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posted November 29, 2013 05:48 PM            

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I am wondering if anyone has experienced this aspect. None of the descriptions I read are positive.
Also how would house placements come into play. It is a second house gemini moon opposite sag. uranus in eighth house of the composite.

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posted November 29, 2013 05:56 PM            

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It probably won't be a positive experience unless you are used to "uranian energy" which could imply lots of changes emotionally and generally erratic behavior between the two of you. You need to be very comfortable with adapting..basically I'd say it's a "bend, don't break with the wind" kinda aspect

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posted November 29, 2013 06:00 PM            

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Unstable relationship.
I'd say it's pretty inevitable but I don't wanna scare you...
The feelings aren't likely to be stable - one or both people may run hot and cold, and this will affect the overall stability and feeling of security (2H) of the relationship as well as the intimacy (emotional and possibly physical - 8H).

It can work but you'd need some understanding and patience, here.
If one or both people are very sensitive and need stability... it may prove difficult and upsetting to be with that person in the long run. But if you're naturally more independent and less inclined to take things personally, it can work.

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posted November 29, 2013 06:04 PM            

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yikes! to be honest, to date (and it has been 2 years) the instability has always been external. The feelings have never run hot or cold, mostly circumstances, having to move for assignments unexpectedly etc.
We also have a composite Sun Square Saturn with saturn in 7th house of the composte as well (saturn is the most prominent non-personal planet in composite)

I wondered what this would manifest as. We are both fairly independent (cap and aries) with stability craving moons (tau and cancer).

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posted November 29, 2013 08:19 PM            

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Originally posted by xcessdenied:
yikes! to be honest, to date (and it has been 2 years) the instability has always been external. The feelings have never run hot or cold, mostly circumstances, having to move for assignments unexpectedly etc.

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That's interesting, I have a composite Moon square Uranus with someone and am having a similar experience; steady emotional attachment, but circumstantial upsets (including location and schedule issues) that can't be helped.

I wonder if emotional connection isn't more determined by synastry/natal aspects, since emotions are something individuals have, not relationships. Sort of like Neptune in composite and, say, drug problems - if the individuals don't have such issues the relationship won't create them; something else will happen...

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posted November 29, 2013 08:28 PM            

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That makes sense as well.
Composite aspects sometimes represent external situations unrelated to the people's feelings or emotional states. Uranus would bring some distance or unexpected separations due to circumstances, yep.

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posted November 29, 2013 09:19 PM            

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Being a cynical capricorn I also think the separations and instability brought on by Uranus is not really 'real' or 'objective'. For example, when I objectively compared the external surprises in another relationship of mine (no hard uranus aspects in synastry or composite) to this one (composite moon opp uranus), the amount of external surprises is about the same.
It is just that with this relationship with moon opp uranus, they just 'feel' a lot more real or disruptive. It is as if due to this aspect, we both take notice of these happenings when we might not otherwise. This aspect brings them to our attention more. Ironically, due to the 2nd and 8th house, the upsets are mostly related to money and finances, to date anyway, hence hard to avoid.

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posted June 30, 2024 03:32 PM            

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Moon opposite Uranus in synastry is very different from composite. In synastry this is a relationship killer 100% of the time for me. These relationships spark up fast and fizzle out just as quickly. I am not Uranian whatsoever (other than my empty 7th House in Aquarius). I cannot stand hot/cold, detachment, or erratic energy whatsoever.

I have Moon opposite Uranus exact in my composite with my boyfriend, and it's the most emotionally stable, consistent, warm, harmonious bond of my life. However our instinctual emotional reactions to situations can be wildly different. If you can use logic and rationality to overcome your gut reactions being alien to one another and sometimes requiring you to self-soothe, this is not necessarily a relationship killer.

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