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Topic: T-squares and grand crosses in composite: binding?
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Faith Moderator Posts: 6258 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 10:34 AM
Once again I have to ask some questions because my best friend cannot get over her ex.Their composite is decent, but their progressed composite is mainly a grand cross with a few planets/asteroids at each corner. It reminds me of what the composite was like with an ex of mine, with whom I had a short-lived, extremely intense relationship...which ended suddenly, and left me wrecked for several months. Exactly like my best friend is now. So I'm wondering what your experiences are with these configurations in composite and progressed composite. Have you ever experienced a grand cross in composite...was it both love and hate? Agony and ecstasy? Would love to get more perspective on this. Thanks IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 7113 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 12, 2013 11:38 AM
Dunno about Grand Cross. But the T-square does tend to bind people together, at least mentally. IP: Logged |
Faith Moderator Posts: 6258 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 12:37 PM
Thanks, Doux! I value your insights. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 7113 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 12, 2013 12:42 PM
You're welcome. And thanks. Hope all is well with you, Faith.IP: Logged |
Faith Moderator Posts: 6258 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 01:30 PM
You, too!IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 1034 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 12, 2013 02:01 PM
Ok I apologize in advance for the dramatic and probably irrelevant story lol, but yeah I've noticed the same thing about mental/emotional binding and numerous T squares in the composite from my experience.. You'd think there would be constant conflicts and arguments or it would prevent people from getting together in the first place, but the way I experienced it was even though things didn't work out in the end, I feel like that person is probably the closest thing I'll ever have to a soulmate/"twin flame", and I'm afraid it might just be burned in my mind forever lolWe definitely had some sort of psychic link or connection to each other as ridiculous as that sounds, but yeah he's part of the reason I believe in karmic or past life connections.. The romance/friendship went on for years although it was never exactly consistent, but when we did see each other it was like being in our own private world of bliss... And also like no time had passed if we'd been apart for a while. We both knew being together wasn't especially realistic at this point in life, but he just told me to "have faith" and that we were supposed to accomplish something together in the future. I'll never forget leaving his place for the last time knowing things were going to sh**, and now looking back the last thing he's ever actually said to me in person was "I'm sure we'll see each other soon, on our own weird timeline" I know it sounds like something out of a bad movie lol and I really wish I could just forget about it all but I still haven't been able to get that or him out of my head. So anyway, I'm thinking with T squares or a grand cross maybe the bond is just almost "too strong" to really manifest unless both people are extremely mature/secure with their own issues, so when things don't work out it's all very tragic and disappointing lol IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2511 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 02:17 PM
In my opinion to have even a Grand Gross in composite is better. From what I've seen composites that have special patterns like: Grand Trines, YODs, Grand Crosses or KITEs, tend to not only bind people but also turn the relationship into something MEANINGFUL.IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Knowflake Posts: 9979 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 02:57 PM
It makes sense, after all the composite is a midpoint-chart. Also these configurations, if in tight orb, will also be midpoint configurations.And yes, I have noticed it, too. IP: Logged |
Faith Moderator Posts: 6258 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 02:59 PM
Thank you FireMoon! I appreciate your input and can relate to your story. Psychic links don't sound odd to me With the guy I had the composite grand cross with, I'm a long time over it, but honestly suspect that if I met him again, there'd be the same intensity no matter what. This is what I've been thinking, too: quote: So anyway, I'm thinking with T squares or a grand cross maybe the bond is just almost "too strong" to really manifest unless both people are extremely mature/secure with their own issues, so when things don't work out it's all very tragic and disappointing lol
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Faith Moderator Posts: 6258 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 03:00 PM
Thanks Rosalind and Ceri IP: Logged |