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Topic: Do you find that you can't stand people whose Sun or AC square your Mercury?
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Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 12:44 PM
  
I'm wondering this, because I have Mercury opposite my AC, and the signs that square those two placements are just...some of the worst experiences I've had with people. It probably doesn't even have to be their Sun, it could be other placements as well (AC, for example).I mean, there are exceptions, of course. But I assume that the hard aspects are missing or compensated for in those cases. Does everyone have this thing with Mercury, or is it just my Gemini SN trying to teach me how to overcome communication issues?
There seems to be a theme with difficult Mercury aspects with other people in my life, and I have to look at it and think "Am I supposed to be learning something from this...?" IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted December 06, 2013 02:09 PM
No, i like them very much!IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 06, 2013 02:18 PM
I think it's specific for you. My mercury square my ASC and pluto (t-square) so I can't tell much. I mean I don't always get along with them but most of the time, I'm fineIP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 02:24 PM
Hm. I was wondering if maybe it was the double whammy of having someone's AC or Sun square both my AC AND my Mercury, but when there's a hard aspect (my Mercury or someone else's) from most planets, I can't stand talking to them and they're just really creepy for me to be around.Although...my husband's Sun is opposite my Mercury, and his Mercury is square my Sun. But his Sun is also conjunct my AC, and his Mercury is conjunct my SN (along with other good aspects in our charts). We argue, but we get over it quickly. Other people with hard Mercury synastry for me...not at all. Even if we like certain aspects about each other's personalities, there's just that underlying feeling of "Oh my gawd, we cannot possibly grind our teeth any harder to avoid saying something unpleasant." WTF...? Is it my Gemini SN trying to tell me something?!  IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted December 06, 2013 02:27 PM
I wonder if my Mercury conjunct DC and Part of Fortune has something to do with that...  IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted December 06, 2013 02:43 PM
I like anything square my Merc which would be Aries or Libra. Aries/Libra is my Sun-Moon midpoint. Since I was 12 or so Libra has been the most prominent in my life. Mostly as friends. Aries as lovers. I have Pluto in Libra and Sappho/Lilith in Aries. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 06, 2013 02:56 PM
could be a fixed sign mercury thing. too stubborn.IP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 03:21 PM
Still wondering if the conjunctions have anything to do with it. Just DC and POF.
And Gemini SN, representing communication stuff.I find hard Mercury aspects with most planets *really* irritating in general, whether I'm the Mercury or the other planet. There have to be some really awesome compensating aspects to make that easier to deal with. But...now that it's been mentioned, the hard Mercury aspects that are the most irksome for me are cardinal and fixed placements. Hunh.  IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted December 06, 2013 03:23 PM
Well....
My best friends moon squares my Mercury. (and mars) But then again our moons conjunct.
Which also means, my own moon squares mercury and in a lot of ways I'm not too fond of myself. Looking through the synastry charts of people I know. It seems to be a mixed bag really.
Even with myself. Sometimes, and continuously in some ways, I'm EXTREMELY hard on myself.
Other times, and in other ways... I'm not. It definitely creates difficulty a lot I think. Unless their moon conjuncts mine apparently.  IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 06, 2013 03:27 PM
Square no.
opposition yes.IP: Logged |
CatMote
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From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
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posted December 06, 2013 03:37 PM
ive got a merc and sun in aries. virgos are usually the only people that i cant stand lol. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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Faith
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posted December 06, 2013 03:49 PM
Same as Violets, I have Aquarius Mercury close to my DSC. I like early Scorpios and early Taurus people, though when I tried dating men born then, it was a failure. I liked them, but they kept making assumptions about me that were so far off the beam, I got exhausted just thinking of all the "rehabilitation" our relationship would need in order for us to simply make sense to each other.You were just asking about the squares, but I'll add that my husband's early Leo sun is opposite my Mercury. Which means his sun is closely trine my Venus, which gives us an advantage. IP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
ive got a merc and sun in aries. virgos are usually the only people that i cant stand lol.
Ah...but you have a Pisces AC, don't you (unless I got confused with your placements). I wonder if their Sun/Mercury might square your AC?  IP: Logged |
Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 03:52 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Same as Violets, I have Aquarius Mercury close to my DSC. I like early Scorpios and early Taurus people, though when I tried dating men born then, it was a failure. I liked them, but they kept making assumptions about me that were so far off the beam, I got exhausted just thinking of all the "rehabilitation" our relationship would need in order for us to simply make sense to each other.You were just asking about the squares, but I'll add that my husband's early Leo sun is opposite my Mercury. Which means his sun is closely trine my Venus, which gives us an advantage.
Are we living parallel lives?! It's funny that we have so many similar placements and we're both married to early(ish) Leos.
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CatMote
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From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
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posted December 06, 2013 03:54 PM
nah violets my AC is in libra.but you are right about a lot of pisces...i have moon mars and venus in pisces so thats kind of a lot to opposite those virgos! lol then you add the squares with the aries...
however i LOVE virgo moons. the oddest thing. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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Violets
Moderator Posts: 2685
From: Twin Peaks
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 06, 2013 04:08 PM
quote:
Originally posted by CatMote:
however i LOVE virgo moons. the oddest thing.
Aww. Because we're so endearing with our nagging criticism?
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Faith
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posted December 06, 2013 04:43 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Violets:
Are we living parallel lives?! It's funny that we have so many similar placements and we're both married to early(ish) Leos.
That is funny! Well it proves astrology is true. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted December 06, 2013 05:02 PM
Never thought about that, but it makes sense! I have a saggy Sun/Mercury
Virgo Moon Ive always wondered why i couldn't be around Virgo Suns even ones that conjunct my Moon without feeling stifled and stressed out by them, they are supposed to make a soulmate aspect to me...
If they square my mercury, i would be left feeling misunderstood and not able to communicate freely! Maybe if they conjunct my Moon in the later degrees so they dont make an aspect to my Mercury it would work..
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Violets
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From: Twin Peaks
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posted December 06, 2013 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Never thought about that, but it makes sense! I have a saggy Sun/Mercury
Virgo Moon Ive always wondered why i couldn't be around Virgo Suns even ones that conjunct my Moon without feeling stifled and stressed out by them, they are supposed to make a soulmate aspect to me...
If they square my mercury, i would be left feeling misunderstood and not able to communicate freely! Maybe if they conjunct my Moon in the later degrees so they dont make an aspect to my Mercury it would work..
Yeah, I've noticed that as long as their AC or Sun isn't aspecting my Mercury/DC or AC, it's a little easier. I have a couple of good friends who are the signs that I often clash with, and they're awesome. But yeah, no Mercury aspects, haha. Sometimes, I can have hard Mercury aspects with people but there are enough loving aspects that it doesn't bother us too much. My dad and I are like that, and my husband and I as well.
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hodad
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From: tiburon ca usa
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posted March 12, 2014 05:54 AM
I don't know about not being able to stand someone but we are definitely at odds----IP: Logged |
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