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Topic: Why can't I have a long-term relationship ??
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 1265
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 04:08 PM
  
I've always struggled with romantic relationships but this year has been the worst. The thing is I want them like everyone else but at the same time I seem unable to maintain them for any longer than 3 to 4 months. I admit that I have a bit of the serial monogamist in me. What adds to this is my rather terrible choice of partners. I usually find myself attracting unconventional guys who suffer from some sort of psychological complex. I once date a Pisces Sun drug-user who lied about his addition and used financial problems as an excuse, also another Leo Sun guy who has terrible ego problems and couldn't understand the meaning of " give and take" in a relationship , the last one was a Sagittarius Sun artist who has a massive "mother" complex and was so sexually confused that he refused to admit to himself that he is actually gay. My love life always seemed as a massive failure/let down to me and I can't help but grow more and more jaded. I can't seem to find the right guy  . Is there anything in my chart that could indicate such issues ?? If so, in your opinion, what placements in a potential partner could actually ground me emotionally ( like Sun, Moon, Asc...) ?? I'm truly willing to work hard for a stable, healthy and honest relationship, in only I could find the right partner for me Here is my Natal. I would truly appreciate your insight  
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5727
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 04:13 PM
We have Mars in practically the same spot and I can find friendships that last years but my serious relationships prove difficult and tend to fizzle out for some reason.
My Mars is at 18 Sagittarius.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6168
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 23, 2013 04:51 PM
But I have the same problem and my Mars is in the 12th house conj. ASC. I also have Saturn, Uranus, Neptune in the 7th and DSC in a mutable sign. Honestly, I think it's Neptune / Pisces / Mutable energy ruling your 7th house. Start there and see where that connects you.IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 400
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 23, 2013 04:54 PM
...and 7th house ruler conjunct Uranus.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 6168
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 23, 2013 04:54 PM
I know it's improper but I seared "MOON IS CO-SIG" into my head for so long practicing Horary that sometimes I look at Natal charts that way too. So far I see you have Neptune conj. Uranus, and Moon square both Uranus and Neptune. Squares are more prominent energy in our charts, so if you're not exhibiting all of the traits of those squares yourself, I think it means you attract it. I have Moon trine Neptune and trine Uranus, and I've had almost the same experiences down to the sign (with the exception of a sexually confused Sag.)IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 6741
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 23, 2013 07:04 PM
Take a look at your progressions + transits.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3593
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 23, 2013 07:13 PM
I'm sorry. I hope you'll be lucky this time ------------------
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