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Topic: Sun in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio man... What's going on in his mind???
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ScarlettO'Hara
Newflake Posts: 21
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 05, 2013 07:08 AM
  
Well I like this senior of mine in our college... he at, starting used to ignore me but eventually he started responding to my activities and the eye-contact and that fun stuff started between us. And his friend started talking to me and our group. I've never seen this guy talk to a single girl in the college(I've been observing him since more than a year now) and his cousin sis told me that he is not into girls. So after "eye-contact" , "standing near by" of 4 months, I thought of making a move. I sent him the request on fb but he didn't accept it. A week later my friend got to know that "he already has someone in his life" so I got over it even though i was upset and sad. This thing happened during summer vacations. So after the vacations were over, I knew he wouldn't pay me much attention and would ignore me and I too avoided his thoughts invading my mind and decided to move on. Okay so, at our first meeting(we are one the same floor) we both, I suppose felt awkward and ignored each-other but then suddenly he started eye-contacts, standing close to me. Each day something new happens. And this time it is happening with more intensity. He looks me deep in the eyes and positively tries to grab my attention. He stands near me and his friends smile a lot when I pass him. And he tries to deliberately stand near our classroom. And my best friends say they "noticed him blushing after he saw you"(after our eye-contact). And his eye-contact is sooooooo intense, he looks at me sometimes as if he'll kill me or I m not worth him. And another moment it's like he wants my attention and wants to be near me. I m so confused, what does he want!!! Please tell me what should I do??? Please I need your help... It's bugging me now! I have capricorn sun and venus in pisces. I am patient but sometimes I get sad on wondering "what if he is insensitive and what if he is playing with my heart"... you know that feelings come!!! It's like he pulls me in and then pushes me away... I can wait for this guy if he isn't playing with my feelings. I m in no haste but thought that what if he is playing with me bugs me everytime. I know we have some thing cause before I even noticed him, I ignored this guy for almost 4 months and then out of a sudden saw a guy and felt intense connection, to find out he is the same guy I've been ignoring... I know we have that connection and we can look each-other directly into eyes for so long period. Now that you know, what should I do? Please help me!IP: Logged |
Astrochologist
Knowflake Posts: 70
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 02:44 PM
Going to have to expose yourself/put yourself out there. But he's just watching and observing you to try and analyze you. Figure out your temperament, how you act etc to gauge whether or not you're trustworthy, and worth his time.He may play with you like food a bit, just to test you and see how you will act under emotional duress lol. I say put yourself out there, see whether or not he wants to meet up some time . Keep it simple. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2950
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 04:24 PM
Playing games with someone is not based on just making eye contact.
This guy is either too young and insecure so he can't make a move, or he is truly gay as someone else told you or he is definitely not into you regardless of the way he stares.If it was just insecurity.. then he would've probably accepted your friend request on FB. A guy who has a crush on a girl and who is just young, hormonal, not sure how to behave around her etc... would still be happy she added him and respond to the request.
So it's more likely that he is not interested. There is no game here. He hasn't said anything to you. You don't know each other. For instance - if he added you and then ignored you and flirted with mutual friends on FB - so you would see it --- that would be playing a game. If he intentionally talked to other girls in front of you, at school - to get your attention - that would be 'playing with you'. Avoiding contact isn't much of a game... and it isn't blowing hot and cold either. Try just talking to him as a friend, saying hi and asking him questions about school or his hobbies.. Just chit chat. This starring business won't go anywhere at all.
As a fire sign with Scorpio influence he would like confident people who are real. If you seem very 'proper' he won't touch you with a 10 foot pole.
There is nothing wrong with 'proper' except that it's dishonest and Sag has good instincts for falsity. Try to just be very real,honest, open and straightforward when you approach him. Don't be either snobbish or flirty... just friendly and genuine. IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 2950
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 05, 2013 04:30 PM
Just to clarify --- when you say college, in Australia (where I am) that refers to HS, so you would both be in your teens.
In US it refers to University.. so are you in HS or in Uni?IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
Newflake Posts: 21
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 06:15 AM
Astrochologist- Thanks for your advice!!! But if you could explain "put yourself out there".I mean I feel I shouldn't because of my self-respect!!! I mean I understand "you already have someone in your life" and that's why I backed off but then why are you trying to grab my attention and trying to stand near me and why should be I paying you attention... IP: Logged |
ScarlettO'Hara
Newflake Posts: 21
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posted December 06, 2013 06:20 AM
Odette- Thank you for answering, I'll consider your thought... BTW we are not teens... After 6 days he'll turn 22 and next month I'll turn 21... He is very religious guy and his schooling was done in a boys school!IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted December 06, 2013 07:16 AM
This whole situation seems so childish (I thought you guys were around 16 lol). He either mans up or you make a move. All this staring and not talking is lame.OP have you ever even spoken to him before? Go say hi, nothing bad is going to happen. 
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ScarlettO'Hara
Newflake Posts: 21
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 08:15 AM
Yes it is... sometimes he acts like a school kid! It seems childish to me too! The way he acts... btw thanks!  IP: Logged |
Liliya
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 12:03 PM
Sorry, not much to do with your topic, but why the bleep do you ad person you don't know on FB? When people do that to me, I just think they are strange or stalkers. Do you think there is a possibility, that you're imaging some things? How do you know he's deliberately standing by your class room? Maybe he just likes standing there. Is he staring a lot? So what? I love staring! Sometimes I just do it for fun, stare at someones back trying to provoke, and see if people can "feel" my stare. Anyway, I hope there is a genuine attraction there, and you guys will end up together. Good luck! IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
Knowflake Posts: 317
From: 12th House with pr.moon
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 07, 2013 03:44 AM
Hmmm yeah , about FB acception...I've once a huge crush on the Sagg.(sun,mercury) , scorpio venus and Gemini Mars ))) He accepted my request quite quickly. In your case maybe there're something going on like Odette said and we don't know . The only way to see the big picture is the Synastry chart. IP: Logged |
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