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posted December 04, 2013 12:43 PM            

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Its a long story but I will try to keep it short.. I have been talking to this Pisces man for about 2 years, it started off slow in conversation but now we talk everyday all day.. here is my dilemma, we agreed to be friends with benefits when we were still kind of acquantances but after our first encounter is when he started texting me everyday.. I knew he had a child with a woman he did not care for and they had a lot of issues and had tried being in a relationship but it didnt work.. thru our relationship he opened up and shared a lot with me.. the mother of his child really wants to be with him and he felt he got trapped, he really loves his daughter and from some of the things he has told me I think he has concerns about the well being of his daughter with her mother.. Well in the last couple of months he has decided to give it another try with her for the sake of his daughter and our benefits came to an end, the mother is also really good at manipulating him and making him feel guilty... So now they are living together but I do not see it working out as do a lot of our mutual friends and I am sure his family has their doubts too as they have never been a fan of her (she has done some crazy violent things in the past).. He has also recently shared with me that he still has his attorney on retainer and if things go bad he will be asking for 100% custoday (affirms my thoughts of his fears). The way I see it is he has chosen his daughter over me, not the mother and that is why I can let him go do what he needs to do, I have been nothing but supportive and understanding and will continue to do so no matter what happens.. Weve always talked a lot but our communication has increased since he has decided to move in with her, we talk a lot more on nights and weekends. he has also come by my place a few times to hang out and talk, he hugs me when he leaves and the last time he said I cant touch you too much as he was hugging me. He is a Pisces and I am a cancer, we have a connection like I have never had in my life... Because he is so emotional and almost feminine, its hard for me to determine if he just cares for me as a friend or if he cares for me as more than a friend.. my insticts and every part of me says he cares about me much more than just a friend...he does tend to get jealous and one person in particular really gets to him.. He keeps asking me about meeting someone but Im not looking or interested in meeting someone right now, my life is pretty good and I dont feel like that is missing from my life.. it bugs me that he asks or brings it up frequently, I have even told him I wasnt looking when he came into my life and i didnt expect us to have the relationshop that we do... I dont want to do anything to hurt him or that would jeopardize us having something more in the future so some insite on how much he cares about me would be great.. I know pisces are very caring and emotional and maybe he just cares about me as a friend but we talk everyday all day about anything and everything.. he is almost my best friend and its amazing to me that we dont run out of things to talk about.. oh he also fb stalks me and will text me about stuff and sometimes thinks its about him.. he really is like a girl sometimes.. haha.

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posted December 04, 2013 03:12 PM            

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Hi happycrab, welcome to LL.

So, why isn't he actually with you?
He's not back with is ex, right?
So what's the problem?

I'm a bit confused.

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posted December 04, 2013 03:33 PM            

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You'll never know, I'm sorry to say it, but Pisces men are enigmas, they change quickly and trying to know their motives is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

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posted December 04, 2013 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Hi happycrab, welcome to LL.

So, why isn't he actually with you?
He's not back with is ex, right?
So what's the problem?

I'm a bit confused.

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Actually he is living with the baby momma as he calls her... but we still talk everyday, all day about random stuff and work, life, etc.. we have really great conversations. We are no longer intimate and havent been in 2 months. I have dealt with his up and down emotions and flip flopping for 2 years and we have had our share of arguments and what not but I do understand why he is living there, its for his daughters sake... My confusion comes from our continued friendship and his insistance on us being friends.. all of our texting is initiated by him.. then it goes all day.

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posted December 04, 2013 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
You'll never know, I'm sorry to say it, but Pisces men are enigmas, they change quickly and trying to know their motives is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

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im just trying to figure out if he cares about me as more than just a friend.. either way i am going to be his friend, infact he insists on us being friends.

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posted December 05, 2013 12:00 PM            

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Hello happycrab! Welcome to LL

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