posted December 17, 2013 12:48 AM            

Your Sun in your partner's 12th House: This overlay can be a confusing one. There can be a general sense of mistrust that stems from misunderstanding. In some cases, you might be very fascinated with your partner, as if he or she marches to the beat of a different drummer. However, you may not "get" what he or she is all about, ultimately, and you should avoid finding irrational reasons to mistrust your partner as a result of this. Your actions will have a profound emotional impact on your partner, as you pull up many emotions in him or her. There may be a sense in your partner of having to give up something or to make sacrifices, as being together can bring up some level of pain or heartache, and possibly the need to be secret and private. The relationship can just as easily be very spiritually rewarding.

My daughters fathers sun in scorpio is in her 12th house. Anyone have this with a parent in synastry?

posted December 17, 2013 08:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:

There may be a sense in your partner of having to give up something or to make sacrifices, as being together can bring up some level of pain or heartache, and possibly the need to be secret and private. The relationship can just as easily be very spiritually rewarding.

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This makes alot of sense to me. U see, my daughter is his secret child. When i was 24. I had an affair with him for 6 years. He was 26 and married. I know bad but i learned and i will never hurt anyone again. He was a great father to her since she was born up into a year and a half ago he stopped. But now he is in her life again for good. She is 5 now. They were so happy to see eachother. He had been depressed for a while and so was I. I never kept him from her. I think he couldnt take it anymore. He couldnt be without her. He made a mistake.

I feel bad for having hurt his wife. And i apologized. She treats my daughter very well. They have 2 older sons. But his other family doesnt know. Only his mom but she lives in another country. So the sacrifices and secret make alot of sense to me. Next weekend she is sleeping over.

Her moon is also in the 12th house and i can definitely be a bit over protective. With my thoughts. Not too extreme. I get anxious worrying about her future. Her first boyfriend, bullies, her walking to school by herself. I dont like strange men around her or even looking at her. I will always defend her. I dont want anyone to hurt her. I will kill them. If something bad ever happens to her, i will take my own life because i wouldnt be able to live without her. She is only 5 lol. Her first day of kindergarden we both cried.

posted December 17, 2013 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Violets:
I also have it with my husband. We have an almost opposite dynamic from that of my mom and I.

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Synastry with parents or relative differs from synastry between lovers.

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posted December 17, 2013 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
My father's Sun is in my 12th. I'm not afraid of him and I don't think I ever was. We have a poor relationship though.

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Can u list the synastry aspects between you and your father?

posted December 17, 2013 10:37 AM            

Sun biquintile Sun
my Sun opposite his Jupiter exact
my Sun opposite his Uranus
my Sun biquintile his Pluto exact
my Sun conjunct his NN
my Sun conjunct his Chiron
my Sun square his Ceres

my Moon sextile his Mars
my Moon conjuct his Saturn
my Moon sextile his Pluto
my Moon square his Chiron

my Mercury trine his Sun
my Mercury conjunct his Mars
my Mercury sextile his Neptune
my Mercury trine his Pluto exact

my Venus trine his Venus
my Venus square his Saturn exact

my Mars square his Sun
my Mars sextile his Uranus
my Mars biquintile his Neptune
my Mars square his Pluto
my Mars biquintile his Ceres exact

my Jupiter conjunct his Mercury
my Jupiter sextile his Venus
my Jupiter quintile his Neptune exact

my Saturn opposite his Uranus
my Saturn square his Neptune
my Saturn conjunct his Chiron

my Uranus biqintule his Mercury exact
my Uranus square his Venus
my Uranus conjunct his NN

my Neptune opposite his Jupiter
my Neptune conjunct his NN exact

my Pluto square his Sun
my Pluto square his Mercury
my Pluto trine his Jupiter
my Pluto square his Pluto
my Pluto sextile his Chiron

my NN opposite his Uranus
my NN square his Neptune
my NN conjunct his Chiron
my NN square his Ceres

my Chiron quintile his Venus exact
my Chiron conjunct his Jupiter
my Chiron conjunct his Uranus exact
my Chiron square his Neptune
my Chiron opposite his Chiron exact

my Vertex opposite his Sun
my Vertex opposite his Mercury

my Ceres sextile his Mars
my Ceres square his Uranus exact
my Ceres conjunct his Neptune
my Ceres sextile his Pluto

my AC trine his NN
my MC trine his Venus

posted December 17, 2013 11:23 AM            

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There may be a sense in your partner of having to give up something or to make sacrifices, as being together can bring up some level of pain or heartache, and possibly the need to be secret and private.

