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Knowflake

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posted December 01, 2013 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can someone tell me more about afflicted moon? My moon doesn't make a single nice aspect, it's all oppositions and squares.
I feel a bit broken somehow, but I don't know. An astrologer told me that the moon evolves until you are 3 years old, and this will form the basis of your emotions for the rest of your life, is this true?

The moon is my chart ruler and dominant planet, it's in pisces 29 degrees (10th house)
Opposition mars 2 dg
Opposition sun 6 dg
Square Uranus 2 dg
Square Saturn 8 dg
Square Jupiter 9 dg
Bi quintile venus 1 dg
Sesqui quadrate pluto 1 dg

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LionFish
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posted December 01, 2013 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well now, hold the phone. You said not one single good aspect. But you listed a biquintile Quintiles and biquintiles are supposed to bestow the natal with some inherent talent. Like for me, a quintile is one my tightest aspects, Mars/Jupiter with a VERY tight orb and I'm really good at physical activities of any kind. Whether it involves balance, dexterity, agility, grace.. I seem to be able to do it all with hardly any effort. And I LOVE it.


Find out what tickles the fancy of your Moon-Venus BQ and get a feather on that! Sorry, a Moon-Venus easy aspect in a chart makes me think of somebody who can woo everyone's worries away and it makes me all cutesy-wootsie

But seriously, I'll cling to your one good Moon aspect (ahaha I almost said "Mood aspect" which I suppose is kinda true) like I do to my own because I think you're kinda right. It does hurt. Especially with that Moon/Sun Opposition. Did your parents fight a lot when you were little? I don't know about the moon only evolving until you're 3, but I do know what kind of trauma it can cause to a little one to see their parents argue.

Honestly, just looking at your aspects, to your Moon, I'm wondering how good of a relationship you had with your mother? And maybe that might have something to do with how broken you feel?

I don't get along well with my own mother.. Like I love her, and dearly.. I would do anything for her that she needed me to do, but I do so love it more when she's not NEAR me. Or talking to me. And yet, even feeling as I do, I also feel like I've missed out on having that relationship that I see other women have with their mothers. Or even close girlfriends, being able to trust each other and tell each other everything, something that I just seem incapable of truly having. And boy...does that hurt.

Your Moon conjuncts my Sun by about 4 degrees.. Lets see if we can shed some light on the matter (oh oh you see what I did there? tee hee

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Knowflake

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posted December 01, 2013 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LionFish:
Well now, hold the phone. You said not one single good aspect. But you listed a biquintile Quintiles and biquintiles are supposed to bestow the natal with some inherent talent. Like for me, a quintile is one my tightest aspects, Mars/Jupiter with a VERY tight orb and I'm really good at physical activities of any kind. Whether it involves balance, dexterity, agility, grace.. I seem to be able to do it all with hardly any effort. And I LOVE it.


Find out what tickles the fancy of your Moon-Venus BQ and get a feather on that! Sorry, a Moon-Venus easy aspect in a chart makes me think of somebody who can woo everyone's worries away and it makes me all cutesy-wootsie

But seriously, I'll cling to your one good Moon aspect (ahaha I almost said "Mood aspect" which I suppose is kinda true) like I do to my own because I think you're kinda right. It does hurt. Especially with that Moon/Sun Opposition. Did your parents fight a lot when you were little? I don't know about the moon only evolving until you're 3, but I do know what kind of trauma it can cause to a little one to see their parents argue.

Honestly, just looking at your aspects, to your Moon, I'm wondering how good of a relationship you had with your mother? And maybe that might have something to do with how broken you feel?

I don't get along well with my own mother.. Like I love her, and dearly.. I would do anything for her that she needed me to do, but I do so love it more when she's not NEAR me. Or talking to me. And yet, even feeling as I do, I also feel like I've missed out on having that relationship that I see other women have with their mothers. Or even close girlfriends, being able to trust each other and tell each other everything, something that I just seem incapable of truly having. And boy...does that hurt.

