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Topic: Venus in Aquarius- Oh no !
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beckylee
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From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 24, 2013 06:44 PM
  
I found this description about them, do you agree with it ?'Coolly detached. You may appear aloof or unemotional, or perhaps intellectual. It seems an odd way to "flirt", but it can be attractive to those who are curious, or who are not comfortable with overly-emotional people, or who want you to show your feelings more. Someone always wants to melt the "Ice Princess" or get "Cool Hand Luke" to show his feelings; so your "detached" air could be intriguing to someone you are interested in. If your basic nature is NOT to be cool and detached, but passionate (Sun in Aries or Sagittarius) or emotional (Sun in Pisces)... you may paradoxically act less warm and more cool when in the presence of a person whose affections you would entice.' I would appreciate someone who acts cool but I'm seeing a cap with aqua venus and I'm thinking he needs to be a little less cool !! IP: Logged |
beckylee
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From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 24, 2013 06:46 PM
He is very warm and friendly, don't get me wrong. Gives me lots of kisses, holds my hand..But then sometimes, I think he wants to seem like he is out of reach. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 24, 2013 07:05 PM
He has an Aquarius Moon as far as I remember. Is it conjunct his Venus? Anyway, this placement is not known for an intense emotional expression, you better get used to it. What are his Moon and Venus aspects?------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 24, 2013 07:08 PM
I know four Venus in Aquarius people, and the girls are more tomboyish while the men are actually more girly and have a softer energy. I think it's the Cap making him appear "cool."IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted November 24, 2013 07:09 PM
That's interesting. I'm not tomboyish and I even have Moon square Venus.becky, does your bf have Sun conjunct Neptune? ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
beckylee
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From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 24, 2013 07:49 PM
No, he has sun conjunct saturn and moon conjunct venus in aqua !hannarama- he is definitely a capricorn no doubt about that  He is too social on the weekends and works too much on week days. IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 24, 2013 08:38 PM
Sounds normal for the Capricorn and Aquarius combo. I've seen this behavior with both coworkers, friends and potential dates with these placements.IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
Knowflake Posts: 245
From: 2099
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 24, 2013 08:47 PM
i think it also depends on their sun sign, ascendant and which house/s their sun and venus falls in but that description gives a general explanation of their relating style. it'll have to do til you get to know each other a bit better i think ironically you'd have to be secure and happy in your own company and able to do your own thing to keep a venus in aqua man happy. clingy, attention craving, cry baby drama queens will probably not find their prince charming in a venus aqua man.
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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 24, 2013 08:53 PM
I am a Cap with Aqua Venus myself.Well, I'm not like that. I'm hyper passionate. And I'm married to an attention seeking Leo, so a cool demeanor wouldn't work well. That "softer energy/girlish" thing doesn't apply to me as well. I'm an aggressive individual. IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted November 24, 2013 09:47 PM
^ well now you've just confused everyone  lol may i ask what is your ASC?aaaaand do you feel your wife embodies the traits of your moon and venus? like is that theory true for you? beckylee, i forgot to ask where do your planets fall in his chart? IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted November 24, 2013 10:42 PM
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Originally posted by iliketurtles:
^ well now you've just confused everyone lol may i ask what is your ASC?aaaaand do you feel your wife embodies the traits of your moon and venus? like is that theory true for you?
I'm a Pisces ASC.
My wife has a same Gemini Moon as I do. Her Venus is in Virgo. We agreed to get married 22 days after meeting. How is that for passionate? I'm a double black belt in martial arts and an ex-soldier. So, I'm not girly! lol IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 113
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 25, 2013 12:00 AM
I know a Capricorn with venus in Aquarius. It seems like they want to do all the flirting, whenever I try to they become uncomfortable. At least that is what I have observed. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 184
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted November 25, 2013 07:15 AM
I don't know about the houses, I will check It's like he loves me but some of it comes from loving all humans (aquarius!) and he is either shy to flirt in a sexual way during the day, or he has a father-like, protective love for me. He sometimes says I look like a little girl. Our sex life is great, no problems there :P I'm never shy when dating but with him I go like 'should I text him or sext him ? na forget it he is probably working ' IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
Knowflake Posts: 245
From: 2099
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2013 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I'm a Pisces ASC.My wife has a same Gemini Moon as I do. Her Venus is in Virgo. We agreed to get married 22 days after meeting. How is that for passionate? I'm a double black belt in martial arts and an ex-soldier. So, I'm not girly! lol
same moons ok cool. wow 22 days? thats some old school romantic courtshipping right there, keepin' it real man 
ya right pisces rising isnt feminine or girly at all lol stick with ethereal, like this  angel: heheeh IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
Knowflake Posts: 245
From: 2099
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posted November 25, 2013 06:55 PM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I don't know about the houses, I will check It's like he loves me but some of it comes from loving all humans (aquarius!) and he is either shy to flirt in a sexual way during the day, or he has a father-like, protective love for me. He sometimes says I look like a little girl. Our sex life is great, no problems there :P I'm never shy when dating but with him I go like 'should I text him or sext him ? na forget it he is probably working '
your sex life is great? hey you got it all sorted! if that were me i wouldnt worry about anything else lol do that leave him a sexy little note in his backpocket then, while hes at work, text him to check his pocket like, "i dare you to look at what i slipped into your pants before you left this morning x" thing if he gets grossed out or embarrassed then get rid of him, theres definately something wrong with him lol IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5772
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 25, 2013 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I found this description about them, do you agree with it ?'Coolly detached. You may appear aloof or unemotional, or perhaps intellectual. It seems an odd way to "flirt", but it can be attractive to those who are curious, or who are not comfortable with overly-emotional people, or who want you to show your feelings more. Someone always wants to melt the "Ice Princess" or get "Cool Hand Luke" to show his feelings; so your "detached" air could be intriguing to someone you are interested in. If your basic nature is NOT to be cool and detached, but passionate (Sun in Aries or Sagittarius) or emotional (Sun in Pisces)... you may paradoxically act less warm and more cool when in the presence of a person whose affections you would entice.' I would appreciate someone who acts cool but I'm seeing a cap with aqua venus and I'm thinking he needs to be a little less cool !!
My cousin is an Aqua sun with Venus in Cap and he is like that big time, very detached and serious. He is quiet, not affectionate. The stereotypical geek who likes computers and engineering, has a career as an engineer. My Aunt has Venus in Aqua, she has a PhD in engineering and is extremely intellectual. She is somewhat emotional since she has a Pisces sun and Scorpio moon. I would not describe her as emotionless but she likes to detach herself from situations where others would jump in and become very involved. Her response is to stay at home.
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