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Topic: Scorp/Cancer/Leo combo=manipulat'n, controll'n, self entitled, any1 experienced this?
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Gabby
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posted December 06, 2013 05:50 PM
  
Recent acquaintance-scorpio Sun, cancer Moon, leo ACi work with someone and as i got to know her i couldnt believe how controlling of everyone she was...she literally will treat ppl like they are 5 years old. She wil tell them exactly what they were going to do and how to do it...like they cant think for themselves, the way she speaks to ppl is the same way you would talk to a child who is clueless and learning something brand new...as an adult, it comes across like she thinks they are retarded. But she doesnt see it! She will ask questions then as the person answers, she will talk over them as they answer and say, No....thats not how you are going to do it, you will listen to me and do it my way, ok?
Even if its terrible for everyone but her, she expects everyone to agree and do it just how she wants it...its kind of amusing how entitles she feels and how she thinks everyone else will do exactly as she says, even when its terrible for everyone but her.
I have to wonder where does she live, because its not in reality with the rest of us...and she doesnt get that everyone else is not going to go along with her or that shes annoying ppl!
She truly seems amazed when it doesnt go her way....i genuinely dont think she intends to be this way....i think she thinks she is a kind caring person trying to help everyone and wonders why others dont see her as the helper she is? Shes not a boss but she acts like it. She will talk to the bosses in the same manner, and seems so taken back when they get mad at her...she's never done this to me, but ive seem her do it to my best friend....and my best friend doesn't put up an argument with her, although she never does what the girl tells her to do. She just rolls her eyes and moves on. Seeing her behavior reminded me of a couple other ppl i had known, they acted the same way...looking into them , i found they had the same combination as her of Sun/Moon/AC. Others ive known with this combo... Ex boyfriend-leo Sun, scorpio Moon, cancer AC We had my Venus/his Mars
his Pluto/my Moon
Valentin/Valentine
his Angel/My SN
my Juno/his Venus, IC,Uranus/Pluto...all conjunct under 3 degree....but he was so controlling and made me feel like a child, i couldnt handle him, also he pouted when you didnt do as he said! Friend-leo Sun, cancer Moon, scopio AC They just manipulated everyone around them, and felt they should be in control of everything, very entitled to the best of everything if they didnt get it they would pout.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted December 06, 2013 06:08 PM
Haha, I tend to understand it lol. I know it's terrible admitting it. It's more about who she's talking to. Some people get things but others. It's just frustrating. It is terrible manners and not very good when trying to relate with others. They feel insulted. Big time. I find Leo/Scorpio square to produce people who like to have the upper hand in situations. Also, my friend with Leo/Scorpio accentuated frequently says she does not have much patience, so maybe that's part of it? She doesn't talk to adults like that but she admits not having much patience with kids. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted December 06, 2013 06:34 PM
I've decided to avoid these ppl, because even though they don't treat me like that, I kind of want to stand up for the ppl who they do treat like that and that's only going to make me look bad!
I'm just not a fan of how they handle ppl! Ugh!IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 06, 2013 06:47 PM
what's her mercury sign?Sounds like her cancer side getting insecure so she's trying to put up a brave front by bossing people around and controlling them. Leo-Scorpio kind of hard for a Cancer to handle. IP: Logged |
IrisRainbow
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posted December 07, 2013 04:48 AM
i think shes just really worried and wants everything to be perf and right on time.Sounds like a control freak IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted December 07, 2013 01:07 PM
Her Merc is scorpio conjunct her sunIP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted December 07, 2013 01:16 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
i think shes just really worried and wants everything to be perf and right on time.Sounds like a control freak
Yes she is a control freak....i saw her with her sister and she bossed her around like she was her slave. She'd say things like, she(her sister) is not very intelligent so someone needs to tell her how to do things.
This woman rolls her eyes and tosses her hair like its a huge hardship on her to have to guide/boss her sister around...
Her sister, perfectly capable person, says its pointless to disagree or argue because she doesnt stop, arguing only makes her more determined to tell you your wrong and everything you do is wrong and show you a better way to do it. Her sister said shes been that way since they were kids....the bossy sister is the younger sister. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 07, 2013 01:18 PM
Mercury conjunct sun makes her a sharp talker that doesn't know to filter. It doubles since she's a scorpio. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted December 07, 2013 01:19 PM
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Originally posted by IrisRainbow:
i think shes just really worried and wants everything to be perf and right on time.Sounds like a control freak
Yes she is a control freak....i saw her with her sister and she bossed her around like she was her slave. She'd say things like, she(her sister) is not very intelligent so someone needs to tell her how to do things.
This woman rolls her eyes and tosses her hair like its a huge hardship on her to have to guide/boss her sister around...
Her sister, perfectly capable person, says its pointless to disagree or argue because she doesnt stop, arguing only makes her more determined to tell you your wrong and everything you do is wrong and show you a better way to do it. Her sister said shes been that way since they were kids....the bossy sister is the younger sister. IP: Logged |
Liliya
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posted December 07, 2013 01:20 PM
I have a friend, who's Cancer Sun, Scorpio Moon and Leo Asc.Well, I can't call her a control freak, but she has a VERY difficult personality. She's very argumentative and holds grudges. She likes "silence" games, when she won't talk to you for days, and you will never know why  Another thing, she blames everybody, it's always someone else's fault. She got fired from a job, because she was "slow, unmotivated and didn't make effort to make any friends" (words from her ex manager, who I know personally). My friend, after she got fired said: "Well yeah, I know I was slow but that other girl was worse than me... Yeah, I didn't talk to them, because they gave me a dirty look", and so on...
She shared 4 houses with people, and EVERYWHERE she had problems, where people want for her to move out IP: Logged |
Bubble
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posted December 09, 2013 11:54 AM
I'm a Scorpio sun, Leo moon and Cancer rising....I don't know what you mean since I am just perfect!! lol  IP: Logged |
Bubble
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posted December 09, 2013 11:57 AM
The only time I go silent is when I'm really mad or really hurt. I don't hold grudges, but if you hurt me I'm just cautious around you. I treat people well, the way I would want to be treated. My merc is in Sagg so even though I am straightforward I have a great sense of humour so I don't really offend people too often.  IP: Logged |
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