Your Moon conjuncts my Sun by about 4 degrees.. Lets see if we can shed some light on the matter (oh oh you see what I did there? tee hee


Hahaha I like your answer It's very nice of you to look on the bright side:P But I though a biquintile was a very weak aspect and my venus is also the weakest planet in my natal chart, so I have never really thought about this aspect:S

But my relationship with my mother has always been very good, she has a pisces venus and is an aries sun with aries mercury and pisces ascendant, so we also have a good synastry, and not really any bad aspects…


But she got very sick when I was 14-15 and I think that she was also sick before that, but kept it a secret and tried to hide it for me for many years…I was too young to understand, but I think I respected her for being so strong even back then and I always knew she would be ok and she is the day today, though she has some physical problems… because of this she couldn't be there for me of course, and during my teenager years we never talked much, and I was kinda depressed in that period and was being bullied in school

I always kept this in for many years, but she got better and we have talked a lot about this, so I think it has been solved on it's own since then

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Doux Rêve
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posted December 01, 2013 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pretty much.

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Here Are Some Indications of a Wounded Moon

Saturn has often been called “the leaden planet” because its dark energy leads a person to feel heavy, emotionally depressed, and blocked from any sense of inner nurturing. They are often unaware of the cause of this depression. This person was born depressed, because their life began in a depressing environment. The nurturing energy of the mother (the Moon) was denied them. Even though the mother may be present in childhood, the child gets the message that the mother is cold and uncaring. This Saturn aspect indicates that the mother does not sustain the child emotionally in some way. This may not be the mother’s fault because she could be unaware of what is happening to her child.. There may be karmic conditions in which she has no choice. But, regardless of the circumastances, the child feels unloved and unprotected by the mother.

When Uranus in the birth chart afflicts the Moon, it creates a volatile energy and indicates an emotionally rebellious individual. They cannot tolerate any restrictions or boundaries in their personal life. They may have had some traumatic birth experience where they had a hard time getting out of the womb. This experience could be the cause of why they have such strong reactions to being restricted in any way. Their attitude toward their mother or other family members may be unreasonable and emotionally reactive. They seem to be very touchy individuals and can “fly off the handle” in an instant.

When Neptune has a negative relationship to the Moon in the birth chart: A Moon that is afflicted by Neptune often reveals a deep sadness in the person. They feel that they were abandoned by the mother and feel totally unsustained by her. This condition creates very deep emotional needs and often leads the person to become a caretaker of others in order to feel nurtured themselves. They have a great “need to be needed” and will often sacrifice their own life caring for others. In this way, they feel connected emotionally. They have a strong feeling that they have never had a home and feel cut off from any sense of being nurtured.

When Pluto has a negative relationship to the Moon in the birth chart, there is a very deep and painful affliction which creates tremendous anxiety within the individual. When there is even a hint that their security is threatened, they will burst out in a most terrifying rage. Much of this exists in their imagination, but nevertheless, very real to them. To most people the event that triggered the rage seems like a very minor one. The negative outburst seems totally uncalled for. This person is always “putting out fires” which don’t really exist. They often react with such intensity that people tend to avoid their company. They can be very coercive and emotionally demanding, and they find it practically impossible to adjust their needs to the needs of others. They are simply too busy trying to manage their own insecurity to be bothered by the needs of other people.


http://www.skysage.com/do-you-have-a-wounded-moon/

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FlashFouette
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posted December 01, 2013 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FlashFouette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon square Saturn and Moon opp Pluto.
It's not so bad.
My relationship with my mother is normal.
I actually think she's too nurturing and overprotective.
Needless to say my personality is like a nuclear winter

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I'm so cappy
Knowflake

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posted December 01, 2013 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Saturn has often been called “the leaden planet” because its dark energy leads a person to feel heavy, emotionally depressed, and blocked from any sense of inner nurturing. They are often unaware of the cause of this depression. This person was born depressed, because their life began in a depressing environment. The nurturing energy of the mother (the Moon) was denied them. Even though the mother may be present in childhood, the child gets the message that the mother is cold and uncaring. This Saturn aspect indicates that the mother does not sustain the child emotionally in some way. This may not be the mother’s fault because she could be unaware of what is happening to her child.. There may be karmic conditions in which she has no choice. But, regardless of the circumastances, the child feels unloved and unprotected by the mother."

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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