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Topic: Do synastry aspects create love?
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Yanmorg
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posted December 09, 2013 08:15 PM
  
I was looking at the charts of my past guy friends and I was also analyzing our relationships when a question popped up. Do certain synastry aspects create the feeling of love and if they do, is that real love or just the feeling of love? If not, does love develop on it's own regardless of compatibility or is it a combination of the two? As I get older, and as I analyze myself, others, my past and current relationships, I've realized that I've never been in love. The main aspect that I see cobtniously play out is the mars-neptune opposition with the two guys I thought I was in love with at the time. This is just my example, but I would love to hear other examples. What synastry aspects would create or enhance the feeling of love between two people? IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 09, 2013 08:35 PM
Love can develop and come into creation without astrology's say. Synastry, in my opinion, just shows how you affect and influence one another, how you interact. Love is something you can forge and create together and if it's true love, it can overcome anything, from synastry aspects and beyond.IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted December 09, 2013 08:55 PM
It depends on your definition of love. If you are looking for typical understanding of love, look for partner's placements in your 5th (romance), 7th (commitment), 8th (sex) house.Feeling of love is not real love. It can happen because you are just physically attracted. It can happen if you are lonely and you just need someone to make you feel better and appreciated. You can bind with the person but it but it wouldn't last because you will keep thinking "the grass is always greener". Then you start considering options and how to run away from the relationship. As you grow older, you will understand it better when u know what u want. I think it comes naturally. But there will be some who remain foolish and think it's ok to make use of people to get the 'feeling of love'.
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Yanmorg
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posted December 09, 2013 09:00 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
It depends on your definition of love. If you are looking for typical understanding of love, look for partner's placements in your 5th (romance), 7th (commitment), 8th (sex) house.Feeling of love is not real love. It can happen because you are just physically attracted. It can happen if you are lonely and you just need someone to make you feel better and appreciated. You can bind with the person but it but it wouldn't last because you will keep thinking "the grass is always greener". Then you start considering options and how to run away from the relationship. As you grow older, you will understand it better when u know what u want. I think it comes naturally. But there will be some who remain foolish and think it's ok to make use of people to get the 'feeling of love'.
Very interesting. From previous experiences, this sounds 100% accurate. I'm just glad I wasn't fooled for too long and chose to look deeper within myself and others. If the feeling of love is not real love, then what is your definition of real genuine love? I am just curious.
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next to neptune
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 12:57 AM
Moon/venus, venus/mars, sun/venus, jupiter/venus creates some warm feelings(love), if you got some of these aspects in synastry/composite I think neptune can create the illusion of love, and very prominently neptune/mars as it creates the savior complex…neptune think mars is their hero who has come to save them, but mars is most often not (especially with harsh aspect) cause then it's likely that mars cannot live up to the illusion of the neptune person… its not their fault Saturn creates a binding love, someone you can trust, but with its limits
Uranus creates a unique love no matter what if the union stays together with harsh uranus aspects
Pluto creates an obsessive love, the more dangerous one, which is hard to let go of, but it's not real love, it's only fascination
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Yanmorg
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posted December 10, 2013 05:31 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think neptune can create the illusion of love, and very prominently neptune/mars as it creates the savior complex…neptune think mars is their hero who has come to save them, but mars is most often not (especially with harsh aspect) cause then it's likely that mars cannot live up to the illusion of the neptune person… its not their faultSaturn creates a binding love, someone you can trust, but with its limits
Uranus creates a unique love no matter what if the union stays together with harsh uranus aspects
Pluto creates an obsessive love, the more dangerous one, which is hard to let go of, but it's not real love, it's only fascination
This is also very interesting because as the neptune person in the mars-neptune opposition in two of three most important relationships I've ever had, that's how I felt. After the first disappointment, I tried to just let it go and not point the finger at myself or him. Things just don't work out sometimes and I will not become bitter in the process. I have also experienced that pluto energy with all three and I must say, it definitely is challenging to let go (took me about 3 years with the first one) but I'm mastering that now. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 10, 2013 06:46 AM
True love is a sun venus conjunction or opposition in composite. Look up the description for the aspect on the internet. It literally says in the desc it's the only indicator for true love in astrologyIP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted December 10, 2013 08:46 PM
RunAroundScreaming - What if Sun and Venus are in the same sign, though not conjunct (in our Composite)?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 10, 2013 09:07 PM
No If synastry aspects create love than love at first site would exist and that is just rubbish.
Though I do think some synastry aspects could possibly speed up the feelings between two people.IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted December 10, 2013 09:09 PM
That makes a lot of since too. I was just wondering because people put so much time and energy into analyzing charts and if in the end, love knows no limits, then why do aspects matter? I'm guessing it's just a blueprint of what is to be expected in a particular relationship, but not necessarily that those aspects will determine its fate? IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted December 10, 2013 09:12 PM
Aspects matter because all knowledge leads back to self knowledge. We can only perceive through our own eyes and attempt to perceive through others, though how can we ever know if we're seeing the same thing, feeling the same thing, thinking the same as another? We look at aspects to understand more about ourselves, the entire universe that resides within us is mirrored in our environment, to know ourselves leads to understanding our experience.IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted December 10, 2013 09:14 PM
So it saves a hell of a lot of heartache knowing our charts and the charts of others.. I guess I never really asked myself why I'm so passionate about Astrology. IP: Logged |
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