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Topic: Where Does Anger Come From?
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 17, 2013 04:37 AM
Is that a dumb question? Is it Mars? What signs and placements are angriest? How do the signs usually deal with anger most?I'm an aquarius, and I had a major freakout this evening that involved me punching the wall repetitively, and kicking, and screaming into my hands and blanket. But I usually hold most of my anger in and repress it and try to think of something else. How do you deal with anger, and what's your sign, moon, and rising? IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 4209 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 17, 2013 04:58 AM
Cancer Sun, Capricorn Mars, Scorpio Rising.Mars is in 3rd house. When I am angry I swear a lot and I'm very rude. Mars in 1st, 4th or 7th house tends to be the angriest. The most dangerous place for Mars to be is the 4th house. The person soul is angered and gets violent or experience violence (Mars is threatening the 4th house with its energy) in the home enviroment. People who repress anger have Mars in 12th house or its ruler is there. I must say that thre are no peaceful people. Even the most calm person can have Mars energy activated if its clashing with other planetary energies. In my opinion its GOOD to release anger. I rarely do that and I ended up depressed. Scream, yell, kick, do whatever you feel te need to do to release it. IP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 810 From: Missouri Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 17, 2013 05:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Cancer Sun, Capricorn Mars, Scorpio Rising.Mars is in 3rd house. When I am angry I swear a lot and I'm very rude. Mars in 1st, 4th or 7th house tends to be the angriest. The most dangerous place for Mars to be is the 4th house. The person soul is angered and gets violent or experience violence (Mars is threatening the 4th house with its energy) in the home enviroment. People who repress anger have Mars in 12th house or its ruler is there. I must say that thre are no peaceful people. Even the most calm person can have Mars energy activated if its clashing with other planetary energies. In my opinion its GOOD to release anger. I rarely do that and I ended up depressed. Scream, yell, kick, do whatever you feel te need to do to release it.
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posted December 17, 2013 08:11 AM
My mars is in libra in the 3rd house. When i get mad yikes!!!! I turn into a demonic war lord.
------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
CupOfDavid Knowflake Posts: 411 From: Canada Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 17, 2013 09:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Rosalind: Mars in 1st, 4th or 7th house tends to be the angriest. The most dangerous place for Mars to be is the 4th house. The person soul is angered and gets violent or experience violence (Mars is threatening the 4th house with its energy) in the home enviroment.
Oh Jesus. I'm laughing out loud right now because I have Mars in the 4th house opposite Pluto and part of a t-square with the Sun. No one makes me angrier than my family -- go figure.
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posted December 17, 2013 10:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by CupOfDavid: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Rosalind: [b]Mars in 1st, 4th or 7th house tends to be the angriest. The most dangerous place for Mars to be is the 4th house. The person soul is angered and gets violent or experience violence (Mars is threatening the 4th house with its energy) in the home enviroment.
Oh Jesus. I'm laughing out loud right now because I have Mars in the 4th house opposite Pluto and part of a t-square with the Sun. No one makes me angrier than my family -- go figure.[/B][/QUOTE]Lmfao i can imagine. IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 255 From: the 4th house Registered: Jan 2013
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posted December 17, 2013 10:16 AM
Hello, I'm a guy with mars in the 1st house square saturn in the 11th house, saturn sextile my moon. It feels pretty awkward for me to express anger. When I'm angry, I curse, scream, throw things, and hit people but all of that feels so wrong to me. Getting bullied physically or by way of some form of manipulation, having someone talk down to me or underestimate me gets me angry the most. Ugh...Cancer sun 4th house scorpio moon 8th house pisces rising trine saturn mars in aries 1st house square saturn and jupiter
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Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1244 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted June 07, 2020 08:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by ScorpioMoon: Hello, I'm a guy with mars in the 1st house square saturn in the 11th house, saturn sextile my moon. It feels pretty awkward for me to express anger. When I'm angry, I curse, scream, throw things, and hit people but all of that feels so wrong to me. Getting bullied physically or by way of some form of manipulation, having someone talk down to me or underestimate me gets me angry the most. Ugh...Cancer sun 4th house scorpio moon 8th house pisces rising trine saturn mars in aries 1st house square saturn and jupiter
How has life been having an 11th House Saturn? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14697 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 07, 2020 09:43 PM
Mars in Pisces. I yell if I'm really angry, otherwise I cry, and/or vent. It squares my Moon/Venus/Nodes, trines Uranus/ascendant. I think it's biquintile Pluto (I have no idea what that means, it's just one of those minor aspects that I remember). It rules my Sun, and co-rules my ascendant.I cry a lot, though. I'll feel all stiff and annoyed, and be kind of prickly or distracted, until I give in and cry. Aries, Gemini, Scorpio. Mars in the 4th. IP: Logged |
Travelman Knowflake Posts: 65 From: world Registered: Mar 2011
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posted June 08, 2020 10:00 AM
Moon square mars which, sadly, I have. At least IMO, that is it for me.Moon = Aries in the 3rd. Mars = Capricorn in the 1st. Moon trine Venus Sag in the 11th house softens that IMO. IP: Logged |
astro_kitty Newflake Posts: 15 From: Registered: Jun 2020
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posted June 08, 2020 01:00 PM
I also have Mars in the third house (Leo), and when I go off- I go OFF. I also have a multiple planet Square to Mars with my Jupiter, Sun and NN in Scorpio.IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2405 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted June 08, 2020 03:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Travelman: Moon square mars which, sadly, I have. At least IMO, that is it for me.Moon = Aries in the 3rd. Mars = Capricorn in the 1st. Moon trine Venus Sag in the 11th house softens that IMO.
