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Topic: Cancer woman with a huge crush on Virgo man
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Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 28, 2013 06:33 PM
  
One of my longest relationships was with a virgo man. I don't know his chart but we started out as friends and it just grew slowly. A long term rels is possible between a cancer and virgo!  IP: Logged |
sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 06:38 PM
hmmm...very good to know,thank you! :-)Was he shy? How exactly did it start and what brought you together? Did you make the 1st move ? quote:
Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
One of my longest relationships was with a virgo man. I don't know his chart but we started out as friends and it just grew slowly. A long term rels is possible between a cancer and virgo!
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sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 11:51 PM
Also, forgot to ask you about the pluto thing. My pluto in scorpio squares his venus in leo and his pluto in libra squares my venus in cancer. I read online that this causes intense attraction but also breeds manipulation,obsession and sometimes even a love hate relationship. What do you think? His pluto in libra falls in my 7th house.
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Usually when there's several contacts between two charts it means that both people want to have contact with each other and have some kind of relationship. It can be friendship, family, or romantic, whatever the circumstance. It's a relationship, nonetheless, regardless of type. One of my longest lasting friendships is with someone who has natal Venus exactly opposite my natal Mars and it was pure friendship, nothing physical or romantic. It was a relationship of some kind. Just because Venus and Mars is involved doesn't always indicate physical romance from what I have seen. Maybe, it's possible, if one of us were a male, it would be a childhood sweetheart type of relationship, puppy-love or whatnot? Since this was not the case, we didn't experience this aspect in this way. The circumstances of your life always trumps the planets. For instance, if you have a Venus/Mars conjunction with someone who is married and you are vehemently against infidelity, feel in your heart it is a complete no-no, you are not going to have a physical encounter with the guy until he is single and if he never is, you won't have one even though Venus and Mars are conjunct. You could just end up being good friends.
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Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 28, 2013 11:58 PM
sambam: hmmm...very good to know,thank you! Was he shy? How exactly did it start and what brought you together? Did you make the 1st move Actually, I did make the first move and he was shy. We had mutual friends and knew of each other at the time. Even though I've read Virgo's tend to be cold emotionally he was actually very romantic. IP: Logged |
sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 29, 2013 12:07 AM
Yea, mine isn't cold or anything but he's extremely reserved and even shy. When we speak i feel that he's extremely intelligent,intuitive and love that he never seems to forget a word I say which I love. quote:
Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
sambam: hmmm...very good to know,thank you! Was he shy? How exactly did it start and what brought you together? Did you make the 1st move Actually, I did make the first move and he was shy. We had mutual friends and knew of each other at the time. Even though I've read Virgo's tend to be cold emotionally he was actually very romantic.
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Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 29, 2013 12:11 AM
Those are always good signs. I would say give him a little space since he's recently divorced and seeing someone. He's probably not in the best mindset right now and may be very confusedIP: Logged |
sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 29, 2013 12:31 AM
I agree wholeheartedly and definitely will, it just sucks because I cant stop thinking about him. I tried going on a date yesterday to get my mind off of him but i couldn't help but wish i'd stayed home and watched netflix instead :-( quote:
Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
Those are always good signs. I would say give him a little space since he's recently divorced and seeing someone. He's probably not in the best mindset right now and may be very confused
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infinite.nebula
Knowflake Posts: 32
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 29, 2013 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by sambam:
I agree 100%. They are so hard to read...i don't understand it
Yeah it seems to me if you like Virgo best to be super patient! Until they have made up their mind but dont shy away from showing that you appreciate them. IP: Logged |
sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 29, 2013 12:54 AM
Yea,I think i can do that. I wont enjoy it but I can definitely do it.I would love to get him a xmas gift this year but I worry about how appropriate it may be and what to get.I want to show that I appreciate him but without it being too much quote:
Originally posted by infinite.nebula:
Yeah it seems to me if you like Virgo best to be super patient! Until they have made up their mind but dont shy away from showing that you appreciate them.
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Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 75
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 29, 2013 01:07 AM
Something might develop later between you two. Right now though, I think you would be setting yourself up for a difficult situation if you tried to date him.  IP: Logged |
sambam
Knowflake Posts: 42
From: new york,ny
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 29, 2013 01:35 AM
agreed... :-( quote:
Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
Something might develop later between you two. Right now though, I think you would be setting yourself up for a difficult situation if you tried to date him.
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