posted November 30, 2013 12:59 AM            

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Maybe you personally have issues with Capricorn Moon.

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This is not about me.

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In Vedic astrology Jupiter is said to be the significator of a woman's husband. Have you or anyone else found this to have merit?

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posted November 30, 2013 07:09 AM            

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Matt Damon is a Libra-Capricorn who famously dumped his girlfriend (Minnie Driver) on national television.

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posted December 06, 2013 07:17 PM            

However, after a long time of not seeing each other (he quit the game we played,) he made contact again and this time around he told me pretty early on that he was interested in me but he sounded very nervous doing so (the Cancerian influence I'd say.) He pulled out all the stops as far as spending time with me and spending a lot of money to make sure he does (ie. we're gamers and he's bought an Xbox and numerous games in order to play them with me.) He likes to say I'm expensive but he's quick to agree that I'm worth it. lol

He did seem devoted. Unfortunately he's not in contact now for about a week because I screwed up.

posted December 07, 2013 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I'm Cap Mars.

The best way to attract me is by being your TRUE authentic self. That turns me on - someone who is comfortable in their own skin.

So I encourage you, and all Scorpio Mars folks, to never run from who you are. At the end of the day...don't you want someone who loves you for being you?

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being comfortable in your own skin i will interperet as being confident, and yes i agree it's very important when it comes to attracting the opposite sex(atleast women) but you can be outwardly confident and play mind games at the same time. It's not ideal i try to avoid it, but if the one i'm dating/flirting with etc. is playing mind games i will most definetly do the same thing. But i still prefer straight forward non complicated women but it's not a dealbreaker if they play games.

posted December 07, 2013 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Well, what kind of "games" do they play?

Maybe we have different things in mind.

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They flirt openly with you one moment and the next they go cold(play hard to get) then you'll start missing their attention and affection and will start chasing them instead of the other way around.

posted December 08, 2013 09:16 AM            

It is totally different to try to attract a man with, say, Cancer Sun and Scorpio Mars than a Man with Aqua Sun and Scorpio Mars.

posted December 08, 2013 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Kate August:
Be sexy, play up your femininity, and look him right in the eye!

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posted December 09, 2013 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by SunMoonStars:
Mars in a man is not so much about what type of women they want but how they go after what they want...

Enduring, intense focus, obsessive at times.

Men with Scorpio Mars can have whatever personal planets that make up what he desires in his partner. When they recognize that in somebody, then the Mars sign is switched on.

And it also applies to material and immaterial things they desire, not just people.

So it is not possible to answer your question, because first there has to be the attraction which does not depend on the Mars sign (of heterosexual males).

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posted December 09, 2013 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Mars in Scorpio approves

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posted December 10, 2013 07:56 AM            

But this is not how I have seen the planets play out.
Every planet is a part of your make-up.
It is a part of who you are and what you like in others - it represents the kind of energy you can *click* with - and the kind of energy you don't click with.

I'll give as an example the man I know best with this placement. He has a Leo Sun - Gemini Moon - Cancer Mercury - Virgo Venus and Scorpio Mars.

It's true that being a fire Sun Sign he appreciates people who are expressive and upfront. It's also true that having a Gemini Moon he immediately notices and likes women who are intelligent and witty and part of the reason he has always liked me is that - he sees me in this way. His Cancer Mercury is on the quiet side - so he connects with my Pisces Mercury - we're both watery/intuitive in our thinking.
His Virgo Venus is highly sexually attracted to the "librarian" type, looks-wise. I'm not "that" type... but in the context in which he met me - because I was always dressed in a professional way... I actually seemed like that type of girl on first impressions.
Venus is mostly about appearances in my experience.

Now - for his Mars!! Having a Scorpio Mars has a certain vibe. Because it is a dignified placement it's actually a very strong and in your face vibe - that people notice in a person. In virtue of his Scorpio Mars.. he is ambitious, passionate and very calculated about what he wants & also how to get it.
I agree that Mars is primarily about how you go and get what you desire ^

However.. this guy could not desire just *any* woman who is intelligent (appealing to his Gem moon), looks like a librarian (appealing to his Venus in Virgo) - and is open and emotionally expressive (appealing to his Sun in Leo) etc..
That's not the end of the story.

