Lindaland
  Astrology 2.0
  Relationships w/ Moon Square Moon

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Relationships w/ Moon Square Moon
geea
Knowflake

Posts: 733
From: hitchhiking through the galaxy
Registered: Jun 2011

posted November 21, 2013 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can they survive or are they really doomed?
I only know one couple, she has aqua moon and him a scorpio moon. They have been togheter for 12 years, married 4 years ago.

IP: Logged

Rosalind
Knowflake

Posts: 2133
From:
Registered: Mar 2011

posted November 21, 2013 04:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One aspect cannot decide if the relationship is or not doomed. In order to see that you need to check the synastry and composite chart.

IP: Logged

geea
Knowflake

Posts: 733
From: hitchhiking through the galaxy
Registered: Jun 2011

posted November 21, 2013 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
you are right but i'm asking in general, because from what i read ”if the moons form negative aspects the couple won't last much time togheter”.

IP: Logged

nove731
Knowflake

Posts: 187
From:
Registered: Jun 2009

posted November 21, 2013 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This isn't totally the same, I know, but one of my best friends and I have this configuration. I have my Moon in Sag, he has his in Virgo.

It's definitely an adjustment, and we've had some serious ups and downs. I wouldn't say that a relationship with this aspect is "doomed", per se, but it definitely takes more work than one with more supportive aspects. He is probably the only one that I go head-to-head with in conflict situations. Consequently, he's also the only person that I have direct discussions with about our relationship...which might be natural for him (?), but is so bizarre for a Sag Moon.

All in all, I think it definitely helps if you have placements that give similar traits, as well (i.e., I have my ASC in Virgo, he has his Sun in the 9th).

------------------
Sun -> Aries
Moon -> Sagittarius
Ascendant -> Virgo

IP: Logged

mir
Knowflake

Posts: 1239
From:
Registered: May 2009

posted November 21, 2013 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since vedic astro has become part of my system..

Big chance that in vedic astrology their Moons become Libra and Cap (substract 23 degrees from their western moon signs and see what you get). Those are ruled by Saturn and Venus. And these are what they call MUTUAL FRIENDS which is the very best to have between both. In fact, some reliable vedic research has shown that when the moon rulers are Mutual Friends there would be a cancellation of all the dosha's in the kuta point system (hope I'm using the right terms here)

Ofcourse we can apply ^ to all the square Moon signs to see what we get. Ány more test cases?

And then the Scorpio antiscia is Aqua and vice versa.. matter of mirroring each other?

Enlighten me.

IP: Logged

Rosalind
Knowflake

Posts: 2133
From:
Registered: Mar 2011

posted November 21, 2013 08:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by geea:
you are right but i'm asking in general, because from what i read ”if the moons form negative aspects the couple won't last much time togheter”.

When it comes to SERIOUS astrology the term "general" doesn't exist. General stuff is only for lazy and guillable people.

IP: Logged

summerlite
Knowflake

Posts: 56
From:
Registered: Nov 2013

posted November 21, 2013 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i don't really like moon square moon. It means the mutual emotional understanding is always unbalanced.

But really u have to look at whole chart. most likely, they have really good Venus-Moon, Sun/Moon synastry going on that can compensate the Moon sq Moon aspect.

IP: Logged

Doux Rêve
Knowflake

Posts: 6700
From:
Registered: Dec 2010

posted November 21, 2013 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Depends if they're square by orb as well.

My sister and her SO have quincunx Moons (not square, but still a hard aspect). They're happy and make it work (but they do have some other good aspects like Venus/Pluto conjunct Sun and flowing Saturn aspects).

IP: Logged

geea
Knowflake

Posts: 733
From: hitchhiking through the galaxy
Registered: Jun 2011

posted November 21, 2013 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Rosalind:
When it comes to SERIOUS astrology the term "general" doesn't exist. General stuff is only for lazy and guillable people.

right

ive been repeating this same thing all over again since ive been here on LL. Feel free to do the same and good luck with that, but not on my threads, since im already very aware of it.

IP: Logged

Ami Anne
Moderator

Posts: 49846
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010

posted November 21, 2013 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great thread. I will be watching for answers.

