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Topic: "the one who got away"
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infinite.nebula
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posted December 05, 2013 11:05 AM
  
Hi!
Here we go..
Ive really liked a cancer sun virgo moon (ill call him the guy lol) for a little over two years. I havent been able to get him off my mind for that longg... I was with him for a little. But he never told me the feeling was mutal until yesterday."i think about you alot, your kinda my one who got away. or never really had." "lets just say i ****** up. i hope i get another chance someday, but i dont want ur relationship to go bad or anything, i just think about it sometimes." (just to clarify: i do have a bf atm not planning on jumping ship or anything* and the guy and i were together for a short period of time but he was seeing more then one person and i dont like to "share" so i backed out but i still let him know i really did/do like him.) It took so long for him to say that, that now im curious as to weather hes being honest or not? Also weather or not we could clash or work out?
What follows are his aspects but no birth time and then my own aspects time included. *the guy
Sun Cancer 21.40
Moon Virgo 19.44
Mercury Cancer 27.32
Venus Virgo 2.51
Mars Cancer 10.19
Jupiter Sagittarius 1.24 R
Saturn Libra 27.52
Uranus Sagittarius 5.27 R
Neptune Sagittarius 27.13 R
Pluto Libra 26.44
Lilith Aquarius 13.17
Asc node Gemini 24.49 *mine
Sun Cancer 22.07
Moon Aries 13.55
Mercury Leo 5.31
Venus Gemini 23.37
Mars Taurus 1.29
Jupiter Cancer 22.24
Saturn Capricorn 22.00 R
Uranus Capricorn 6.59 R
Neptune Capricorn 12.57 R
Pluto Scorpio 15.01 R
Lilith Scorpio 28.09
Asc node Aquarius 7.21
Ascendant Scorpio 15.53
II Sagittarius 15.34
III Capricorn 20.22
IV Aquarius 26.56
V Pisces 29.11
VI Aries 25.03
VII Taurus 15.53
VIII Gemini 15.34
IX Cancer 20.22
Midheaven Leo 26.56
XI Virgo 29.11
XII Libra 25.03 Any comments would be appreciated! Thanks alot! IP: Logged |
infinite.nebula
Knowflake Posts: 57
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posted December 05, 2013 04:19 PM
I reposted this somwhere else just cant delete it. Hope thers no issues. ThanksIP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 05, 2013 04:51 PM
He has a more passive Venus/Mars combination which is probably why you feel he didn't initiate or express his feelings more. I think it means something that he actually said it. Then again, i'm really not familiar with cancer signs so I'm not sure if they have a tendency to lie or not.I don't see much chemistry based on Sun/moon, Venus/mars to be honest. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted December 05, 2013 06:13 PM
:O I thought things went well with the virgo moon guy..
Guess I read wrong :'( sorryIP: Logged |
infinite.nebula
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posted December 05, 2013 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
:O I thought things went well with the virgo moon guy..
Guess I read wrong :'( sorry
I can tell u the whole story in a bit  .
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Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 145
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posted December 05, 2013 08:31 PM
Plz do xDIP: Logged |
infinite.nebula
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posted December 05, 2013 11:41 PM
We met at a weird time in both our lives. I just had a really bad relationship with a guy who was into a bad drug sun pisc moon can. He wasnt on the right track it ended badly we got evicted because none of the $ went towards rent it was other things. And we lost trust in eachother. But after a while this sun in can moon in virgo showed up he wanted to help me out. We would talk about anything. We started seing eachother more often and maybe i was scared to be hurt again so i was distant and so was he emotionaly at least. I found out he was with two other people at the same time while he was seeing me. He admitted he was uncertain about what he wanted. Kinda started off like your current situation i felt pretty used at first but I still talked to him. I still liked him even though he was like that. He honestly didnt mean to hurt me and he didnt think i was serious. It wasnt clearly stated so i couldnt really blame him. He is a nice guy but he was going through **** too. He taught me alot about patience. he wasnt ready to be with anyone and he dosn't like to jump into things. He told me "never settle" one day when he found out i was with my ex. Those simple words made me realize how scared i was to be alone and because of that id settle for someone who gave me attention. I kind of gave up on trying to be with him after a while scared to get hurt again and went back to my ex who promised he changed. He didnt. This virgo moon guy moved away but would still check in ask how im doing. And he would hint that he liked me but never really be to straight forward about it so i always felt like i gave so much to make it work but he never noticed but with time he has said he noticed "you are genuine and thats rare" im just glad i stayed true to how i felt because i believe that even though it didnt work out at the time that with time if you were being honest there is nothing to regret. But anyways that whole story may seem dull the way its been written but i learnt alot from the guy it was worth it even if one day we did happen to try and it didn't work out. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted December 05, 2013 11:53 PM
Thank you for sharing your storyand yeah I ask a lot of women about relationship questions
and from inexperienced ones, I would hear all different kinds of stuff but
from experienced women most of the times they would tell me
Men Don't Change
:s
It's really good thing that his words got to you because most of people don't do what they are advised to do even if its good for them
anyways hopefully all that has happened to you will lead you to the better IP: Logged |
infinite.nebula
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posted December 06, 2013 12:04 AM
It was hard at first.to take his.advice seriously. I was hurt. But when you think about it. People learn from the worst situations. You learn alot when you put in your 100%. Even if it hurts..IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 06, 2013 03:51 AM
Virgo Moon/Venus are fixer signs. They love to help/serve people. It's their way of showing love. If you really like him, he's not the kind who's going to be chasing after you. You might have to be the initiator in the relationship.What about the other 2 people he was with? Do you know about them? Are they in broken relationships too? Makes me wonder if he's going around "fixing" everyone's relationship. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 1840
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 03:38 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Men Don't Change
 But, but, but... He wore that Sheepskin Coat SO well... IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
Knowflake Posts: 1840
From: Mountain Gate
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 06, 2013 03:40 PM
Are you sure?*squints eye* IP: Logged |
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