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Topic: Just for fun... Signs for men that might be tough in a long term relationship?
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ty1010
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posted November 21, 2013 01:30 PM
  
Just for fun, I wondered what you thought were signs in men that you find to be especially hard to deal with in a long term relationship. From my basic readings, it seems men with strong Scorpio or Aquarius influences might be hard to deal with in the long term. What signs do you personally have difficulties with and why? Would love to hear opinions or experiences. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 21, 2013 01:50 PM
All of 'em? trololol.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted November 21, 2013 02:07 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All of 'em? trololol.
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ty1010
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posted November 21, 2013 02:37 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All of 'em? trololol.
You have a point there LOL. IP: Logged |
niyasa
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posted November 21, 2013 05:01 PM
I find it almost impossible to have a stable relationship with men with aries/aquarius/pisces influences. They tend to fall in love at first sight and to get bored/scared as quickly. Then they come back, leave you breathless, run away, and then come back again... I've experienced this two times, and I think I would do everything all over again anyway; they are intense! They're like magnets to me, and fortunately/unfortunately, I'm like a magnet to them.
Maybe all this happens also because I am a little bit like them in relationships... YayIP: Logged |
ty1010
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posted November 22, 2013 12:22 AM
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Originally posted by niyasa:
I find it almost impossible to have a stable relationship with men with aries/aquarius/pisces influences. They tend to fall in love at first sight and to get bored/scared as quickly. Then they come back, leave you breathless, run away, and then come back again... I've experienced this two times, and I think I would do everything all over again anyway; they are intense! They're like magnets to me, and fortunately/unfortunately, I'm like a magnet to them.
Maybe all this happens also because I am a little bit like them in relationships... Yay
Thanks for sharing. That would be tough for me to handle, but I can see how it might be exciting for others!
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Kerosene
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posted November 22, 2013 12:32 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All of 'em? trololol.
LOLOL but seriously...
Sometimes I feel like I'm on a forum for Amazonians. "WHAT ARE MEN FOR AGAIN?"
 "OHHH SNOO SNOO." IP: Logged |
Leocassandra
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posted November 22, 2013 04:54 AM
Taurus? Love them but they can be "little" stubborn. If they are mad they can give you long silent terror...IP: Logged |
earthypisces
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posted November 22, 2013 05:57 AM
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Originally posted by niyasa:
I find it almost impossible to have a stable relationship with men with aries/aquarius/pisces influences. They tend to fall in love at first sight and to get bored/scared as quickly. Then they come back, leave you breathless, run away, and then come back again... I've experienced this two times, and I think I would do everything all over again anyway; they are intense! They're like magnets to me, and fortunately/unfortunately, I'm like a magnet to them.
Maybe all this happens also because I am a little bit like them in relationships... Yay
Actually pretty spot on, coming from a guy that has Pisces Sun with Aquarius Mercury and Venus conjunct both Neptune and Uranus. ------------------
Pisces Sun
Capricorn Moon/Venus
Taurus Ascendant
Aquarius Mercury
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Yanmorg
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posted November 22, 2013 07:44 AM
Moon opposition/square Uranus? Venus opposition/square Uranus? Any personal planets in Aries, Sagittarius, and Aquarius? Potentially, any combination of planets and aspects could be problematic in the long run depending on the synastry between the two people and/or the aspects within the individual's natal chart. It just depends.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
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posted November 22, 2013 07:47 AM
For the long term, always look to Saturn.IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted November 22, 2013 02:10 PM
Bad Uranus/Venus they want to date everyone on the planet and get bored pretty quickly and need freedomIP: Logged |
niyasa
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posted November 23, 2013 08:04 AM
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Originally posted by earthypisces:
Actually pretty spot on, coming from a guy that has Pisces Sun with Aquarius Mercury and Venus conjunct both Neptune and Uranus.
At least in all this I've succedeed in understanding something ahah  (I guess I can because of my venus in 11th inconjunct uranus, my mars trine uranus, and sun neptune opposition).
But I'd like to know more about your psyche, what is the most difficult thing in relationships to you? The things that make you run away?
Is it all in the fear of being trapped in something you're sure you'll eventually be tired of, and in the fear of being hurt? Or is there something else? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 08:26 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Bad Uranus/Venus they want to date everyone on the planet and get bored pretty quickly and need freedom
Lol ain't that the truth.
I like how you used "bad" and not "hard aspect" or something...  Venus in aspect to the outer planets, especially in hard aspect, is usally bad news. Unless there's Saturn in the mix. But otherwise it's always "the grass is greener on the other side" scenario. quote:
Originally posted by niyasa:
Is it all in the fear of being trapped in something you're sure you'll eventually be tired of, and in the fear of being hurt? Or is there something else?
I think those are pretty much the reasons, for the vast majority of people.
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darksoul18
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 06:06 PM
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Originally posted by niyasa:
I find it almost impossible to have a stable relationship with men with aries/aquarius/pisces influences. They tend to fall in love at first sight and to get bored/scared as quickly. Then they come back, leave you breathless, run away, and then come back again... I've experienced this two times, and I think I would do everything all over again anyway; they are intense! They're like magnets to me, and fortunately/unfortunately, I'm like a magnet to them.
