posted December 03, 2013 11:42 AM            

I wouldn't suggest starting a new romantic relationship during Venus retro, unless there are things in the chart that mitigate this.

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posted December 03, 2013 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
It's review. We clean house in our relationships to resolve conflicts. Most often, it's not new - but old - relations which become the focus.

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posted December 03, 2013 01:03 PM            

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Originally posted by TempuraNostril:
Where will venus be transiting in your chart?

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I do not know how to figure that out . I just really started learning everything about a week ago, would I be able to tell through my natal chart?

Sun Virgo 25.12
Ascendant Cancer 17.51
Moon Pisces 7.54
II Leo 9.16
Mercury Libra 19.59
III Virgo 3.42
Venus Scorpio 8.11
IV Libra 3.35
Mars Cancer 20.29
V Scorpio 9.02
Jupiter Scorpio 12.42.
VI Sag 15.27
Saturn Pisces 7.46 R
VII Cap 17.51
Uranus Cap 22.28 R
VIII Aqua 9.16
Neptune Cap 20.38 R
IX Pisces 3.42
Pluto Scorp 25.50
MH. Aries 3.35
Lilith Taurus 18.13
XI Taurus 9.02
Asc node Scorp. 15.49
XII Gemini 15.27

Venus in IV

She is lucky enough to have many happy occasions all through life. Strong friendships which can affect the emotional life. She usually makes a good marriage. Happy family life. Good work situation.

posted December 03, 2013 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Usually brings back old loves i.e. women and men you considered dating in the past, Ex's, first loves etc. both good and bad.

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posted December 03, 2013 06:48 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I do not know how to figure that out . I just really started learning everything about a week ago, would I be able to tell through my natal chart? (:

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Transiting Venus:
When Venus goes Retrograde, it will basically be cruising back and forth over your Descendant.

posted December 03, 2013 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by coolingembers:
[b] I do not know how to figure that out . I just really started learning everything about a week ago, would I be able to tell through my natal chart? (:

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Transiting Venus:
When Venus goes Retrograde, it will basically be cruising back and forth over your Descendant.

(High-fiving Uranus and Neptune as it comes and goes; almost but not quite reaching Pluto when in the Sixth...) [/B][/QUOTE]

posted December 03, 2013 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I like that wording . It makes it seem more positive . I've been stressing since my guy of a year and half and I started drifting... The day of the shadow period starting he slid back a little. Now, we had a very serious talk and I feel much more stable. Now that I have stable ground I was weary of said retrograde because I am loving how were finding a way to 'get back'to the 'old days' (:

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I don't like doomsaying astrology. Linda never condemned anything; just worked harder to make it work. I respect and attempt to emulate that example best I'm able.

I concur with the effects up the upcoming retro period, but can't help but feel the Nodal influence. There's some karmic completion going on, too, I think.

This period is likely going to be a bit of a karmic clearinghouse influence. We NEED to resolve these relationships in order to evolve - and get where we're headed.

So, for me, it's much the same. Resolving past-and-newly-rekindled relationships. Venus retro simply ushers in Exes Hour. Our own natals - and the transits involved - will show whether it's comedy, horror, or romance.

posted December 03, 2013 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by coolingembers:
My goal was to figure out where it was gonna hit and prepare. I was hoping the focus, for once, would not be my relationship . Even if it is Venus!

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Bebopping across your Descendant? Yeah. No chance of that. Better get ready to do a relationship autopsy! Grab the latex and pack a sack lunch.

(Ex-criminalist humour.)

posted December 03, 2013 07:31 PM            

Also, when I told you that you had a complete mirror of your Planets Transiting, that just meant that your Natals were being affected in almost every way imaginable.

I'd never seen anything like it.

Here's a list, all Conjunctions:

Transiting - Natal

Jupiter - Mars on Ascendant
Mars - Sun in Third
North Node- Venus
Saturn - North Node in Fifth
Mercury - Pluto in Fifth
Venus - Uranus/Neptune in Seventh
Neptune - Saturn/Moon Eighth/Ninth Cusp

posted December 03, 2013 08:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Sorry, just wanted you to get a clear reading.

Also, when I told you that you had a complete mirror of your Planets Transiting, that just meant that your Natals were being affected in almost every way imaginable.

I'd never seen anything like it.

Here's a list, all Conjunctions:

Transiting - Natal

Jupiter - Mars on Ascendant
Mars - Sun in Third
North Node- Venus
Saturn - North Node in Fifth
Mercury - Pluto in Fifth
Venus - Uranus/Neptune in Seventh
Neptune - Saturn/Moon Eighth/Ninth Cusp

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Dont be sorry, i love clear reading, im just new to this so i have a hard time understanding the info im given... But its really nice of you to take the time to even give me the info.

