posted December 17, 2013 09:59 AM            

Can anyone please tell me if these aspects between and my boyfriend is the reason why everything feels so "fated" between us? I feel like we are soulmates, only my fear of losing him (I have venus square pluto natally) sometimes overwhelmes me so much.

My North Node conjuncts his North Node
My Moon conjuncts his Moon
My Sun conjunct his Pluto
My Moon sextiles his North Node
My Mercury trines his North Node
My Venus sextile his Sun
My Venus sextile his Saturn
My Mars conjunct his Mars
My Neptune trines his Venus
My Neptune trine his North Node
My Pluto sextile his North Node
My Juno trines his Venus
My Juno conjunct his North Node

My Saturn squares his Sun
His Saturn squares my moon
My Saturn squares his Juno
His Saturn squares my Sun

In composite we also have multiple planets in the 4th house, and since our first date most of our dreams/conversations has been about having a family together.

Only currently we live 2 hours apart, and he has a lot of obligations to his job (he travels around the world constantly) which must be because of our Saturn squares, which at times make me feel very gloomy and depressed.

posted December 17, 2013 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Del Rey:
Synastry/Composite question: soulmates?

Can anyone please tell me if these aspects between and my boyfriend is the reason why everything feels so "fated" between us? I feel like we are soulmates, only my fear of losing him (I have venus square pluto natally) sometimes overwhelmes me so much.

My North Node conjuncts his North Node
My Moon conjuncts his Moon
My Sun conjunct his Pluto
My Moon sextiles his North Node
My Mercury trines his North Node
My Venus sextile his Sun
My Venus sextile his Saturn
My Mars conjunct his Mars
My Neptune trines his Venus
My Neptune trine his North Node
My Pluto sextile his North Node
My Juno trines his Venus
My Juno conjunct his North Node

My Saturn squares his Sun
His Saturn squares my moon
My Saturn squares his Juno
His Saturn squares my Sun

In composite we also have multiple planets in the 4th house, and since our first date most of our dreams/conversations has been about having a family together.

Only currently we live 2 hours apart, and he has a lot of obligations to his job (he travels around the world constantly) which must be because of our Saturn squares, which at times make me feel very gloomy and depressed.

I hope to hear your guys opinions on this! Thanks a lot!

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I have been told that having many planets in composite 4th house is not always a good thing, especially heavy planets (Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) and if there is a square to those planets... I have with someone a heavy composite 4th house with Saturn, Uranus and Neptune with composite Venus square composite Saturn and Uranus. I think it means that things won't be easy for us to be together. We live in 2 different countries. Apparently, our relationship is a karmic one as well.
But most important thing to remember, I have also been told that love can overcome anything even astrology .

posted December 17, 2013 11:19 AM            

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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
I have been told that having many planets in composite 4th house is not always a good thing, especially heavy planets (Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto) and if there is a square to those planets... I have with someone a heavy composite 4th house with Saturn, Uranus and Neptune with composite Venus square composite Saturn and Uranus. I think it means that things won't be easy for us to be together. We live in 2 different countries. Apparently, our relationship is a karmic one as well.
But most important thing to remember, I have also been told that love can overcome anything even astrology .

You can post your synastry and composite charts. I'm sure someone will help you .

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posted December 17, 2013 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Del Rey:
Thanks a lot! Yeah I'm relating to your situation, me and my boyfriend have Sun Mars Pluto and Mercury in 4th house, the long distance intensifies everything!

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You have a composite Sun in 4th house which is a really good thing .

"Composite Sun in the 4th House. Your relationship is based on a very solid foundation. You feel "at home" with one another--and will likely want to spend a lot of time alone together. Security and stability is important to you, and the passion runs very deep between you. It is natural to feel very comfortable with one another, as if you have known each other long before you actually have. You may tend to alienate others because you are inclined to keep to yourselves. You bond deeply and tend to hold on to each other quite tightly. The chances of you achieving a truly bonded and stable relationship are high with this position, unless the Sun is severely challenged in the composite chart. Mutual support is essential to your relationship, and if you ever sense this basic "ingredient" is going by the wayside, do your best to get it back. You have a strong sense that this relationship was fated or meant to be. You also tend to enjoy spending plenty of time together on the home front."

posted December 17, 2013 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by JennsenS2:
You have a composite Sun in 4th house which is a really good thing .

Composite Sun in the 4th House. Your relationship is based on a very solid foundation. You feel "at home" with one another--and will likely want to spend a lot of time alone together. Security and stability is important to you, and the passion runs very deep between you. It is natural to feel very comfortable with one another, as if you have known each other long before you actually have. You may tend to alienate others because you are inclined to keep to yourselves. You bond deeply and tend to hold on to each other quite tightly. The chances of you achieving a truly bonded and stable relationship are high with this position, unless the Sun is severely challenged in the composite chart. Mutual support is essential to your relationship, and if you ever sense this basic "ingredient" is going by the wayside, do your best to get it back. You have a strong sense that this relationship was fated or meant to be. You also tend to enjoy spending plenty of time together on the home front.

Where are your composite Uranus and Saturn ? Any hard aspects to them ?

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Thank you for the information!

Composite Uranus in Scorpio 6th house
Composite Saturn in 10th house Aries

posted December 17, 2013 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
I believe there can be saturn squares in synastry and composite with a soulmate absolutely - if the entire premise of the soulmate is to come together to learn something from one another, anyway.

I'm assuming though that you wouldn't see any in the charts involving Twin Souls though because supposedly that's not why they're together.

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posted December 17, 2013 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
I believe there can be saturn squares in synastry and composite with a soulmate absolutely - if the entire premise of the soulmate is to come together to learn something from one another, anyway.

I'm assuming though that you wouldn't see any in the charts involving Twin Souls though because supposedly that's not why they're together.

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posted December 17, 2013 12:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Twin Souls CANNOT be found in astrology. Twin souls are RARE. Also... there are two types of soulmates. People can be soulmates WITHOUT karma.
As for squares with Saturn. They are difficult but necessary. I haven't seen charts of SOLID COUPLES WITHOUT squares to Saturn.

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posted December 17, 2013 03:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Del Rey:
Wow really? Yes I believe that in life we have the opportunity to evolve our soul, and what is sweeter than helping eachother on that road?

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posted December 17, 2013 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I haven't seen charts of SOLID COUPLES WITHOUT squares to Saturn.

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posted December 17, 2013 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Twin Souls CANNOT be found in astrology. Twin souls are RARE. Also... there are two types of soulmates. People can be soulmates WITHOUT karma.
As for squares with Saturn. They are difficult but necessary. I haven't seen charts of SOLID COUPLES WITHOUT squares to Saturn.

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Honestly I believe anything is possible. If soulmates can be seen astrologically then it's not that far of a pitch to think that twin souls can be seen also. Maybe astrology hasn't advanced that far so that we know what to look for, or our own levels of knowledge just haven't progressed enough to be able to see it (I couldn't tell by looking at a chart either), but that doesn't automatically mean it's not possible.

Everybody has a twin soul but I agree that meet-ups are probably rare, but probably not as super-duper rare as most people would tell you; it's a big world, and the saying "the truth is stranger than fiction" exists for a reason.

I've always read that soulmates come together to learn from one another and resolve something so in the sense of what karma is that I'm familiar with, the idea of having no karma isn't really fitting here. I'd agree with you but I can't, I have to go with what I've read and seen documented and supported with some degree of proof.