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leowoman2
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posted November 30, 2013 03:15 PM
  
Hey, Some advice needed here.
I met this very nice Taurus man. The first date went very well and I got a message from him the next day saying that I am very beautiful and charming. But then I fell ill and could not meet him until 5 days later. I was not totally well yet, but as he was eager to see me again, we went out for a dinner. It seemed like he really likes me, by the way he smiled with his eyes, you know. Next day he went out of town for work stuff. He does not have internet access there, so I guessed that he will contact when he is back. But when he was back he did not contact. I went on with my own things, had a nice weekend, girls night out etc. On monday I wrote him, just hey, how are you doing. Got a reply saying that he has been very busy, but would like to go to movies with me the next day. I said sure, why not, but I have some other arrangements after work and I can meet him after that. The next day I wrote him that my other arrangement got canceled and I could meet him at sooner time. I got no reply until the following day. He wrote me that too bad that he did not got to read my email yesterday, he would have liked it very much to spend time with me.
I was very confused as I did agree to meet him. I thought he is playing me or sth. and I do not like to be played with. So, I just wrote him one sentence that it was nice to meet and best of luck in the future. He replayed after 2 days, said thanks and all the best. It has been 3 days now without contact and I miss him. I am starting to think that I might have judged him too fast. I have never started to miss some one in the beginning of dating phase before. Now that I have read about taurus man in the forums it seems that they tend to ignore or disappear from woman just to think things over and that they are very slow in the start of relationship.
So, what do you think, did I judge him too fast or I did the right thing by ending it with him after such behavior?
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PeterPan
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posted November 30, 2013 03:26 PM
Ive got sun in 2nd asc, moon, mercury and mars in taurus. also venus is conjunct my sun.For me it usually takes weeks before i know what i want with women after i know that they are interested, which tends to make them think that i'm not interested and move on lol, so give him some time  I assume you don't have time of birth but you can usually still look up he's moon sign which could indicate a diffrent reason for "going cold". IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted November 30, 2013 03:31 PM
His moon is Capricorn. What does that say?IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 30, 2013 03:38 PM
what's his venus and mars?
your moon/venus/mars?if you want a taurus - be honest and patient. i just broke up with a double taurus a little over a week ago. i am also a leo IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted November 30, 2013 03:44 PM
My moon is sag, mars leo and venus virgo.
His moon capricorn, mars leo and venus geminiIP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 30, 2013 03:50 PM
if you want things to develop the best advice i can give you is to be patient and don't freak out and jump to conclusions. i don't know anyone with that exact mix but i know taurus w/ cap moon men and taurus with gemini venus men. wait a little while and see if he contacts you. or when you feel like the time is right.. reach out to him and tell him that you'd like to get together again soon. no need to play games with them, though. they're slow movers. my ex wasn't like this to me because i was the slow one. but he waited a looooong time to date me so he had plenty of time to think about it. IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted November 30, 2013 04:06 PM
Can I ask, why did you two break up?IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted November 30, 2013 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by leowoman2:
Can I ask, why did you two break up?
i broke up with him, actually i met him through visiting good friends who lived 2 hours away. i saw him once a week at least but still.. the distance was just a lot for me and keeping up all with all the communication he became accustomed to in the beginning of our relationship. ultimately he has to stay there for work and i don't see myself moving there. there was no way i could turn a blind eye to that anymore. no one "wronged" each other or anything. it was mostly just circumstance. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted November 30, 2013 10:31 PM
Moon in Capricorn: Are practical and responsible. They are reserved with their feelings, and often have the reputation of being emotionally cold and distant. They have a strong fear of rejection, and often put barriers up to avoid placing themselves in situations in which they are vulnerable. They have innate trust issues and are petrified of getting hurt. Saturn rules the sign of Capricorn, so these people are prone to depression and pessimism.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted November 30, 2013 10:58 PM
Taurus with Moon & Venus in Aries were pretty fast, made my head spin. Though I suspect being in a relationship is a different story.IP: Logged |
leowoman2
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posted December 01, 2013 02:39 AM
I read about sun taurus, moon cap. I read that they believe in factual and concrete things. They are very reliable, trustworthy and honest. They are a great support for other people. Other people see a loyal and responsible friend in them. They are understanding, sensible and humble. They appreciate other people and their expectations. They are thoughtful, considerate and perceptive. Their careful examination of human behavior helps to comprehend other people’s way of thinking. They know what is going on in someone’s mind now and after that.
And all this written above was the feeling I got from him when we were on dates and I liked it.
But what is written about venus in gemini. They're drawn to clever partners, with whom can carry on a non-sequiter running dialogue of observations. Someone that makes him laugh gets extra points. He's attracted, then, to cleverness, changeability and spontaneity. This part is ok as I also like changeability and spontaneity and we have had some very fun conversations. The next part that they also like variety and change in relationships, is not so good to hear. Gemini venus people are rumored to be unfaithful due to the fact that they are always wanting something new. But if his sun sign is cancer or taurus then he is rarely the type to cheat. After having read all this, makes me want to give another try with him.  What should I do now? I am naturally lively, chatty, spontaneous, sociable and this should be appealing to him. But I also might seem as some one flaky and taurus/cap might not like it. I have heard from my friends that when they first met me, they thought that I am very flaky, but when they got to know me, I am one of the most principled and grounded person they know. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 01, 2013 06:51 AM
Taurus/Cap moon. I think he's very stable and can be a loyal partner. Venus in Gemini - he enjoys stimulating conversation or he'll get bored.Cap moon can be quite old-fashioned. I suppose if things happen between you two, he's just going to take it slow. Also he probably prioritizes his job over you. So things like this (forgetting the date) is just going to happen again. That depends on whether you can take it.
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leowoman2
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posted December 01, 2013 08:21 AM
I do not mind taking it slow, not at all, but I do want to be treated well. I guess I am a bit too sensitive about signs of bad behavior, because my last relationship was with a manipulative, possessive scorpio, who made me cry a lot. After I ended it, it took me months to heal from all the damage.
I actually know 3 taurus men besides him. They all have different moon, venus etc. signs. I think very highly of them, they are excellent friends and fun to be around with. One of them was in love with me, but I did not return his feelings.
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