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Topic: Are You Afraid of Falling in Love ?
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beckylee
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From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 19, 2013 07:14 PM
  
I mean does it ever become so intense for you when you get physical(kiss or have sex) with someone that you would rather run away from that person ?and why do you think would that happen ? IP: Logged |
REVOLUTION21
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From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 19, 2013 11:33 PM
Yes, I am so scared to fall in love. Unfortunately, I'm in love. Or, I like someone, a lot.IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
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posted November 19, 2013 11:35 PM
What in one's chart makes one afraid to fall in love?Now I don't have to move this thread. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted November 19, 2013 11:37 PM
Never. My only fear is loving someone more than loving myself. Losing myself in that person, being obsessed with that person and they don't feel even half as much for me. I'm a really deep lover, the all or nothing type and it's hard to find someone who matches or can keep up. Until now. I'm with a guy that I'm obsessed with and he feels the same about me ❤️ It's the greatest feeling. I'd say that'd be my venus and moon talking there lol and probably the moon/Saturn IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted November 19, 2013 11:38 PM
Venus/Saturn, Moon/Saturn, Moon/Pluto hard aspects. Chiron might play some role as well.IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 12:11 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Venus/Saturn, Moon/Saturn, Moon/Pluto hard aspects. Chiron might play some role as well.
Yep, I have Libra Chiron conjunct Libra Venus exact and Virgo Sun conjunct Libra Chiron and Venus.
I am afraid too, and it's because it never works out in the end, despite my hardest attempts.
I also have Moon square Saturn, Venus and Chiron and quincunx Pluto. ------------------
♍ Virgo Sun/2nd/Taurus Decan
♊ Gemini Moon/11th/Aquarius Decan
♌ Leo Ascendant/Sagittarius Decan
♎ Libra dominant Creativity is a gift, Science is but a tool to unwrap that present. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 20, 2013 12:31 AM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I mean does it ever become so intense for you when you get physical(kiss or have sex) with someone that you would rather run away from that person ?and why do you think would that happen ?
Venus square Saturn.
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12muddy
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posted November 20, 2013 12:33 AM
I think it would be something in your synastry with that person. I have the usual moon/Saturn, venus/Saturn, chiron opposes venus and some other planets. I like being in love. Sometimes love is pain, but it's a good pain haha IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 20, 2013 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
What in one's chart makes one afraid to fall in love?Now I don't have to move this thread.
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Venus/Saturn, Moon/Saturn, Moon/Pluto hard aspects. Chiron might play some role as well.
Uh... were you trying to tell me something, Mister anonymous? It can be fun having mini-crushes but when it comes to actually feeling "in love" like the deeeeep feeling of needing someone and having your world revolve around them, that's scary as heck, all right. I don't know how anyone would not be scared of that. I remember when I was in love a few years ago, it was beautiful but also terribly painful; I would get suicidal over feelings, it was that bad.  IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 111
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 09:49 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yep, I have Chiron conjunct Venus exact and Sun conjunct Chiron and Venus.
I am afraid too, and it's because it never works out in the end, despite my hardest attempts.
I also have Moon square Saturn.
Can you elaborate on why it doesn't work out in the end. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted November 20, 2013 10:00 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Uh... were you trying to tell me something, Mister anonymous?
You've got all of them? I definitely don't envy your Moon, I won't mind exchanging Mars with you though. Do you have Pluto-ASC, Miss Doux? I'm pretty good at making my world revolve around someone but yes it can get scary at times, especially when we really need them and they're not there. I can relate, it is difficult to let our guards down and show them all the skeletons hiding in our closets. It might be related to afflicted Moon and Chiron in your case. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 20, 2013 10:20 AM
anonymi,Mhm. All of 'em. My Moon is definitely the trouble-maker in my chart. It squares the Nodes as well. Uh oh. I have a wide Pluto-ASC opposition - 8° from the 6th house (it's wide but I feel like the Mars pulls it in, since it's closer to the DSC and conjuncts Pluto). Don't envy my Mars... it's one helluva fu**ed up planet in my chart, lmao. I can be very open and vulnerable with some people, it's not that difficult to me.
Thing is, I'm not attracted to people who can give me what I "need". Very dysfunctional dynamics and I want to work on that with a professional because I really can't deal with it by myself. /endofpersonalrant
Ps. My Venus/Saturn isn't a hard aspect by the way! It's a trine. Still kinda sucks tho.