IMO to say that his Mars plays no part in what he is attracted to would be untrue.
Scorpio Mars can't really *work* romantically with a woman who is, for lack of a better word.. weak... or "soft".
It just doesn't work. The Scorpio Mars energy can't carry on in a relationship with someone who is not a strong person - and who is not similar to them on this Mars level.

This is just based on my experience. This is a very strong Mars - so if they don't feel a similar kind of energy and strength in the woman they are dating... they'll usually detach and carry on with their lives, without her.
This is mostly because they don't want to scare anyone off with their intensity.

Everyone wants to be with someone who *gets* them (the whole of them), including their Mars... specially when they have a dignified, fixed Mars - that is very much stubborn and unchangeable.
If a woman either does not understand his Mars... or is dismissive and dislikes certain things coming from his Scorpio Mars traits - this could easily be a relationship deal breaker.. because this Mars sign will never compromise or behave differently to suit someone else.
So the laday in question - has to be someone who *gets* his Mars.

Mars also involves how one person's body energy blends with the others energy. It's not purely referring to the "way" we get what we want. It's also about the way we connect with others on a physical level - how our energies match.
Since 90% or so of communication between people is non-verbal and based on body language... Mars can be pretty important in this sense.

So basically... IMO... the Mars placement can still give you clues about the type of woman a guy would be attracted to.
Not so much about the way his perfect woman would look in terms of her actual features and her fashion style (Venus)... or the way she would be on a more emotional level (Moon)... but about the kind of energy and *drive* he is interested in - in woman.

For instance, if the Leo guy I mentioned would see a woman tie herself up to a tree in protest against trees being cut down... and lets say he was not an environmentalist so her cause was not very meaningful to him... and lets also say that she was 20 kg overweight (not what his Virgo Venus would see as 'healthy') and maybe she was not particularly intelligent either - but rather 'average' in terms of the way she expressed herself (not what would normally grab the attention of his Gemini Moon)........ his Scorpio Mars would still be impressed by the fact that she had the commitment and passion to stand up for the things she believes in - and that she didn't simply 'let it go'.
Maybe he wouldn't be that into her romantically - but she would still grab his attention.

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If a woman either does not understand his Mars... or is dismissive and dislikes certain things coming from his Scorpio Mars traits - this could easily be a relationship deal breaker.. because this Mars sign will never compromise or behave differently to suit someone else.
So the laday in question - has to be someone who *gets* his Mars.

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Reminds me of that Depeche Mode song of my youth (Stories of Old):
"I wouldn't sacrifice anything at all to love"

I agree with you. I will be reasonable and compromise as a matter of rationality, but there is an uncompromising force to be reckoned with within me that will manage to create certain outcomes.

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and this woman was a 'wimp' - someone he saw as a scaredy-cat... he would have no respect for her.

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posted December 10, 2013 06:16 PM            

You might not have Scorpio Venus so you can play up your femininity in the scorpion way by faking it (that is if you know how to. And Scorpios probably can sense if you are a fake). It doesn't mean the relationship will last obviously because it is faked first impression. But at least you have a chance to talk to him and find out his date/time of birth. lol

posted December 12, 2013 07:40 PM            

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and look him right in the eye![/B]

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posted December 12, 2013 08:07 PM            

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I get you want to know how to get him to pursue you… but that means you have to activate his Moon / Venus first, and then he will begin the process with his MARS.
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posted December 12, 2013 08:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
You don't attract them... They attract you.

Trust me, if they like you, you'll know.

All I can say.

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Exactly.

posted December 12, 2013 09:07 PM            

Well done!

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posted December 12, 2013 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Wow Odettes description of Mars in Scorpio deserves an Oscar

Well done!

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