i have moon square mars too, same moon/mars combo except my moon is tightly conjunct my descendant and my mars is loosely conjunct my ic they're part of a t-square with my venus, and my moon is part of a kite with venus/mercury/uranus it takes a lot to get me mad typically and i'm over quickly i dont typically lose my temper and most things wont get me angry, but i can be a dick though when i'm ****** typically you have to be close to me to get me actually mad, there has to be some level of caring though sometimes other people can **** me off if they're relentless i definitely don't have the worst temper out of anyone i know though, and most peoppe who know me tell me i'm the most laid back person they know i've been yelled at by exs for being too calm during arguments (they found it condescending or whatever) old roommate freaked out about that too, most people i've known i havent even fought with as for the ones i have generally very close, very very close and usually i tend towards sadness over anger IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2405 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted June 08, 2020 03:23 PM
also i generally tend towards dealing with anger and frustration by doing something like having a cigarette or a drink or whatever insert available drug option here sometimes a walk, a distraction libra rising/venus conjunct, virgo sun, aries moon since mars is mentioned that's in cap and may as well add in leo mercury since all the other personal placements are listed i really struggle with the emotional crutch cigarette thing, been stressed lately and started again my ex used to get ****** because i'd tell her i needed to go outside and smoke in the middle of fights to clear my head the time doing it though is about gathering thoughts and being able to present them all clearly IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 14697 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 08, 2020 03:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: i've been yelled at by exs for being too calm during arguments (they found it condescending or whatever)
I remember my mum kind of cheering when I finally stood up for myself with someone, back in 2008. I used to just remove myself from the situation, which was the smarter thing to do. There was a night when my sister was giving me the extreme coldness, as I tried to do something in the kitchen, around her (it was to do with her husband - he'd just caused trouble again). I understood, and was used to taking the blame for him, so I stayed calm, just did what I had to do. I can't remember what finally made me raise my voice a bit, but once I did, she backed off, like she was satisfied. She apologized later on (a rare thing for her - she hates apologizing). IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 2405 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted June 08, 2020 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: I remember my mum kind of cheering when I finally stood up for myself with someone, back in 2008. I used to just remove myself from the situation, which was the smarter thing to do.There was a night when my sister was giving me the extreme coldness, as I tried to do something in the kitchen, around her (it was to do with her husband - he'd just caused trouble again). I understood, and was used to taking the blame for him, so I stayed calm, just did what I had to do. I can't remember what finally made me raise my voice a bit, but once I did, she backed off, like she was satisfied. She apologized later on (a rare thing for her - she hates apologizing).
people will mistake me for being a total pushover but it's a mistake if i'm being quiet during something it's because i don't care and if i'm not raising my voice it's because i'm making sure i say exactly what i think and it isn't necessarily going to be pretty i have a knack for thinking of the most ****** up thing to say possible and typically also saying it had an argument with a woman at work and for the briefest of seconds i thought "i guess your son killed himself at 16 because he couldn't get away from you soon enough" and i refrained and instead said "you need to chill" but see if we weren't in a work situation i wouldve just said the first thing because i'm an ******* like that edit: btw i don't try to find the worst thing to possibly say it just happens IP: Logged |