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Topic: Do afflicted venuses ever comitt long term?
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 317
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 06:33 PM
  
Would somebody with Venus in libra square Neptune + Uranus ever be able to comitt? Would they need a soulmate in order to? What's your experiences? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 434
From: Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 06:43 PM
Well, the Libra and Uranus part could make a big difference. But, I guess you're asking about afflicted Venus. I have 12th house Venus in Virgo square Neptune. (no other aspects to Venus) I feel like commitment was never an issue. To me, I felt like someone who says that last loving message to a loved one with my dying breath.
I just felt like I would fight for relationships until my "fight" was gone... exhausted. The REAL issue with the Venus Neptune square was committing to relationships that I shouldn't have gotten into in the first place. I suppose with the Libra and Uranus there, you may have similar beginnings and endings as I do with just different stuff leading to those beginnings and endings. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1248
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 08, 2013 06:43 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Would somebody with Venus in libra square Neptune + Uranus ever be able to comitt? Would they need a soulmate in order to? What's your experiences?
My history is not pretty and at the age of 37 I am having serious doubts I will change. I am not even sure I want to change. I have been in 2 long term relationships;5yrs and 7 yrs, but was I fully committed in any of them? No. My urges to be free and "play" are deeply ingrained. Tormenting even, sometimes. I have Venus sq Uranus and semi-square Neptune. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 131
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 06:46 PM
I have a friend whose Venus in Aqua squares her Neptune in Scorpio. She has been married once and had tons of relationships throughout her years. I would say no. I am no expert though. Hope that helpsIP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 3821
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 09, 2013 04:53 AM
Look for Saturn afflictions  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 597
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 09, 2013 05:22 AM
This is just a thought but I think the issue with venus-uranus is that they want to break the rules, because normal=boring for these people… so what they need is an untraditional partner who is willing to let them break the rules, or simply not have any rules in the relationship… if the venus square uranus person comes home and says "I wan't to travel away for a year!" you should say "fine, that sounds cool, gonna miss you though, but do your thing"
Even if he comes home and says "I think we should have an open relationship" You should say "Fine lets try that", cause it's only if you resist they will rebel and actually do it…If they can feel really free in the relationship, so it actually won't really feel like a commitment you can make them comity:P I think it's only the word "commitment" they hate, not being with someone they love!  IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
Knowflake Posts: 318
From: 12th House with pr.moon
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 09, 2013 05:25 AM
I don't know others but myself and my bf. We've been together for almost 7 years with a faithful relationship. I just only want to give you some info that , although there're mostly who behave like in the cookbook said but there're also not lije that and choose to be responsibility when you're with some one.My natal : Venus square Uranus tight orb , mars conjunct Uranus , venus square mars . My bf : venus square saturn , and it's an Aries Venus...lol But we do have a nice synastry to put that together
Our synastry chart
- venus and jupiter in 7th : DW
- sun trine/sext. Moon
- saturn conjunct/square moon/sun
- 5 planets of mind loaded in his 8th. It's always have exceptional about everytings. If you aren't sure ...do the synastry chart with someone who has afflicted venus .If there're glues , ther're hope.
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Rosalind
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posted December 09, 2013 05:54 AM
In my dictionary commitment means marriage. Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not a commitment. Its an agreement of dating exclusively.
People with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn lor Uranus can find themselves in long term relationships but that doesn't mean they are commited.
Dating for 3, 5, 7 years its a nonsense. The relationship doesn't go anywhere. There is no progress, there is no going on the next level therefore no commitment. Where there is no commitment there are no rules. People in such relationships are free to do whatever they want. And if someone thinks about cheating... please, even married one can cheat. Infidelity or non commitment is seen in composite charts. If there are no Saturn aspects, mostly hard ones, the couple isnt glued. Nothing can make them stay together and with faithful thoughts. Why? Check Uranus.
