posted November 24, 2013 08:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
This is just my personal opinion but I think
Virgo moons are attractive because they don't play hard to get but they truly are hard to get lol

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posted November 24, 2013 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Its funny you say its about the indifference, im a female virgo moon, and i cant get into virgo suns for that exact reason...
Virgo suns feel so cold to me, i feel like im being judged not understood. They just look at you, and you have no idea what is going on because they show nothing...i always take i as they dont care, because it feels like that.
You would think i would have more understanding of how they operate...but honestly even though i have behaved like that, its terrifying being on the other end of that kind emotionless logic sometimes! I know we have deep feelings and i know we dont give up and quit on people easily....but OMG, it feels like they feel nothing sometimes!

I realize when i do it im not trying to be cold, its just i go into a problem solving mode, which emotions dont usually solve any problems so they are shut out.
But after being on the receiving end of this and feeling how cold it feels, i try hard when i go into that problem solving mode....to remember warmth and emotions are part of loving someone, and i give them some warmth first and then when i know they feel i care, i go somewhere by myself to think.
But if a virgo doesnt understand how cold we can feel and that we can shut out emotions when others cant, i could see how it could be hard to feel connected to us at times.

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posted November 25, 2013 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Its funny you say its about the indifference, im a female virgo moon, and i cant get into virgo suns for that exact reason...
Virgo suns feel so cold to me, i feel like im being judged not understood. They just look at you, and you have no idea what is going on because they show nothing...i always take i as they dont care, because it feels like that.
You would think i would have more understanding of how they operate...but honestly even though i have behaved like that, its terrifying being on the other end of that kind emotionless logic sometimes! I know we have deep feelings and i know we dont give up and quit on people easily....but OMG, it feels like they feel nothing sometimes!

I realize when i do it im not trying to be cold, its just i go into a problem solving mode, which emotions dont usually solve any problems so they are shut out.
But after being on the receiving end of this and feeling how cold it feels, i try hard when i go into that problem solving mode....to remember warmth and emotions are part of loving someone, and i give them some warmth first and then when i know they feel i care, i go somewhere by myself to think.
But if a virgo doesnt understand how cold we can feel and that we can shut out emotions when others cant, i could see how it could be hard to feel connected to us at times.

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So at work, I'm all stressed out about the extent to which i'm being stratched. i reach out for some understanding, some comapssiona nd I, unbeknowingly, approach a Virgo for some empathy. The result???

He had a rigid plan of how I could "fix" the issue and been when he was explaining what I need to do, his face was extremely in-expressive and direct.

I realized just how good looking he is after that looong lecture of how I can be a more "efficient" employee. No wrinkles, no facial expression lines or deep[ marks.

I went back to my table feeling my Sag emotions were "unjustified". I felt bad for feeling so damn overwhelmed. I think what I was looking for was for empathy and not for someone to tell me how I should "better" my organizational skills

This is the argument I have against Virgo's approach. They tend to put "processes and procedures" way before people.

posted November 25, 2013 06:02 PM            

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So...what charms you?

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Humor, cleverness, doing something nice for me.

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and it's just that when i really love someone i take that motto of 'live and let live' to an another level.....

so whatever they want to do they are free to do, i consider my not interfering with their will (of course unless they want to jump off a cliff, then i may tell them that it is a bad idea...and suggest we do something else)
a sign of love and acceptance...what most people say they are looking for, in my world.

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That sounds very much like me.

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I couldn't understand it. Inside my head I was like "SHOW ME SOMETHING!!!!!!".

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I get that.

Two things:

1. She probably likes emotional people for that reason. Those of us that don't act all emotional about things are typically a little fascinated by those that do. We might feel foolish acting emotional, but you're able to do it, and that's interesting.

2. Emotional people can be drawn to unemotional people to kind of give them a center; a grounding. My wife asked me recently why I wasn't freaking out about loads of water leaking through a window. Our stuff wasn't in danger, and we're renters, so the malady wasn't really on us. I made a way for the water to end up in a bucket, and we called the property managers. That's really all that was necessary.

