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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted November 28, 2013 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnastasiyaEnchanted     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What in a natal chart do you think would show that a person takes great joy from taking care of someone?

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posted November 28, 2013 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Prominent Ceres and Moon. Especially Water Moons in my experience. Virgos also like taking care of people, but their way is different. 6th housers usually like taking care of animals from what I've seen. Cancer and Taurus placements too.

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posted November 28, 2013 07:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Virgos also like taking care of people, but their way is different.

How so? I'm a Virgo Sun, so I'd like to know your thoughts on how our way is different... Is it because we usually do things we see the person needs without being asked?

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posted November 28, 2013 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^ Yeah, that's what I meant.

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posted November 28, 2013 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Strong cancer placements

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posted November 28, 2013 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Cancer/Virgo. and Moons.

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posted November 28, 2013 01:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus in 12

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Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't think of anyone who really likes nurturing or taking care of others.


Hm.

Hmmm.

Cancer Moon, I can see that.

Moon in the 1st?

Not Taurus...

Virgo... meh, usually cold.

4H stuff or Cancer emphasis (except for the Sun).

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posted November 28, 2013 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I can't think of anyone who really likes nurturing or taking care of others.


Hm.

Hmmm.

Cancer Moon, I can see that.

Moon in the 1st?

Not Taurus...

Virgo... meh, usually cold.

4H stuff or Cancer emphasis (except for the Sun).


Why not Sun?

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Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I've seen, Cancer Suns are quite self-centered (it's not necessarily a negative term, by the way, but more factual) so they don't really care about the people around them or other people's emotions - they're too focused on their own, kind of like children (being ruled by the Moon and all).

Yes, that can be said about a whoooole lot of people, true (Cancer Moons could even be worse).

But very often Cancer Suns are associated with empathy and nurturing, and I've found that it's not very accurate.

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posted November 28, 2013 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JudyVanTassel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doux Rêve, i disagreeeee!!!!!! Sorry, but i have to defend my sign
Some of what you said it's true, but i think it's maybe the negative part of cancers....because we when we put ourselves i our "mother" mode, we can really have the feeling of having to take care of others, what is more, lot of times in my life i have been too much carying about others. I suppose it depends what kind of cancers have you meet, i admit sometimes what you said happens and as you i have met other cancer people who i didn't like them for nothing, but it's because they are showing that part, i mean, me myself i think sometimes cancers can be irritate, but we have our good things and one of them is taking care of people we love.
I know that's your experience don't worry but i wish you meet a good crab!!!!

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posted November 28, 2013 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
From what I've seen, Cancer Suns are quite self-centered (it's not necessarily a negative term, by the way, but more factual) so they don't really care about the people around them or other people's emotions - they're too focused on their own, kind of like children (being ruled by the Moon and all).

Yes, that can be said about a whoooole lot of people, true (Cancer Moons could even be worse).

But very often Cancer Suns are associated with empathy and nurturing, and I've found that it's not very accurate.



In my case that's not true and I'm not bragging. On the contrary. I wish I could be more self centered ( NN in Aries).

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posted November 28, 2013 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't know the type of cancer suns you're hanging around but I'm definitely very caring towards others. I work in a 'helping others' field.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdsong     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like to help and take care of people and etc.
Help, nurture, protect, provide, listen, support, give them what they need and help them reach their goals and dreams.
Seing you happy or feeling your happiness makes me happy.

I'm a Pisces Sun, Cancer Ascendant and Cap Moon with a 8th/6th house stellium. If that can help you?

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posted November 28, 2013 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancers... always so self-defensiv... I mean protective.

I'm sure there are caring Cancers, obviously.
Caring people can be found in any sign.
I just haven't met 'em.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doux Rêve: Two statements makes me disagree with you.

1)they're too focused on their own, kind of like children
2) being defensive

I don't want to cause a war on here but when you call someone 'childish' I have every right to disagree with you. I'm sorry you met some horrible Cancers but don't make a general comment that implies all cancers are like that.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am the most horrible Cancer person that exists on this forum. Agree or disagree? Nope, not causing a war. Just an innocent opinion.

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Doux Rêve
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posted November 28, 2013 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't mean it in a negative way, at all.
And I didn't say childish.

I see patterns and make conclusions based on them. That's all.
Like I said, it's based on personal experience (mixed with some theory).

I assume most people are mature enough not to read my post and think "Wow, Cancers sound like horrible people, I'll make sure to stay away from them."

Besides, just by replying to my post, you've proved that you're defensive, at least to some extent. And that is not a mean remark I'm making, but just stating a fact, in a completely neutral tone!

No war intended.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JudyVanTassel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I am the most horrible Cancer person that exists on this forum. Agree or disagree? Nope, not causing a war. Just an innocent opinion.

Rosalind, which is your rising sign?

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Canadiangirl
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posted November 28, 2013 04:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm getting sick of this. It does not mean that by my replying to your comments I'm being defensive. It would be flawed logic to think that, it simply means I happen to disagree with you. As I said before, I'm entitled to my opinion and to disagree with you. You can think whatever you want about the cancers you've met I don't care. I'm not going to stoop to your level and start making comments about your sign or call into your level of maturity. I came on this site to enjoy myself and not argue with a stranger.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dadoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with Doux.
Wonder if it's not a question of unevolved/evolved sign though. In females especially.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's okay, Canadiangirl.

You misunderstood me, but okay.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, misunderstandings happen.

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posted November 28, 2013 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Rosalind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by JudyVanTassel:
Rosalind, which is your rising sign?

Scorpio.

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JudyVanTassel
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posted November 28, 2013 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JudyVanTassel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Think whatever you want. I don't want wars but it's true that a lot of people in this forum seems to not like crabs, but come on give us a chance!!!! Probably in your experiences you haven't intimate and really know that person that you have met, am i wrong? As i said,you are focusing on the negative part of this sign, maybe sometimes can be self defensive but it's because we are very sensitive and we want to be accepted as we accept people and adapt to people and situations.
Every sign has a negative part. But for me, cancer are one of the most carying you can find.

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