posted November 16, 2013 12:48 PM            

(Me on the left)

moon square chiron
moon square saturn
moon square mercury
mercury sextile moon
mercury trine sun
venus opposition sun
venus square pluto
mars opposition pluto
mars opposition north node
mars square saturn
mars square venus
mars square sun
jupiter opposition moon
jupiter trine mercury
jupiter trine venus (this is the most exact aspect)
jupiter trine saturn
jupiter sextile chiron
jupiter opposition ceres
jupiter conjunction juno
saturn trine jupiter
neptune conjunction neptune (0.07)
pluto square sun (1.83)
pluto conjunction north node
north node sextile neptune
lilith trine chiron
chiron opposition mercury
chiron opposition venus
pholus trine moon
pholus opposition saturn

These are the most tight aspects.
We are both strongly Plutonians (and in our natal charts we both have the venus pluto square; he has the pluto sun square and I have the moon pluto square and the mars pluto square).

Any thoughts?
I think I'll go crazy soon haha

EDIT: my sun falls on his fourth house and his sun falls on my fifth house.

posted November 18, 2013 05:00 PM            

This is primarily an emotional aspect . Because talking about the durability of emotion , the quantity and quality of feelings in a relationship. And in this square ... some things are wrong .

Although people ( in the depths of the soul ) knows that the security of relationship is illusory category , people are persistently trying to ensure ... of course, in his own way . So the moon feel safe when in a familiar environment , and when Saturn is surrounded by material things , status , or a larger sum in a bank account . However, both categories are subjective categories .... security.

This aspect says: " First of all obligations ... then pleasure. If we enjoyed later." So let's sacriface privacy in exchange for convenient ( lunch at mom's ?) .

Im kidding , but this kind of " imposing " obligations in the long run detrimental to the emotional component connections. However, it's just the way it hides insecurity and distracts attention from the real issues . The real problem is the inability of this aspect deeper ( radical ) changes in their own behavior patterns.

Several basic characteristics of this aspect:

- Saturn has a tendency of making life harder for the moon in the name of "duty." Saturn next to the moon feels insensitive (which, honestly is), because faced with moon sensitivity, becomes clearly faced with a lack of their own emotional response. Then he begin to dispense free advice and unnecessary things . Or keep silent, what else .... double up.
It was his way of "blackmail" to the moon gain emotional allegiance. On the other side of the moon feels misunderstood and rejected.

- Aspect is hardly felt the beginning of a relationship, calling his influence eventually prevailed. This aspect talks about the time limit of relationship. The separation at the physical level. In this combination the owner of the moon more suffering.