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Trueeeee. She passed away 2 years ago but I loved her deeply, my mom. Her Sun in my 12th.
It's as if we couldn't share our pain/hurt etc. with each other and the only explanation for it I can think of is that it would simply hurt too much.
This was also a very noticable pattern throughout our lives. I was never the one who saw her bad moments/suffering.. but my sister(s) DID. Name it.. after surgery for ex. I Always seemed to come at the/her "right & bright & strong" moments... very verry striking! (Even with death in the eyes... same 'strong' story).

posted December 17, 2013 01:20 PM            

Mars Conjunction Pluto Orb 1°01'
Uranus Conjunction Moon Orb 1°15'
MC Conjunction Moon Orb 2°25'
Sun Conjunction Moon Orb 3°44'
Sun Conjunction AS Orb 5°46'
Node Conjunction Mars Orb 6°32'
Uranus Conjunction AS Orb 8°15'
Neptune Conjunction Pluto Orb 8°26'

Mars Opposite Venus Orb 1°54'
Neptune Opposite Sun Orb 3°39'
Mars Opposite Sun Orb 3°45'
Neptune Opposite Venus Orb 5°30'

Neptune Square MC Orb 0°41'
Neptune Square Uranus Orb 1°05'
MC Square Mars Orb 1°34'
MC Square Neptune Orb 1°48'
Uranus Square Neptune Orb 1°52'
Pluto Square Jupiter Orb 2°48'
Sun Square Neptune Orb 4°21'
Jupiter Square Pluto Orb 4°27'
Sun Square Saturn Orb 4°48'
Uranus Square Mars Orb 5°15'
Venus Square Jupiter Orb 5°32'

MC Trine Uranus Orb 0°16'
Venus Trine Sun Orb 0°38'
Neptune Trine Mars Orb 0°45'
Pluto Trine Neptune Orb 1°03'
Venus Trine Venus Orb 1°12'
Venus Trine Neptune Orb 1°40'
AS Trine Mercury Orb 1°59'
Pluto Trine Sun Orb 2°05'
Moon Trine Saturn Orb 2°27'
Uranus Trine Uranus Orb 3°24'
Pluto Trine Venus Orb 3°56'
Mars Trine Saturn Orb 4°21'
Moon Trine Pluto Orb 5°48'
Sun Trine Uranus Orb 5°53'

Jupiter Sextile AS Orb 0°08'
Node Sextile Mercury Orb 0°44'
MC Sextile MC Orb 1°29'
MC Sextile Jupiter Orb 2°02'
Pluto Sextile Mars Orb 2°20'
Saturn Sextile AS Orb 2°34'
Neptune Sextile Neptune Orb 2°37'
Venus Sextile Pluto Orb 4°08'

Pluto Inconjunction Uranus Orb 0°29'
Uranus Inconjunction Sun Orb 0°50'
Uranus Inconjunction Venus Orb 1°00'
Lilith Inconjunction Mercury Orb 1°16'
Sun Inconjunction Venus Orb 1°28'
Moon Inconjunction AS Orb 1°29'
MC Inconjunction Sun Orb 2°50'
Sun Inconjunction Sun Orb 3°19'

Moon SemiSquare Uranus Orb 1°50'
Moon SesquiQuadrate MC Orb 0°03'
Lilith SesquiQuadrate Venus Orb 0°09'
Chiron SesquiQuadrate Pluto Orb 0°24'
AS SesquiQuadrate Venus Orb 0°33'
Node SesquiQuadrate Pluto Orb 0°44'
Mercury SesquiQuadrate Sun Orb 1°06'
AS SesquiQuadrate Sun Orb 1°17'
Mercury SesquiQuadrate Uranus Orb 1°27'
Lilith SesquiQuadrate Sun Orb 2°00'

Moon Quintile Neptune Orb 0°22'
Mercury Quintile Jupiter Orb 0°46'

posted December 17, 2013 02:33 PM            

Family connections are frequently found in the 12th house ie Sun, Saturn, and South Node.

Soul Mate connections are frequently found in the 8th house.