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This is the argument I have against Virgo's approach. They tend to put "processes and procedures" way before people.

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posted November 25, 2013 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
So at work, I'm all stressed out about the extent to which i'm being stratched. i reach out for some understanding, some comapssiona nd I, unbeknowingly, approach a Virgo for some empathy. The result???

He had a rigid plan of how I could "fix" the issue and been when he was explaining what I need to do, his face was extremely in-expressive and direct.

I realized just how good looking he is after that looong lecture of how I can be a more "efficient" employee. No wrinkles, no facial expression lines or deep[ marks.

I went back to my table feeling my Sag emotions were "unjustified". I felt bad for feeling so damn overwhelmed. I think what I was looking for was for empathy and not for someone to tell me how I should "better" my organizational skills

This is the argument I have against Virgo's approach. They tend to put "processes and procedures" way before people.

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posted November 25, 2013 10:49 PM              

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Originally posted by LeonisStar:
I've been in a relationship with a Virgo Moon for two years now and sometimes he drives me absolutely insane and I want to murder someone. Other times he's the most sweet and thoughtful person I've ever met. Just the other day he made me really mad and he knew it so when I came home from work the entire house was spotless and I was greeted with cinnamon sugar peanut butter pancakes, lol!

They have this magnetism about them, idk what it is!

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I dated a virgo moon once and yes they can definitely surprise you. Other times they are critical and naggy.

posted November 30, 2013 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by SmilingHeart:
It's because Virgo Moons seem aloof and emotionally stable. Which are qualities most people adore in males.

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posted December 02, 2013 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Did you know that "Lindaland" probably has a Virgo Moon?! ~ general look (without a known time and place... used 16:00 UT, tropical, geocentric~~ 11am EST?) got ~ 19+degrees of VIRGO!!

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posted December 03, 2013 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
I have it up in mine, I can edit it and give you a link?

I had it on my clipboard and needed to put it somewhere...

I wonder if you wanted a Relationship with the Virgo Moon done instead, though?

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posted December 05, 2013 12:51 AM            

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Originally posted by infinite.nebula:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by summerlite:
[b]i checked my friends' charts and they are Virgo Moons! They are the nicest folks i've met.

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I completely agree with you!!

I am a Libra sun,mars and rising sign,Virgo moon and Scorpio venus,mercury and pluto.I love to analyze things and people to death,you have no idea!!!!I never rush into love no matter the intensity of the passion that I can feel.I am a real workaholic,to the point that my moms always says: "what Davy wants,Davy gets" and that's true!

In relationship,I can be cold,mostly because I am thinking a lot,I am not the type to let my emotions get the best of me (even if it sometimes happens,scorpio effect I guess).And yes,I am the type people always turn to for advices or help,I even earned the name of "Doctor Love" back in high school,even if I was the only one in my group to be single,but there are just stuff that I used to see or understand just like that.

We are caring and loving,shy and sometimes prone to self-destruction in relationship because of a certain complex of inferiority (I've been there),and we also love to criticize and lecture people,not because we know everything,but because we are so practical that we know what may work and what may not.I want my man to be the best version of himself,so I won't mind being pushy,but of course not everyone is fond of that.Also,it's really hard to read my emotions on my face,I can appear completely blank and absorb in whatever I'm doing or thinking,and I hate people who get into my face,they give me the feeling to be getting inside of my personal space without my approval.

Anyway,no matter the good or the bad,I love that moon to death,we learned to understand each other!

posted December 05, 2013 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by NoRainNoRainbows:
i don't think it is indiffrence, i have this moon to...and it's just that when i really love someone i take that motto of 'live and let live' to an another level.....

so whatever they want to do they are free to do, i consider my not interfering with their will (of course unless they want to jump off a cliff, then i may tell them that it is a bad idea...and suggest we do something else)
a sign of love and acceptance...what most people say they are looking for, in my world.

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Yep, this is how I am. I think Virgo Moons are just as sensitive as Pisces Moons (which I have an affinity for), it's just not always outwardly apparent.