Doux, imo quincunx Moons are very different from squares.

Thinking of you, Doux

------------------
Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course.


http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/

IP: Logged

geea
Knowflake

Posts: 733
From: hitchhiking through the galaxy
Registered: Jun 2011

posted November 21, 2013 09:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
another question might also be ”how important are moon-moon aspects in a synastry chart and how much emphasis we need to put on them”?

IP: Logged

Doux Rêve
Knowflake

Posts: 6700
From:
Registered: Dec 2010

posted November 21, 2013 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Doux, imo quincunx Moons are very different from squares.

Thinking of you, Doux


Ami, could you elaborate on the quincunx, please? I don't know much about it unfortunately.


And thank you so much!

I hope all is well with you. xo

IP: Logged

Doux Rêve
Knowflake

Posts: 6700
From:
Registered: Dec 2010

posted November 21, 2013 09:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by geea:
another question might also be ”how important are moon-moon aspects in a synastry/composite chart and how much emphasis we need to put on them”?

Yep... we've had that question so many times on here.

There are lots of couples who don't have Moon/Moon aspects and it works for them, but it seems that they're quite special nevertheless.

IP: Logged

AscTaurus
Knowflake

Posts: 787
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009

posted November 21, 2013 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by nove731:
This isn't totally the same, I know, but one of my best friends and I have this configuration. I have my Moon in Sag, he has his in Virgo.

It's definitely an adjustment, and we've had some serious ups and downs. I wouldn't say that a relationship with this aspect is "doomed", per se, but it definitely takes more work than one with more supportive aspects. He is probably the only one that I go head-to-head with in conflict situations. Consequently, he's also the only person that I have direct discussions with about our relationship...which might be natural for him (?), but is so bizarre for a Sag Moon.

All in all, I think it definitely helps if you have placements that give similar traits, as well (i.e., I have my ASC in Virgo, he has his Sun in the 9th).


This is so true for myself and Moon in Aries natives.

I'm kind of passive aggressive and they can be all up in my face and provoking a reaction. I just want to tell them to go jump in shallow waters.

But at the same time, when they are not there
, there is a silent "longing". its just weird.


IP: Logged

dadoo
Knowflake

Posts: 109
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013

posted November 21, 2013 01:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dadoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's terrible.
I mean, as long as it's fine, it's fine, but when things go astray (often starts with a misunderstanding), it seems like anything you do will only make things worse.
Emotional schedule just doesn't fit.
Both partners always seem to think it isn't anything crucial that can't be solved, but then everything seems to be getting out of hand each time you address the issue (cause the way you address issues IS the problem).

Oh, how many sour memories

IP: Logged

Rosalind
Knowflake

Posts: 2133
From:
Registered: Mar 2011

posted November 21, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by geea:

right

ive been repeating this same thing all over again since ive been here on LL. Feel free to do the same and good luck with that, but not on my threads, since im already very aware of it.


You are rude. I'm done here.

IP: Logged

geea
Knowflake

Posts: 733
From: hitchhiking through the galaxy
Registered: Jun 2011

posted November 22, 2013 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for geea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by dadoo:
It's terrible.
I mean, as long as it's fine, it's fine, but when things go astray (often starts with a misunderstanding), it seems like anything you do will only make things worse.
Emotional schedule just doesn't fit.
Both partners always seem to think it isn't anything crucial that can't be solved, but then everything seems to be getting out of hand each time you address the issue (cause the way you address issues IS the problem).

Oh, how many sour memories


IP: Logged

hannaramaa
Knowflake

Posts: 6159
From:
Registered: Nov 2011

posted November 22, 2013 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by geea:
Can they survive or are they really doomed?
I only know one couple, she has aqua moon and him a scorpio moon. They have been togheter for 12 years, married 4 years ago.

I don't think they're doomed. I've been friends with people who's Moon squares mine (Leo and Aquarius) very easily, and for long periods of time.

IP: Logged

hikoro
Knowflake

Posts: 1093
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 22, 2013 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ami, could you elaborate on the quincunx, please? I don't know much about it unfortunately.


And thank you so much!

I hope all is well with you. xo


second...very interested in knowing about quincunx moons too

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2013

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a