Maybe all this happens also because I am a little bit like them in relationships... Yay
Lol. I'm a guy. Sounds like me. Very strong Aries placements. NN in Aquarius as well. I find it hard not to bounce of the walls at times. Also I have Saturn and Chiron in Cancer and lots of Scorpio. I'm very hard to get to know as well. I can understand where you are coming from with the Aries and Aquarius though, lol my brother is an Aquarius, just that alone makes him extremely unpredictable (obviously). lol, I love him to death, even though he is so odd! lol ------------------
Gemini with Scorpio Asc (Pluto in 1st house)
"The human body is not a thing or substance given, but a continuous creation. The human body is an energy system which is never a complete structure; never static; is in perpetual inner self-construction and self-destruction; we destroy in order to make it new." - Norman O. Brown IP: Logged |
darksoul18
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 06:07 PM
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Originally posted by niyasa:
I find it almost impossible to have a stable relationship with men with aries/aquarius/pisces influences. They tend to fall in love at first sight and to get bored/scared as quickly. Then they come back, leave you breathless, run away, and then come back again... I've experienced this two times, and I think I would do everything all over again anyway; they are intense! They're like magnets to me, and fortunately/unfortunately, I'm like a magnet to them.
Maybe all this happens also because I am a little bit like them in relationships... Yay
Lol. I'm a guy. Sounds like me. Very strong Aries placements. NN in Aquarius as well. I find it hard not to bounce of the walls at times. Also I have Saturn and Chiron in Cancer and lots of Scorpio. I'm very hard to get to know as well. I can understand where you are coming from with the Aries and Aquarius though, lol my brother is an Aquarius, just that alone makes him extremely unpredictable (obviously). lol, I love him to death, even though he is so odd! lol ------------------
Gemini with Scorpio Asc (Pluto in 1st house)
"The human body is not a thing or substance given, but a continuous creation. The human body is an energy system which is never a complete structure; never static; is in perpetual inner self-construction and self-destruction; we destroy in order to make it new." - Norman O. Brown IP: Logged |
mercury89
Newflake Posts: 24
From: America
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 23, 2013 06:25 PM
This is not for men. This is for men and women. Sagittarius or Gemini Venus or Moon.
Venus bad aspect with Uranus.
7th house in mutable sign (except virgo)
7th house ruler in mutable sign (except virgo)
7th house ruler in a bad aspect with Uranus.
Moon badly aspected by Uranus. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted November 23, 2013 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
For the long term, always look to Saturn.
In what sense? What should I be looking for in Saturn? quote:
Originally posted by mercury89:
This is not for men. This is for men and women. Sagittarius or Gemini Venus or Moon.
Venus bad aspect with Uranus.
Moon badly aspected by Uranus.
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Bad Uranus/Venus they want to date everyone on the planet and get bored pretty quickly and need freedom
Oh. Damn. You're killin' me here. The guy I've crushed on has venus square uranus and a gemini venus and moon semi-square Uranus (semi-squares not that bad, right?) I've been plotting my win him back strategies which I can see now are probably not going to go anywhere.... Sigh. Personally, Cancer men.... Never, ever again! IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
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From: Kingston, On, Canada
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posted November 23, 2013 07:36 PM
I had/have a rels with a cancer man and he is very very weird. So much for us understanding each other since we're both cancers :PIP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted November 23, 2013 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
I had/have a rels with a cancer man and he is very very weird. So much for us understanding each other since we're both cancers :P
Mine were "lunatics"... in the literal sense. Moody, moody, moody and over sensitive. ETA: I'm not sure same signs are good for each other either though. I dated a Sag and though you'd think we would understand each other, we don't really. Maybe too many assumptions that we should just "know" the other person because we should be similar. Don't know. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 23, 2013 07:41 PM
Joining the "no Cancer men, thanks" club.IP: Logged |
Sandra018
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From: Brooklyn,NY
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posted November 24, 2013 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Bad Uranus/Venus they want to date everyone on the planet and get bored pretty quickly and need freedom
Agreed!!
Good Uranus/Venus is a player IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 24, 2013 08:57 AM
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Originally posted by Sandra018:
Agreed!!
Good Uranus/Venus is a player
I don't know about this  The guy I date have this venus square uranus but he seems so stable! Could there be any placement that counteract on this? Like what about some good old saturn influence? He has moon sextile saturn and mercury trine saturn, and sun square saturn IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted November 24, 2013 01:39 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I don't know about this The guy I date have this venus square uranus but he seems so stable! Could there be any placement that counteract on this? Like what about some good old saturn influence? He has moon sextile saturn and mercury trine saturn, and sun square saturn
My crush has the Venus sq Uranus and has moon sextile Saturn. He was married for 6 years. He says he never cheated. I don't know if he did or not. He said he wanted to be married and didn't want to be one of those guys who divorces. So he stayed in the marriage longer than he should have (his words). I assumed he just picked the wrong girl. Now I'm not sure. Maybe he's just not the marrying type. Perhaps those other aspects your guy has will help to counter balance.
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vickymadness
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posted November 24, 2013 01:49 PM
I'm no man, but the Aries-Gemini energy is really hard to keep up with, regardless the gender.I'm always the one who leaves the table first.
note: I have so much Saturn going on in my chart, but still that energy is hard to ground.
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