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next to neptune
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 10:42 AM
Ok what could cause the opposite effect then? Like falling in love with someone no matter if they like you back:P
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 20, 2013 10:44 AM
^ Venus in hard aspect to Uranus or Neptune, I think.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted November 20, 2013 10:50 AM
Doux,Hmmm, can you relate to the "regular" descriptions of Mars,Pluto opp. ASC ? I'm just curious as I also have lots of out-of-sign aspects. Ahhh I forgot that you have Mars/Saturn. Mhmm I've noticed that Moon/Pluto gravitate towards people who can't give what they "need" . Working on it with the help of a professional might help, best of luck. /endofpersonaldiscussion Saturn sucks. Period.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 20, 2013 11:15 AM
Thank you, anonymi.Yes, I can relate to the DSC/Pluto theme, but I have a Scorpio stellium, so Pluto energy is always "close to my heart" anyway. Haha. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 2219
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus:
Can you elaborate on why it doesn't work out in the end.
I don't know, they just won't like me that way I guess, lol.
I'm probably not good looking enough or aggressive enough I guess.
I fall in love with them and we're not even together, nor do they even feel as close as that as me, lol. I elaborated, quite alot on this but I decided to edit it out because I figured that I put too much of my personal things on here, lol. But anyway... Out of all of these, I noticed a similarity astrologically.
Most of them were Mercurians (4 out of 8)
I'm not sure what sign the first one was though.
3 of them were Virgos, lol. And 5 out of 8 also had Air Mercuries. (I'm including the one I like now as well) (not sure about the other 3) 3 of them had a Libra Mercury, lol. (same as mine) IP: Logged |
Gabby
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 20, 2013 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
What in one's chart makes one afraid to fall in love?Now I don't have to move this thread.
I have a fear of falling in love...my 7th house Chiron opposes my Venus...
I have good reason to check n double check on someone to make sure there's nothing to fear, my vertex is on my Chiron so my Chiron pain is brought to me through relationships and it's an Aries Chiron, potential for physical abuse and being bullied with that placement!
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LucieLemonade
Knowflake Posts: 103
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 11:35 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Venus/Saturn, Moon/Saturn, Moon/Pluto hard aspects. Chiron might play some role as well.
(ETA: just to be clear, when you write Planet/Planet you mean conjunct? Or just in any hard aspect? Because I have no conjuncts of those planets. I do have hard aspects. Opposite is a hard aspect right? Ok, back to what I was saying.... ) I have Venus opposite Saturn and moon square Pluto and Chiron in the H5. I was about to write that I'm not afraid to fall in love. I love falling in love. I love having crushes, even if it goes no where in the end. I'm not a fan of being hurt but I think it's part of the process. If you don't feel hurt, you don't feel love. Two sides of the coin, I guess. I probably fall in and out of love too much until I find a long term partner to love and be loved back. And even then, when I have a long term partner (just ended a really long relationship) I loved being in love, being with him, being married to him. It felt perfect and right from the beginning.
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LucieLemonade
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 11:45 AM
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Mhmm I've noticed that Moon/Pluto gravitate towards people who can't give what they "need" . Working on it with the help of a professional might help, best of luck./endofpersonaldiscussion Saturn sucks. Period.[/B]
This is true. I've fallen for lots of guys who can't give me what I need or don't love me back. I don't mind Saturn. Why is everyone down on Saturn? LOL. It's Pluto I don't like! Glad he got down graded. 
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summerlite
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 20, 2013 12:18 PM
Venus retrograde.IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 4099
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posted November 20, 2013 12:24 PM
@Lucie Conjunction is a hard aspect when Saturn and Pluto are involved IMO, because it’s difficult to integrate their energy. I meant conjunction, opposition and square by “hard aspects”.
Saturn makes us work hard consistently on the issues it deals with in our chart, not an easy task for someone as lazy as me  . Pluto does things on it’s own. I think we can’t control the planets which are beyond Saturn. We just need to stop resisting the changes that Pluto wants to make in our lives, easier said than done ofcourse. It can go either way though, for better or worse. That’s why I prefer Pluto over Saturn.IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted November 20, 2013 07:22 PM
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starmoon
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posted November 20, 2013 08:29 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
Venus retrograde.
venus retro in aqua IP: Logged |
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