Would you mind adding me elsewhere so we can speak easier? This site freezes on me!

Somehow the 'never seen anything like it' doesn't sound too good. Maybe this is the cause of my newfound anxiety. I feel like I'm losing it...

One other person read my chart, and basically told me I had nothing going on and was stressing over nothing...

posted December 03, 2013 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Bebopping across your Descendant? Yeah. No chance of that. Better get ready to do a relationship autopsy! Grab the latex and pack a sack lunch.

(Ex-criminalist humour.)

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Hey, if relationship autoposy means we continue to change and resolidify weak points I'm good with that. Hell I'd love that.

If it means just arguing and pain and being torn no thanks.

posted December 03, 2013 08:09 PM            

I'm sorry, I don't do any of those sites, I really can't stand Facebook and all those things...

posted December 03, 2013 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
It's review. We clean house in our relationships to resolve conflicts. Most often, it's not new - but old - relations which become the focus.

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posted December 03, 2013 08:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Ellynlvx:
Well, I have looked at charts, and they looked fine, but then I looked at the Transits, and what was going on to those charts was a complete surprise.

I'm sorry, I don't do any of those sites, I really can't stand Facebook and all those things...

I think it's been freezing because we have all three been doing things at once, to tell you the truth.

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I understand (: . The Facebook thing that is lol

I just didnt wanna go off subject on this thread/ keep freezing but its not that bad

posted December 03, 2013 11:00 PM            

There's also one guy who has messaged me every Venus Retrograde since we went on one date almost six years ago. He actually messaged me a little early this year (early November). The guy is married now though (and was during the last retro too), and every time I turn him down. Maybe he'll get it by the next retro...

posted December 04, 2013 03:13 AM            

Right now Venus is transiting my 11th house and will be there both direct and Rx till March. Note that my natal Venus is Rx too, in Aquarius, who rules the 11th house... I'm pretty sure this signifies a lover through my circle of friends. My Sun is in Capricorn at 26 degrees... Really looking forward to see what's gonna happen!

Here's a simple article about this Venus Rx.

Venus Retrograde

When Venus is retrograde, we re-evaluate many things in our lives, aiming to achieve that perfect balance of beauty, harmony and happiness. We re-evaluate our important relationships to see if they are providing us the harmony we hoped for. We look around our environment and make adjustments; rearranging the furniture, repainting the walls a different color, or making other changes to beautify our surroundings. It is the same with our personal appearance; we try a new hairstyle or redecorate ourselves, always with this urge towards more beautification. It is a good idea to allow for this period of experimentation since preferences may change again by the time Venus concludes her retrograde cycle.

It’s only about every 18 months that Venus goes retrograde for about 40 days. She spends the least amount of time retrograde of any of the “planets”. (Of course the Sun and Moon are technically the “lights” and they never go retrograde.)

Venus’s next retrograde period begins December 21, 2013 when Venus stations at 28º Capricorn. Venus moves back to 13º Capricorn, resuming direct motion on January 31, 2014. Venus makes it back to 28º Capricorn on March 3, 2014.

Venus is rather like our happiness gauge. During its backward motion we have the opportunity to take a deep look at what is making us happy, whether it be relationships, situations, environment or “things”. We enter a period of review of these.

Throughout this process, keep in mind that Venus has to do with attraction, affections, and objects of devotion. Venus connects to the sentiments and since our sensitive side is more sensitive than usual, it’s a good idea to practice diplomacy and be gentle, especially with those you love. They are likely to be the first target of your displeasure. Give others the benefit of the doubt.

If the passions are aroused a new relationship could form. In this case you might need to reevaluate how precious your freedom is. In many cases, there’s a matter of a choice; giving up one thing in order to have another. Incidentally, it’s a good time to explore a new relationship but not a good time to wed. For some, the need to end a relationship will be real and a wise choice, however, you should be wary of the impulse for this Venus to act too quickly. Think it over carefully and if you have the slightest inkling that you could be making a mistake, wait awhile. We may be anxious to turn over a new leaf only to find later on that something crucial is missing from the new page.

Ruling objects of beauty, art, décor, jewelry, etc. this may not be the best time to make expensive purchases, but a time to de-clutter and let go of things that are no longer a reflection of who you are. Look around you; what about that old collection of ______ from the ’80s? Does it still bring you the pleasure it once did or have you outgrown it? Let it go and make room to grow. You may not want to actually sell it until Venus turns direct if it’s really valuable but you can spruce it up and get it ready – emotionally detach.

Of course, there’s always the chance that something will “happen to” some of our “stuff” that upsets us. We lose something, break something, plans are cancelled, etc. If you find a way to use the energy of this transit constructively, however, fewer of these incidents will occur.

posted December 04, 2013 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
When does it start

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Starts December 21, 2013. Goes direct January 31, 2014

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