posted November 19, 2013 12:33 AM            

Funnily, some weeks prior to discovering his true intentions, I'd have very bad nightmares about him kidnapping me and tring to rape me and such.
It was very strange considering how kind/helpful/sweet he was.
Then shortly, out of the blue, his behaviour changed from sweet/friendly to vulgar, pushy, and aggressive.
I came to know that he was a lying creep who used people and he had an unhealthy addiction to sex/younger girls.

I was very thrown off and disgusted by him...
Not to mention that there was a 10 year age difference between us; I was 18, he was 28 at the time.

It was a very unpleasant experience, thank God I opened up about him to those closest to me and got rid of him for good before it was too late!

posted November 19, 2013 12:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
I had this with an (ex) friend of mine.
It wasn't that pretty... after a few months of good friendship things really went downhill when he finally revealed his true colors...

Funnily, some weeks prior to discovering his true intentions, I'd have very bad nightmares about him kidnapping me and tring to rape me and such.
It was very strange considering how kind/helpful/sweet he was.
Then shortly, out of the blue, his behaviour changed from sweet/friendly to vulgar, pushy, and aggressive.
I came to know that he was a lying creep who used people and he had an unhealthy addiction to sex/younger girls.

I was very thrown off and disgusted by him...
Not to mention that there was a 10 year age difference between us; I was 18, he was 28 at the time.

It was a very unpleasant experience, thank God I opened up about him to those closest to me and got rid of him for good before it was too late!

My Venus in Libra opposed his Venus in Aries.

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Where was his Mars?
Any hard aspects in his natal and/or to your natal?

posted November 19, 2013 03:08 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Where was his Mars?
Any hard aspects in his natal and/or to your natal?

Sorry that you had to go through that. At least your nightmares never came true!

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Hi DeepFreeze,
Yes, though I'm glad the nightmares were there to warn me beforehand!

This dude had Mars in Gemini exactly sextile his Aries Venus in the 8th house.
He was also a Gemini Sun, with his chart-ruler (Mercury) in the 8th too.

I think another reason as to why I was so put off by him was because I am mostly Virgo/Cancer/water influenced and very sensitive, with a lot of feminine energy in my chart (only masc. placements I have are a Leo Asc and Libra Venus), so I think that may be why I felt so overwhelmed by him.

Interestingly though, we did have an exact Moon/Moon conjunction in Cancer which I think was responsible for the initial emotional connection/understanding we had.

Other aspects in his chart that I think would account for his behaviour:

Sun quincunx Pluto 0°

Mercury (chart-ruler/Mars ruler) in 8th
Mercury quincunx Uranus 1°
Mercury conjunct True Lilith 2°
Mercury square Nessus 0°
Mercury opposite Ixion 3°

Mars opposite Uranus 1°
Mars sesquisquare Pluto 0°

Ixion quincunx Mars 0°
Ixion quincunx Venus 0°
Ixion square Jupiter 0°
Ixion conjunct SN 1°

posted November 19, 2013 03:11 AM            

his Moon conjunct my Mars (and Moon) 0°
his Uranus square my Chiron 2°
his Chiron square my Sun 0°
his Chiron square my Saturn 0°
his Nessus conjunct my Asc 1° (!!!)
his Nessus square my Nodes 2°
his Nessus square my Nessus 0°
his Ixion conjunct my NN 0°
his Ixion opposite my Natural Lilith 0°
his True Lilith square my Asc 0°
his True Lilith opposite my Nessus 1°
his Natural Lilith opposite my Venus 0°
his Natural Lilith square my Dejanira 0°

posted November 19, 2013 03:31 PM            

I actually had a crush on someone with similar placements to that guy you described, although not completely. I didn't know him personally though, I just admired him from afar.

We had Venus opposite Venus on the Libra/Aries axis as well. But I really can't tell how that would have played out in a close relationship (prooobably not too well, considering how fundamentally different Aries and Libra energies are )

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Anyone about scorpio venus opposing taurus venus? His venus falls in my 7th house, my venus semi conjunct my pluto/asc

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Taurus and Scorpio actually share some things in common like a need for security and stability, loyalty and a love of sensuality.
Being both fixed, I suppose they'd be pretty attached to each other and the attraction would probably be very "tangible" - physical and sexy.
The problems could arise from Taurus' possessiveness and Scorpio's jealousy, and the fact that both are super stubborn.

Otherwise it doesn't sound unmanageable, to me.

Venus in the 7th in synastry sounds pretty sweet, makes me think that both people would find it quite easy to share love feelings or show appreciation for each other.

posted November 19, 2013 08:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh wow, Lavender, sorry about what happened to you. Sounds pretty disturbing indeed. I'm glad you're safe now.

I actually had a crush on someone with similar placements to that guy you described, although not completely. I didn't know him personally though, I just admired him from afar.

We had Venus opposite Venus on the Libra/Aries axis as well. But I really can't tell how that would have played out in a close relationship (prooobably not too well, considering how fundamentally different Aries and Libra energies are )

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Taurus and Scorpio actually share some things in common like a need for security and stability, loyalty and a love of sensuality.
Being both fixed, I suppose they'd be pretty attached to each other and the attraction would probably be very "tangible" - physical and sexy.
The problems could arise from Taurus' possessiveness and Scorpio's jealousy, and the fact that both are super stubborn.

Otherwise it doesn't sound unmanageable, to me.

Venus in the 7th in synastry sounds pretty sweet, makes me think that both people would find it quite easy to share love feelings or show appreciation for each other.

Ps. What do you mean by "semi conjunct" ?

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