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Topic: Saturn square mars!
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niyasa
Newflake Posts: 20
From: Italy
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 26, 2013 06:32 PM
  
I have this aspect with someone, I am mars (in gemini in the 8th house) and he is saturn (in pisces in 12th). I'm attracted to him, I admire his 'seriousness' (he has a strong saturn in his natal chart), but sometimes I feel rejected; he often asks for my advice on something we have to do, but then he wants to decide everything on his own, and eventually undo the plan - I think this is due also to his natal saturn pluto square. I feel very frustrated about this. Ironically, sometimes he dares to tell me "we'll do it whenever you want". I think it's a sort of feeling of being inadequate mixed to a strong need of control. But I don't understand the role of the signs and houses involved.
Any experiences with this aspect?IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 6887
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 26, 2013 06:45 PM
When I was the Mars, I was in a similar situation to what you're describing.
Very attracted but something was in the way between us. Inhibitions and personal issues. And then eventually the Saturn person lost interest.I've been the Saturn a few times, and the dynamic is completely different. No strong pull here. I actually dislike the Mars person, most often than not... Or just feel 'blah' about them. Obviously I don't know what the dynamics between the two of you are or what that person feels for you, but I think you should be careful not to expect too much from the Saturn person and not push them... Stick around and show you're "trustworthy" but pushing will only make them withdraw.
Try to find a balance - show them you care but don't overdo it.
If they don't make efforts to reciprocate, don't expect anything serious from them. Good luck. IP: Logged | |
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