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Topic: Guys and showing interest
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Haplesschild*
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posted November 30, 2013 03:42 PM
  
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 30, 2013 04:27 PM
Well... He prolly showed interest the moment he texted you, lol.I don't think someone who doesn't care would do that. Especially a Cap influenced-person, they're not the type of person to do something just for kicks and giggles. IP: Logged |
coolingembers
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posted November 30, 2013 04:30 PM
I added with Doux. Capricorns always have motive. Good luck! (:IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted November 30, 2013 04:30 PM
Cappies usually don't play games well so long as they don't have too much mutable energy.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted November 30, 2013 04:39 PM
Do u feel it takes them a while to warm up and ask someone out, cos I gave him a slight opportunity to ask me to hang out and he didn't end up doing it.:/IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 30, 2013 04:44 PM
Hm, I suppose some of them do need some time to warm up, yes.There are the more direct types and then there are the ones who need more time to ask you out. Don't rush! And good luck.  IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted November 30, 2013 07:01 PM
In my experience they seem to bulldoze right into things after a certain point. But they have a tenacity to not take the hint when your give them the opportunity to ask you out usually there working out something else internally. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted November 30, 2013 07:10 PM
Caps don't make moves unless they are absolutely sure. You might have to wait...IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted November 30, 2013 07:44 PM
I gave him my number n im playful n texting back. I've dated 3 caps before and they were so assertive (but all had venus in sag) :SIP: Logged |
mcmlxix
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posted November 30, 2013 08:05 PM
He also has that Venus-Saturn conjunction. This dude is going to be pretty cautious. He might need some reassurance you're interested in him. Also with all that Cap & Saturn (depending on his Moon & Mars) he might be an old fashioned "courting" type guy.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted November 30, 2013 08:07 PM
If he texted you, he's interested. He assumed you were interested when you gave him your number, although, that is often not the case, which explains his hesitation.IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted November 30, 2013 08:12 PM
well SOMETIMES us guys can be dumb and not get the signals clearly laid out by women lol if you want to hangout, you can just say it too ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
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Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
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Haplesschild*
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posted November 30, 2013 09:28 PM
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aquaguy91
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posted November 30, 2013 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
well SOMETIMES us guys can be dumb and not get the signals clearly laid out by women lol if you want to hangout, you can just say it too
Man traitor. Lol
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Nine
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posted November 30, 2013 11:12 PM
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In my experience they seem to bulldoze right into things after a certain point. But they have a tenacity to not take the hint when your give them the opportunity to ask you out usually there working out something else internally.
Yes to this. The bulldozing type gets nowhere with me. Must be my Venus/Mars in Taurus. The clueless types are enchanting but they never make a move. I suspect they want to be seduced. I've heard that Cappy like you to work for it. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted November 30, 2013 11:15 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I gave him my number n im playful n texting back. I've dated 3 caps before and they were so assertive (but all had venus in sag) :S
LOL same here.
I remember with a cap with sag venus.
I texted something along the line of
"UR HOT LoL"
and BAAAAMMMMMMMM just went in for the kill.
Pretty much just be direct with them.
Compliments help if saying I like you first makes you cringe. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted November 30, 2013 11:26 PM
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Haplesschild*
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posted December 01, 2013 02:50 AM
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DeepFreeze
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posted December 01, 2013 03:31 AM
I agree with both CatMote and Randall. Sometimes we can be REALLY dense, or just in denial about it because it's kind of a "too good to be true" kind of feeling.
I do this ALL THE TIME. I'm often surprised when a woman shows me "in your face" interest after I've missed all the clues. That said though, I'm with Randall. He HAS to know.
But again, he could be doubtful or more likely is worrying and/or over-thinking it wanting to make sure he doesn't somehow screw it up. (moving too fast, etc.) Just relax. Think in the moment and think of tomorrow. Don't get too caught up in the end result, having a strategy, worrying about the "what if's". Just enjoy the journey! Advice that I fail to live by most of the time. LOL IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted December 01, 2013 06:53 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I agree with both CatMote and Randall. Sometimes we can be REALLY dense, or just in denial about it because it's kind of a "too good to be true" kind of feeling.
I do this ALL THE TIME. I'm often surprised when a woman shows me "in your face" interest after I've missed all the clues. That said though, I'm with Randall. He HAS to know.
But again, he could be doubtful or more likely is worrying and/or over-thinking it wanting to make sure he doesn't somehow screw it up. (moving too fast, etc.) Just relax. Think in the moment and think of tomorrow. Don't get too caught up in the end result, having a strategy, worrying about the "what if's". Just enjoy the journey! Advice that I fail to live by most of the time. LOL
As usual I'm going to have to play the devils advocate here lmao. IMO it's not so much a matter of guys being " dense" , it's more a matter of women folk sending out mixed signals or extremely vague ones. I might appear dense to girls but I'm not , I just ignore their signals 90% of the time because I don't have the energy to separate the wheat from the chafe. The fact of the matter is getting a phone number from a girl could mean a million different things. It's the same with flirting, a girl could be flirting with a guy because she likes him, she is insecure and wants attention,or she just likes playing mind games. So how in the hell is a guy supposed to know a girl is interested? Lmao
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Haplesschild*
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posted December 01, 2013 03:11 PM
^ darn you're jaded. You attract the energy you express outwards so time to be more positive!Oh and question, this guy's juno conjuncts my sun by 1 degree (or less)...What sort of effect does that have? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted December 01, 2013 03:26 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ darn you're jaded. You attract the energy you express outwards so time to be more positive!
It just makes me smile. Truthfully, people are so dynamic that I'm sure he's right, I'm right... we're all correct, depending on who specifically it is we're talking about.
I know I'm dense though - sometimes.  "Juno-Sun: The Sun person’s basic nature expresses the qualities the Juno person is looking for in a partner. The Juno person sees the Sun person as their ideal mate. It is easy for the two of them to commit to each other on a fundamental level." IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted December 01, 2013 03:40 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ darn you're jaded. You attract the energy you express outwards so time to be more positive!Oh and question, this guy's juno conjuncts my sun by 1 degree (or less)...What sort of effect does that have?
I agree with you on this. -----------------------------------------
With his Juno conjunct your Sun he views your characteristics as something he may idealize in for a future spouse. IP: Logged |
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