posted November 26, 2013 02:55 PM            

(Well, I hope not)

posted November 26, 2013 03:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I don't want to sound like a downer (but I will, sorry about that) but IME (and from others') it leads to nothing but empty hopes and suffering. The longing is never satisfied, and opening up doesn't give the results you expected / wanted.
It doesn't have to be that way all the time for everyone of course, but 12H is about loss and surrender, and the dissolution of the ego... It doesn't usually result in a relationship (but there are exceptions, yes, yes).

You can move on, though!
It's possible to stop yearning for that person.
Just set them free and firmly decide to pursue your own happiness, independently from that person.

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wrrrrong on every level

posted November 26, 2013 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
O,

Pfft, enlighten me!

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There are many, many love relationships and marriages with a 12 house synastry.

posted November 26, 2013 03:34 PM            

But this:

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The problem with it is that most likely one or both partners would be afraid to show their true feelings in the beginning, and even if they do open up - the other party may not believe it, so at the end - no relationship would result.

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posted November 26, 2013 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Yes, I agree with all that.

happens almost all the time. Maybe it only happens for people who are insecure, I dunno.

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yes, or if the rest of the synastry is not strong enough to give it a uumph

posted November 26, 2013 04:34 PM            

The few interactions that we had were very out of this world
Looking into each others soul.
He stopped paying attention to me when his girlfriend came into the picture, he was distracted and why not she was a little sex kitten...
I bet she was confident enough to actually approach him and reel him in, perhaps they had more easy flowing synastry. Girls in general use to be all over him..
He isn't like most guys, I almost never saw him flirting with girls. I was just too much of a coward to randomly chat with him.
I think we were both scared, but I use to often observe him and I totally fell in love with the vibes I got which was very caring and sensitive, I knew this was the ideal match for me.
Pisces males.. blah

Actually one time he did approach to do some activity together there was no reason for him to include me because I was with my friend, but I was terrified and ran away after 5 minutes.
His personality is not aggressive at all so it completely backfired..
A couple of times of times we were in the same vicinity and I wanted him to flirt with me so badly so I did all the seduction tricks, talking to be friends acting vulnerable, playing with my hair, pouty lips and giving eyes but I think he was too afraid to approach me again but I saw him staring.