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Topic: Relationships w/ Moon Square Moon
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geea Knowflake Posts: 733 From: hitchhiking through the galaxy Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 04:43 AM
Can they survive or are they really doomed? I only know one couple, she has aqua moon and him a scorpio moon. They have been togheter for 12 years, married 4 years ago. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2133 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 04:44 AM
One aspect cannot decide if the relationship is or not doomed. In order to see that you need to check the synastry and composite chart.IP: Logged |
geea Knowflake Posts: 733 From: hitchhiking through the galaxy Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 04:58 AM
you are right but i'm asking in general, because from what i read ”if the moons form negative aspects the couple won't last much time togheter”. IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 187 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 21, 2013 07:43 AM
This isn't totally the same, I know, but one of my best friends and I have this configuration. I have my Moon in Sag, he has his in Virgo.It's definitely an adjustment, and we've had some serious ups and downs. I wouldn't say that a relationship with this aspect is "doomed", per se, but it definitely takes more work than one with more supportive aspects. He is probably the only one that I go head-to-head with in conflict situations. Consequently, he's also the only person that I have direct discussions with about our relationship...which might be natural for him (?), but is so bizarre for a Sag Moon. All in all, I think it definitely helps if you have placements that give similar traits, as well (i.e., I have my ASC in Virgo, he has his Sun in the 9th). ------------------ Sun -> Aries Moon -> Sagittarius Ascendant -> Virgo IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1239 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 21, 2013 08:53 AM
Since vedic astro has become part of my system.. Big chance that in vedic astrology their Moons become Libra and Cap (substract 23 degrees from their western moon signs and see what you get). Those are ruled by Saturn and Venus. And these are what they call MUTUAL FRIENDS which is the very best to have between both. In fact, some reliable vedic research has shown that when the moon rulers are Mutual Friends there would be a cancellation of all the dosha's in the kuta point system (hope I'm using the right terms here) Ofcourse we can apply ^ to all the square Moon signs to see what we get. Ány more test cases? And then the Scorpio antiscia is Aqua and vice versa.. matter of mirroring each other? Enlighten me.
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Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2133 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 08:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by geea: you are right but i'm asking in general, because from what i read ”if the moons form negative aspects the couple won't last much time togheter”.
When it comes to SERIOUS astrology the term "general" doesn't exist. General stuff is only for lazy and guillable people.
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summerlite Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 09:15 AM
i don't really like moon square moon. It means the mutual emotional understanding is always unbalanced. But really u have to look at whole chart. most likely, they have really good Venus-Moon, Sun/Moon synastry going on that can compensate the Moon sq Moon aspect. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:27 AM
Depends if they're square by orb as well.My sister and her SO have quincunx Moons (not square, but still a hard aspect). They're happy and make it work (but they do have some other good aspects like Venus/Pluto conjunct Sun and flowing Saturn aspects). IP: Logged |
geea Knowflake Posts: 733 From: hitchhiking through the galaxy Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 09:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: When it comes to SERIOUS astrology the term "general" doesn't exist. General stuff is only for lazy and guillable people.
 right ive been repeating this same thing all over again since ive been here on LL. Feel free to do the same and good luck with that, but not on my threads, since im already very aware of it. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 49846 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:30 AM
Great thread. I will be watching for answers.Doux, imo quincunx Moons are very different from squares. Thinking of you, Doux  ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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geea Knowflake Posts: 733 From: hitchhiking through the galaxy Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 09:36 AM
another question might also be ”how important are moon-moon aspects in a synastry chart and how much emphasis we need to put on them”?  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Doux, imo quincunx Moons are very different from squares. Thinking of you, Doux 
Ami, could you elaborate on the quincunx, please? I don't know much about it unfortunately.  And thank you so much! 
I hope all is well with you. xo IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 6700 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 21, 2013 09:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by geea: another question might also be ”how important are moon-moon aspects in a synastry/composite chart and how much emphasis we need to put on them”?
Yep... we've had that question so many times on here. There are lots of couples who don't have Moon/Moon aspects and it works for them, but it seems that they're quite special nevertheless. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted November 21, 2013 01:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by nove731: This isn't totally the same, I know, but one of my best friends and I have this configuration. I have my Moon in Sag, he has his in Virgo.It's definitely an adjustment, and we've had some serious ups and downs. I wouldn't say that a relationship with this aspect is "doomed", per se, but it definitely takes more work than one with more supportive aspects. He is probably the only one that I go head-to-head with in conflict situations. Consequently, he's also the only person that I have direct discussions with about our relationship...which might be natural for him (?), but is so bizarre for a Sag Moon. All in all, I think it definitely helps if you have placements that give similar traits, as well (i.e., I have my ASC in Virgo, he has his Sun in the 9th).
This is so true for myself and Moon in Aries natives. I'm kind of passive aggressive and they can be all up in my face and provoking a reaction. I just want to tell them to go jump in shallow waters. But at the same time, when they are not there , there is a silent "longing". its just weird.
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dadoo Knowflake Posts: 109 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 21, 2013 01:15 PM
It's terrible. I mean, as long as it's fine, it's fine, but when things go astray (often starts with a misunderstanding), it seems like anything you do will only make things worse. Emotional schedule just doesn't fit. Both partners always seem to think it isn't anything crucial that can't be solved, but then everything seems to be getting out of hand each time you address the issue (cause the way you address issues IS the problem).Oh, how many sour memories  IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2133 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted November 21, 2013 02:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by geea:  right ive been repeating this same thing all over again since ive been here on LL. Feel free to do the same and good luck with that, but not on my threads, since im already very aware of it.
You are rude. I'm done here.
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geea Knowflake Posts: 733 From: hitchhiking through the galaxy Registered: Jun 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 10:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by dadoo: It's terrible. I mean, as long as it's fine, it's fine, but when things go astray (often starts with a misunderstanding), it seems like anything you do will only make things worse. Emotional schedule just doesn't fit. Both partners always seem to think it isn't anything crucial that can't be solved, but then everything seems to be getting out of hand each time you address the issue (cause the way you address issues IS the problem).Oh, how many sour memories 
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6159 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 22, 2013 12:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by geea: Can they survive or are they really doomed? I only know one couple, she has aqua moon and him a scorpio moon. They have been togheter for 12 years, married 4 years ago.
I don't think they're doomed. I've been friends with people who's Moon squares mine (Leo and Aquarius) very easily, and for long periods of time.
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hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1093 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 22, 2013 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Ami, could you elaborate on the quincunx, please? I don't know much about it unfortunately.  And thank you so much! 
I hope all is well with you. xo
second...very interested in knowing about quincunx moons too
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