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posted December 03, 2013 12:15 AM            

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I've had the neptune-mars and uranus-mars opposition with 2/3 guys I've been deeply attached to and I couldn't figure out exactly what was going on between us until recently. In both cases, I am the Neptune and the Uranus person, but ironically, I feel more like the mars person. When I researched the neptune-mars aspect, it says I often act in a deceitful and mistrustful way in the eyes if the mars person or at least that's how they view my actions, but in actuality, I am the one that always feels blinded or deceived when I find out later that these guys are nothing like I imagined. What do you think is going on here? Also, in the uranus-mars opposition between us, websites say that the uranus person (me) destabilizes the mars person (the two guys) and created instability in the relationship. In both cases, I am always doing the chasing and both guys have always been "unavailable" or distant and aloof. One of the guys had venus opposition uranus (unavailable type) as well as mars opposition neptune (sneaky and deceitful behavior) is his own chart so that could be why those feelings are there, but the other guy has no aspects to uranus and personal planets, but he does have the mars opposition neptune as well. I do have a moon square uranus and neptune which probably explain my attraction to these guys, but back to the overall question, what's going on here? I realize now that neptune and uranus in opposition to mars is a very key theme in my most passionate relationships which is why find it so hard to let go, especially with my mars conjunct pluto, sun conjunct pluto natal aspects. Why is it that I fill more like the mars in these positions?

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posted December 04, 2013 12:35 PM            

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Anyone?

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posted December 04, 2013 03:37 PM            

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Cant help you much, but I have Mars-Uranus DW and Mars-Neptune DW with someone (his Neptune conjuncts my Mars and my Neptune opposes his mars (wide orb), his Uranus squares my Mars and my Uranus trines his Mars). He chased me in the beginning, but he is unavailable, so now it is mainly teasing and tension when we bump into each other. It is very frustrating. Neptune/Mars promises great intimacy, but it remains unfulfilled, if other aspects dont support it.

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posted December 04, 2013 04:08 PM            

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Because your Neptune/Uranus affect their Mars, and make them act in a Neptunian/Uranian way (deceit, inconstancy).

The outer planet is actually usually at the receiving end of the "bad effects" - at least when it comes to Mars and the Sun in aspect to Neptune and Uranus (Pluto seems to be different).

You attract that type of dynamic because a part of you is not ready or doesn't want to deal with real intimacy.

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posted December 04, 2013 10:45 PM            

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That explains a lot.. I wish I knew what is blocking my need for intimacy. Am I too young? 20 years old.. That's another issue for another forum, but it just makes me think. Almost all of the guys I've dealt with has had a moon-uranus aspect or a venus-uranus aspect. It's crazy how dead on Astrology is. I wish I could figure out what's blocking my need for intimacy because that's what I truly desire, but seem to never get with these Uranian types. The unavailable ones are so sexy and mysterious, but they'll never be what I want which is available.

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posted December 05, 2013 03:21 AM            

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Maybe deep down you are afraid of getting hurt and being abandoned by someone who supposedly loves you.

Could be trust issues or a lack of self-esteem as well.

Could be many things.

Don't worry about it though, you're not the only one in this case.
I am sure you'll find what you wish for some day.

Wish you the best of luck.

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