person he was. He was also extremely secretive and dodgy(8th house). We share a Moon trine Venus in both our charts. *Moon aspecting Saturn. Mine is trine and his is conjunct. *Venus aspecting Saturn, His is trine and mine is conjunct. His Moon conjuncts my Sun and my Moon conjuncts his Sun. Double whammy!! We are supposed to be the best of buddies but its not the case at all. His Venus trines my Sun and my Venus trines his Sun. He has a Mars/Pluto conjunction in Leo/Virgo and my Sun/Neptune conjunction in Sagittarius finds him a scary man. His predisposition to "exacting" a wound is
legendary. He is typical of someone who has Cancer as their Sun sign.
It could be his Saturn in Capricorn that conjuncts my Sun that makes him completely inaccessible to me?
He seems very cold and distant to me. My Sister also has her Saturn forming a conjunction with my Sun. Our relationship is, at best, very awkward(my Saturn also squares her Sun). When we were younger, she and I were in a better place, but now I find it difficult to talk to her, It's like there is a wall between us that I can't go over.
With my Dad, it seemed like this has always been the way things have been and will never change. I've come to accept that really.
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JudyVanTassel
Knowflake Posts: 171
From: The Moon
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 17, 2013 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Yes and sun in 12th house.
My daughter has the sun/neptune opposition in synastry with her father and his sun is in her 12th house.
-57 Opposition Sun - Neptune
Negative aspect: The Sun will probably suffer in this relationship. Neptune may deceive the other, lie, will promise a fantastic future that only exists in the imagination. Neptune will not be able to live up to these dreams.
Yeah, 12 house....i have sun opp neptune as well, but my sun is in 8/9 house. As i said before i don't see him since i was 3.
My mother has her sun,mercury,venus some conjuncting ascendant but still in 12, she had a very problematic relationship with my grandfather.... IP: Logged |
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