Uranus in composite brings three things: freedom and fun in relationship, on/off relationships drama and any other kind of uncvonventional tupe of relationship.
The mature couple (usually people after 29 years old) will experience the first thing brought by Uranus which is freedom and fun. That's because they know they are not kids anymore and because ego has no place in a REAL relationship.
The other two things brought by Uranus are things experienced by immature couples where despite liking or loving each other fate bring them so many opportunities that they fall into indecisiveness. The Grass is Greener syndrome comes into action. Many men think: she's cute and so on but what if I can do better? No men nowadays will marry young. Only if he's an idiot, with low esteem or pressured. Smart men wont marry young even if they are smitten. They know deep inside and with no astrology needed that they will change when they get older and they will end up divorced. Uranus breaks everything and Sasturn is still a teacher, hasnt given the green access to commitment.
Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn cannot give commitment. And if he does, Uranus will break that commitment. What's made before Saturn's time, Uranus will erase it in no time. These planets afflicted have the energy working in the opposite way. (I'm gentle here).
Childhood sweetheart couples: Uranus energy is on top of their heads. Especially in this century. Its the Aquarian Age, Uranus age. If things are made in the wrong way, Uranus shows no mercy and Saturn will shade Uranus "hand" because he knows: before time is right, everything is wrong. We must see, observe, analyze, experience mistake, learn and earn Saturn rewards in the right way. Only then the balance between Saturn and Uranus will take place. No sooner.IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 597
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 09, 2013 06:14 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Rosalind:
In my dictionary commitment means marriage. Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is not a commitment. Its an agreement of dating exclusively.
People with Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn lor Uranus can find themselves in long term relationships but that doesn't mean they are commited.
Dating for 3, 5, 7 years its a nonsense. The relationship doesn't go anywhere. There is no progress, there is no going on the next level therefore no commitment. Where there is no commitment there are no rules. People in such relationships are free to do whatever they want. And if someone thinks about cheating... please, even married one can cheat. Infidelity or non commitment is seen in composite charts. If there are no Saturn aspects, mostly hard ones, the couple isnt glued. Nothing can make them stay together and with faithful thoughts. Why? Check Uranus.
Uranus in composite brings three things: freedom and fun in relationship, on/off relationships drama and any other kind of uncvonventional tupe of relationship.
The mature couple (usually people after 29 years old) will experience the first thing brought by Uranus which is freedom and fun. That's because they know they are not kids anymore and because ego has no place in a REAL relationship.
The other two things brought by Uranus are things experienced by immature couples where despite liking or loving each other fate bring them so many opportunities that they fall into indecisiveness. The Grass is Greener syndrome comes into action. Many men think: she's cute and so on but what if I can do better? No men nowadays will marry young. Only if he's an idiot, with low esteem or pressured. Smart men wont marry young even if they are smitten. They know deep inside and with no astrology needed that they will change when they get older and they will end up divorced. Uranus breaks everything and Sasturn is still a teacher, hasnt given the green access to commitment.
Sun/Moon/Venus square Saturn cannot give commitment. And if he does, Uranus will break that commitment. What's made before Saturn's time, Uranus will erase it in no time. These planets afflicted have the energy working in the opposite way. (I'm gentle here).
Childhood sweetheart couples: Uranus energy is on top of their heads. Especially in this century. Its the Aquarian Age, Uranus age. If things are made in the wrong way, Uranus shows no mercy and Saturn will shade Uranus "hand" because he knows: before time is right, everything is wrong. We must see, observe, analyze, experience mistake, learn and earn Saturn rewards in the right way. Only then the balance between Saturn and Uranus will take place. No sooner.
What if there is neptune squares added to this while saturn-uranus mix?
Me and my s.o. have sun-venus square saturn and uranus AND neptune^^ Also in natal we have squares from personal planets to saturn, uranus and neptune, and he has sun square neptune, uranus and saturn natal^^
(We do have a bunch of good aspects too)
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