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Topic: The venus-saturn curse
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 435
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 19, 2013 06:44 PM
  
I have the conjunction i feel ugly, personality and appearance and i think others don't find me attractive, why do i have to live like this? Full of suffering , i must of been one hell of a vain person in my past life and now im paying the price.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Moderator Posts: 3626
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 19, 2013 06:54 PM
That feeling is rampant among women and not uncommon in men. So I don't think it's the conjunction (which I have and don't feel that) or karma for a past life. It's more on how many companies try to get you to feel that way so they can sell you their products which are supposed to cure you of feeling like that (if only for a little while). And if you're female then you'll be attacked over your looks a lot, too (especially if you show anything other than self-loathing) as people believe that's what you care about the most (and they're probably right, generally speaking) similar to how the manhood and/or penis size is often criticized in men. IP: Logged |
florence
Knowflake Posts: 158
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 19, 2013 07:05 PM
i have the square and feel that way. mostly though i experience it as any light-heartedness or pleasure seems to be punished. but when i am voluntarily self-disciplined pleasure comes my way and sometimes i'm not in the mode for that. this is the thing i don't know how to remedy. i suppose sometimes i feel more confident in my appearance following hard work, not sure tho. ive thought i must have been really vain in a past life too but i guess its all just vanity. whether is liked or not IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl
Knowflake Posts: 480
From: Kingston, On, Canada
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 19, 2013 07:29 PM
NeptunianSag:
I have the conjunction i feel ugly, personality and appearance and i think others don't find me attractive, why do i have to live like this? Full of suffering , i must of been one hell of a vain person in my past life and now im paying the price.--I know what you mean, I have this aspect too. This is couple with venus square uranus...someone shoot me ;P IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1314
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 19, 2013 08:28 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
That feeling is rampant among women and not uncommon in men. So I don't think it's the conjunction (which I have and don't feel that) or karma for a past life. It's more on how many companies try to get you to feel that way so they can sell you their products which are supposed to cure you of feeling like that (if only for a little while). And if you're female then you'll be attacked over your looks a lot, too (especially if you show anything other than self-loathing) as people believe that's what you care about the most (and they're probably right, generally speaking) similar to how the manhood and/or penis size is often criticized in men.
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12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 1314
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 19, 2013 08:29 PM
Like pixiejane said, a fair number of people feel that way. I'm not sure if it's the conjunction that makes you feel that way. I have the conjunction myself, and I don't feel ugly. I think I have "flaws" for sure, but they're mine so I either like them or feel ok about them. When I was younger I had insecurities about my height and scars. Over time they have became a part of my identity, so I don't feel bad anymore. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 6761
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 20, 2013 12:21 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have the conjunction i feel ugly, personality and appearance and i think others don't find me attractive, why do i have to live like this? Full of suffering , i must of been one hell of a vain person in my past life and now im paying the price.
I feel like I have vanity karma. My square is from Saturn in Taurus to Venus in Leo. I must have been really super vain in a past life to merit that spooky square from the eighth house to the tenth. I also have Pluto conjunct south node in twelve. It does make me wonder... IP: Logged |
whaaat
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted December 20, 2013 04:25 AM
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 20, 2013 05:09 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have the conjunction i feel ugly, personality and appearance and i think others don't find me attractive, why do i have to live like this? Full of suffering , i must of been one hell of a vain person in my past life and now im paying the price.
I can't relate . At all. And I have Venus in Libra conjunct Saturn. I think my issue is not in feelin "unattractive" / "unworthy", its in being unable to express love and affection to partners. Both these planets fall in my 7th house and , although I get many suitors who make it clear how much they want me etc, I am very picky and usually play very hard to get. This aspect is not playing out as a "curse" ime. Infact, I have people saying that they had initially wanted to make advances on me all the time. But once people get to know me they say "I had a crush on you, but you seemed so unapproachable". But I like it like that. I am not romantic but sincere and have been described by my exes as "beautiful but closed off". The "closed off" part is Saturn, I know. But really, I have no issues whatsoever with this placement. I love it 
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 172
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 20, 2013 05:13 AM
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