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Topic: What makes a person defensive/cold at first meeting
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StrandedSaturn
Knowflake Posts: 25
From: Death Valley, CA
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 07:31 PM
  
Hard to get to know types, mostly women I find who are like this, I don't know their birth charts but what do you think causes this attitude?First off when talking online or in person they usually reply like ''ok'' and that's it. It comes off cold and a little bit defensive. What do you think would cause this? Am I overreacting? I am a male, the thing is I have a Libra Venus but I am not too good with women at all. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1263
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 13, 2013 07:52 PM
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JennsenS2
Newflake Posts: 19
From:
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 08:37 PM
Saturn in the 1st house. Maybe Venus in Scorpio ?IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 2399
From: 🔮
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 13, 2013 09:38 PM
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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
Saturn in the 1st house. Maybe Venus in Scorpio ?
I have a first house scorpio venus and I am not at all like this ever. Unless you're rude to me lol IP: Logged |
Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 2526
From:
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 13, 2013 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
Saturn in the 1st house. Maybe Venus in Scorpio ?
Saturn in 1st house for sure. IP: Logged |
11qwert11
Newflake Posts: 23
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 14, 2013 12:32 AM
I got Saturn first house, very hard for me to open up to people takes a good 2-3 months this has been the case for me with my roommates. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 625
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 14, 2013 03:06 AM
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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
Saturn in the 1st house. Maybe Venus in Scorpio ?
I have venus in scorpio and I feel very different to people I don't know…I'm very private, maybe even suspicious of their motives of wanting to talk with me…my first impression of people who talks to me is always "Why did he/she talk to me? Do I have something they wan't?"
I would never guess it if someone talked with me out of pure pleasure I also have moon square saturn And it takes a long time for me to relax with new people, so I just stick to my old friends!  IP: Logged |
JennsenS2
Newflake Posts: 19
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 14, 2013 04:50 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have venus in scorpio and I feel very different to people I don't know…I'm very private, maybe even suspicious of their motives of wanting to talk with me…my first impression of people who talks to me is always "Why did he/she talk to me? Do I have something they wan't?"
I would never guess it if someone talked with me out of pure pleasure I also have moon square saturn And it takes a long time for me to relax with new people, so I just stick to my old friends!
I have Venus in Libra at 29th degree, the Anaretic degree or critical degree. My Venus carries characteristics of both Venus in Libra and Venus in Scorpio. It can be complicated sometimes. My Venus would like what a Libra Venus wants but it behaves like Venus in Scorpio. I'm exactly like what Next to Neptune described. I also have Saturn in 1st house which makes me introvert and feel I'm never good enough (working on that xD). I feel uncomfortable with pushy people, maybe because of my Libra Sun or Libra Venus as well. Some people may think I'm cold but I just need some time to open up. Once I opened up, it's more like we'll be friends forever lol ! In my case, I think it's a combination of Saturn in 1st house and Venus at the critical degree of Libra. I also have Saturn sextile Sun with Saturn in 1st house and Sun in 11th. I don't know whether this aspect has to be taken into account.
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