posted November 28, 2013 10:59 AM            

I don't know.
But I'm sure it sucks to have that.

Go for the boring type you find unattractive? lmao.
At least you may have some security and stability.
What can I say...
Looks like it's an either / or type of thing.

A part of me wants to say something like: "They act like a mirror to yourself - you're the one who doesn't want commitment / craves independence, so you need to work on yourself and then everything will fall into place, yada yada".
But another part of me is like: "Well, what if it's just FATE? What if there's nothing you can do about it? The chart is set in stone. There's no way to change the dynamics."

Oh my God, I think I'm having an existential crisis.

Thank you for making me overthink.

posted November 28, 2013 11:09 AM            

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But I do want commitment! I have do many Scorpio placements, a Taurus Ascendant, Mars conjunct pluto, and my 7th house ruler is Scorpio. I do want commitment. That moon-uranus square hinders me though. I hate it. It attracts me to the wrong guys and gets me in more trouble than I expected.

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posted November 28, 2013 11:25 AM            

You say you can't, but I say - you can, and you should.

Scorpios tend to see things in black and white - not good. Way too serious.

Learn to let go and brush it off.

I know it's hard to do when you have feelings for someone but if you keep feeling awfully bad whenever things turn sour with a partner, it will be hard for you to feel content or at peace.

Force yourself to ligthen up and not dwell on the past...

Tell yourself that whatever happens, happens for a reason!

(that's my life motto. I have to get it tattooed on my body, seriously).

posted April 10, 2015 01:50 PM            

Perhaps its easier for you to conduct a relationship from a distance? Or you at-least perceive relationships that are "hands off" as better?

It is also possible that you are looking for large amounts of freedom in relationships?

But "freedom" within a relationship, does not necessarily mean lack of intimacy. And you are at a point where you are finding out the difference.

posted April 10, 2015 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Yanmorg:
[b]I have Moon-square Uranus in my natal chart and I always wondered why my relationships were rarely ever stable and if they are, they're stable with people who I rarely see or talk to on a daily basis. I always attract the guys who are MIA and who want loads of freedom. How can I stop attracting these types?

Perhaps its easier for you to conduct a relationship from a distance? Or you at-least perceive relationships that are "hands off" as better?

It is also possible that you are looking for large amounts of freedom in relationships?

But "freedom" within a relationship, does not necessarily mean lack of intimacy. And you are at a point where you are finding out the difference.

Where is your Mars? I am assuming that I am speaking to a female?[/B]

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posted April 11, 2015 03:01 AM            

Asc Taurus- ruler Venus. Venus being a feminine planet suggests that femininity, female relationships,money,self-esteem social status,creativity and issues of beauty will be emphasized a lot throughout your life.

Venus for a female governs her "blooming" phase and is how a woman may attract a mate.
This is for both heterosexual/gay women.

Asc Taurus- Venus in Scorpio is said to be "challenged".

"Challenged" in the sense that Venus is all about relationships(others). This requires flirting, smiling, openness, some frivolity and a receptive attitude.

Scorpio generally is too self-involved, too "closed off" for the simplistic,open to socialize nature of Venus(hence its "dignity " in Taurus and Libra and exaltation in Pisces)

The conjunction of Jupiter to Venus does help to alleviate some of the "broodiness" of this sign by lessening its suspicious nature so that it is more "trusting" and open.

So this means that you are more open, gregarious and interested in others - as would be atypical of someone with Venus in Scorpio(generally).

Your 2nd house cusp is in Mercury-ruled Gemini.And the 5th house cusp is also ruled by Mercury.

The conjunction of Jupiter to Mercury suggests what you hold dear and what you value. You may also love fun,games and children(5th house).

With the conjunction of Jupiter with Mercury in Scorpio.Jupiter lessens the often introverted nature of Mercury in Scorpio.

So you appreciate and value of lively conversation,intelligence,broad-mindedness,diverse thinking and even foreign concepts(possibly with regards to culture/ religion etc.)Both in yourself(2nd) as well as the romantic mate(5th).

This may also suggest that you teach your children about morality, principles,open -mindedness and the value of learning etc.

You may also have a large brood and even a child with Moon/Sun in Sagittarius etc.(5th house cusp ruler conjunct Jupiter).

Mars rules the 7th house

Anger,suspicion,fiery natures,arguments,sex-drive,accidents,stand-offs,passion,force ,loss,gain,death,divorce/ separation will be characteristic of close partnerships and relationships you form.

Mars(ruler of the 7th) is dignified in Sagittarius and suggests someone with admirable motivations and lofty ideals that one wants to pursue vigorously.

The characteristics of the 7th house cusp may be mitigated a great deal with Mars in this sign.

But wait...Mars is challenged by squaring Saturn and conjunct Pluto.Ouch!! The clsoe square of mars-Saturn snaps that nice Mars stuff away a lot.

There could be something "restricted" about the mates you are drawn to.Or the relationships that you find yourself in could gravitate to some sort of "restriction" or impossibility of circumstances.

Saturn in Aquarius suggests that the partners(platonic or romantic)could be very brilliant intellectually but think themselves "superior" in mind and undemonstrative

So this presents quite a dilemma for you.

