posted November 21, 2013 10:25 AM            

I feel really lucky these days… I found a guy who have a totally perfect and well-balanced natal chart, with almost no hard aspects and is like 25% of all the elements!

My own chart though, is the completely opposite, it's almost only squares and oppositions, so naturally I'm a more challenged individual who always runs into a lot of problems (both self-made and non-intended)
He even has a strong leo jupiter in 1st house sextile his libra sun, making him a very joyful, funny, optimistic and lucky type!

So far I've felt very lucky just being in the same room as him, things seems to just flow on a nice wave, and if there is any problems it almost solves it self out… it's very relaxing cause normally, just a little problem in my life can turn into a big thing out of nowhere lol…

But how can this be at all? Isn't this a bit contradicting? He will always have his luck, but isn't it going to clash with my anti-luck at some point?

Just to sum up with my jupiter
It's cancer, it's in 12th house, it's opposing saturn, neptune and uranus and squaring mercury and moon, the only soft aspect is trine venus and pluto!

posted November 21, 2013 02:44 PM            

I have very little experience with people who have well-balanced charts - I tend to attract super afflicted charts, just like mine.

Not long ago I had a brief friendship with someone who had ZERO hard aspects. He still had internal struggles, though (packed 8th house).

It felt very comfortable talking with him and we clicked well (the Neptune effect).

But then things just randomly cooled off and the friendship ended abruptly (Uranus).

I know this doesn't help you much, but what I think may happen is that at some point the person with many hard aspects in their chart may start to feel not understood by the other person with easier aspects. Simply because, hard aspects bring lots of challenges and consequently, maturity and wisdom (or at least a vague idea of their own internal processes).

Whereas someone with easy aspects may not be inclined to "dig deep" and can be a bit on the superficial side of things - less aware of their inner workings and people in general (that is of course, a gross generalization, because there are plenty of people who have afflicted charts and are absolutely clueless about the deeper meaning of life).

posted November 23, 2013 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Good question.

I have very little experience with people who have well-balanced charts - I tend to attract super afflicted charts, just like mine.

Not long ago I had a brief friendship with someone who had ZERO hard aspects. He still had internal struggles, though (packed 8th house).

It felt very comfortable talking with him and we clicked well (the Neptune effect).

But then things just randomly cooled off and the friendship ended abruptly (Uranus).

I know this doesn't help you much, but what I think may happen is that at some point the person with many hard aspects in their chart may start to feel not understood by the other person with easier aspects. Simply because, hard aspects bring lots of challenges and consequently, maturity and wisdom (or at least a vague idea of their own internal processes).

Whereas someone with easy aspects may not be inclined to "dig deep" and can be a bit on the superficial side of things - less aware of their inner workings and people in general (that is of course, a gross generalization, because there are plenty of people who have afflicted charts and are absolutely clueless about the deeper meaning of life).

That's the main challenge I'd see, in such a case.

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posted December 26, 2013 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Good question.

I have very little experience with people who have well-balanced charts - I tend to attract super afflicted charts, just like mine.

Not long ago I had a brief friendship with someone who had ZERO hard aspects. He still had internal struggles, though (packed 8th house).

It felt very comfortable talking with him and we clicked well (the Neptune effect).

But then things just randomly cooled off and the friendship ended abruptly (Uranus).

I know this doesn't help you much, but what I think may happen is that at some point the person with many hard aspects in their chart may start to feel not understood by the other person with easier aspects. Simply because, hard aspects bring lots of challenges and consequently, maturity and wisdom (or at least a vague idea of their own internal processes).

WHEREAS SOMEONE WITH EASY ASPECTS MAY NOT BE INCLINED TO "DIG DEEP" AND CAN BE A BIT ON THE SUPERFICIAL SIDE OF THINGS - LESS AWARE OF THEIR INNER WORKINGS AND PEOPLE IN GENERAL (THAT IS OF COURSE, A GROSS GENERALIZATION, BECAUSE THERE ARE PLENTY OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE AFFLICTED CHARTS AND ARE ABSOLUTELY CLUELESS ABOUT THE DEEPER MEANING OF LIFE).

That's the main challenge I'd see, in such a case.

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I agree with that part.My chart is quite balanced,even if a little bit fire dominant,but I don't find myself superficial at all.I can talk just about anything,from superficial to deep subject,with no problem.

Here's my chart:

Sun,Mars and Rising Sign in Libra
Moon in Virgo
Venus,Pluto and Mercury in Scorpio
Saturn and Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Capricorn
Jupiter in Aries
Midheaven in Cancer

According to librarising.com,except Mercury and Saturn,I have all the planets in their own sign, element, or gender.

So about a well balance chart influence,it's more about the way you take it.Since I'm a Libra,I love balance in my life,even if my fiery sign never sleep fully.I am really hard to pin down,and not everyone can handle me.I need action and improvement in my life,hate routine,and can think through lots of things,I am a thinker and a doer at the same time. My ex told me that I was scaring him,I can control my passion and my magnetism (turn it on and off whenever I want,but people always sense it)…