Your 2nd house/5th house Mercury conjunct Jupiter has a love/hate relationship with this Mars(7th/12th house ruler)square Saturn.

Your partners may satisfy you intellectually ,but your Jupiter conjunct Venus-Mercury nature can find their oh-so distant(Saturn) or closed-off nature discouraging.

This can be the case in both intimate and platonic relationships where there is a sort of "meeting of mind" but the shared enthusiasm for demonstration is not forthcoming.

Jupiter-Venus-Mercury does appreciate personal space(and this is you). But Jupiter also paradoxically wants intimacy. Which you highlighted- as Jupiter rules your 8th house cusp.

Saturn-Mars square(your partners-natures) can do intellectual stimulation very well. But is challenged with regards to romantic platitudes- much less affection.

Saturn is affiliated with Aquarius.Aquarius has 8th house in Virgo and can be very "clinical" when it comes to issues of sex and intimacy

But even with this said,they value sensitivity and broad-mindedness(Jupiter people-that which you are) as Pisces is on their 2nd house cusp.

What's a girl to do??? I can't say.

Perhaps make the best of what you have? Insist on more loving demonstrations?

Another thing would be to look at their Jupiter sign to see if it matches your aspect patterns natally?

posted April 11, 2015 03:52 AM            

I'm a scorpio venus too, and I have a close Moon-uranus square also like you. And also juno in libra!
My 7th house is empty, ruled by capricorn.

I also got moon opposite mars, which I also think is a big challenge when dealing with intimacy.

Right now I seem to have found the right guy though, and he is a uranian-libra. It seems to fit me well, because he is really relationship minded, but still allows a very big amount of freedom (he got sun and venus square uranus and uranus in 7th house)

But I do think that no matter what guy I find, I will always have a problem with getting "too close" to them, I begin to either feel bored or start some drama.

posted April 11, 2015 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Uhh...

I don't know.
But I'm sure it sucks to have that.

Go for the boring type you find unattractive? lmao.
At least you may have some security and stability.
What can I say...
Looks like it's an either / or type of thing.

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A part of me wants to say something like: "They act like a mirror to yourself - you're the one who doesn't want commitment / craves independence, so you need to work on yourself and then everything will fall into place, yada yada".
But another part of me is like: "Well, what if it's just FATE? What if there's nothing you can do about it? The chart is set in stone. There's no way to change the dynamics."

Oh my God, I think I'm having an existential crisis.

Thank you for making me overthink.

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posted June 14, 2015 07:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Everyone wants commitment. But you cant have that before you solve your karmic lessons. Those wrong guys are there for you to learn something. You need to experience a lot in order to reach your maturity. I am pretty sure Moon squares Saturn also and that's why you have these deceptions. Don't take it too personally. You are dealing now with boys not men. Stop worrying about relationship in the deep way. Live the moment, enjoy your life and think that one day every need of yours will be fullfied. Now you are simply not ready.

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posted July 01, 2015 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I have moon-square uranus in my natal chart and I always wondered why my relationships were rarely ever stable and if they are, they're stable with people who I rarely see or talk to on a daily basis. I always attract the guys who are MIA and who want loads of freedom. How can I stop attracting these types?! Now that I'm learning more about astrology, I look at every chart of every guy that I've attracted or am attracted to and they all have at least moon-uranus or Venus-uranus in their chart, and a couple even have both aspects! I am insanely attracted to these guys.. I guess because of their unpredictability and spontaneity, but I want stability too. The stable guys are boring and uninteresting. Astrology says people with moon-uranus aspects want freedom and feeling like we need closeness is an illusion, but with my chart, I beg to differ. Along with that moon-uranus square, I also have a stellium in Scorpio (Sun, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto), Descendant in Scorpio, True Node in Sagittarius, My 7th house ruler is in Scorpio, Sun-Opposite Ascendant (finds out who we are through others), moon in libra (partnership), and Juni in libra. All of these are indicators of a partner-oriented person which I feel everyday! I live and breath relationshipships. My Sagittarius mars is also on my 7th house cusp. I also have a Taurus Ascendant so my chart ruler is Venus. How can someone with so much emphasis on relationships deal with a moon-uranus square?

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I,also,have moon-square uranus,but I am completely different than you! LOL I am fiercely independent,and I guess sun sextile uranus is not helping. Au contraire,I attract clingy,needy,possessive and jealous people,even those the independent type like Gemini,Aquarius,Aries (this I know of)From family to friends to acquaintances,one way or another they are always glued to me. I am a very reliable person for this who know me,very stable,but very picky with the people I choose to benefit from that side of me,and also at the same time,independent and freedom loving person.

I have a stellium in scorpio in 2nd house, a water based chart also,but still I can get attached to you for months,than disappear like nothing happened,and believe me,it won't affect me a bit! I mus the a vampire!

I do have jupiter in aries in 7th house,I think it explains my attitude.I can love you to death,no problem,but I can't stand to be glued to you for that matter.I need to miss my partner,and I have goals and a life that I can't through away for a guy! Jeez!!

So I kinda understand you...

posted July 01, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Seimei:
Well you either wait like she 'Rosalind' suggested or marry someone older than your dad,,lol. Pick a rich 1 who has one foot in the grave.
just kidding

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