posted December 19, 2013 08:30 PM            

More about us:
He's a Scorpio man with his sun in first house and moon in Virgo. His Venus and mercury are in scorpio. His north node is pisces 5th house.

I'm a Pisces sun woman, with my sun in 9th house. My moon in in scorpio in 5th house, with libra on 5th house cusp. My north node is also scorpio 5th house. (Does that mean moon is conjunct my north node - is that the astrological term?) My venus in aquarius in 8th house. My mars is in gemini 12th house. My mercury is in aquarius in 8th house.(Should I talk dirty to him?)

How compatible sexually do you think we are? What would he be like in bed based on his astrology? It's been 4 months and we haven't had sex yet. Is he waiting for me to make the first move? or are we both waiting for the other since our mars are in 12th house. The first week we met, we couldn't keep our hands off each other but we had to put a stop to it. He said he had full intentions of taking advantage of me when we met, but thought it would be wrong to defile me since he likes me a lot. Do I have to dig out his secrets first in order for him to trust me enough to want to have sex? I am cancer rising. He seems like he wants to be my friend first before we progress to a sexual relationship. From what I've read that's a Libran trait. I guess his mars in libra doesn't help in making up his mind either, that's why I want to know if I should make the first move in taking things further than just cuddling. He seems very gentle and sensitive with me and gets more so each day, and often kisses my face and forehead, and hand. I guess that's an expression of his libran mars. But should I assume he has a dirty or more rough or intense side based on all the scorpio in his chart? I know he does, but I'm wondering if that's why he's not sure if he should have sex with me. He isn't sure if I can handle it because he sees me as a vulnerable woman. Do I need to assert myself more. But I don't want to seem too controlling because I know he loves to be in control. Trouble is, I do too. There's a power struggle underlying our situation, but I've decided to take a back seat so that I can let him express himself to me. I feel it's worth it. If a scorpio sun such as him is being too gentle with me does it mean he's losing interest? Because of his virgo moon, could it be that he has a specific fantasy that turns him on which I'm not yet aware of and he isn't being forthcoming about for some reason? If so, is it because he's afraid or just indecisive?

His north node is in pisces in 5th house. Since I'm a pisces sun, and he's more familiar and comfortable (because of his moon) with Virgo, my opposite, do you think I kind of make him feel uncomfortable? We're pushing 40 so we're both getting away from our south node default patterns, and challenging ourselves to move beyond our south nodes so to speak. So the energy between us is pretty magnetic and stimulating. But I sometimes just feel that he respects me almost too much if you know what I mean, hence I'm here on the forum looking for advice on how to make him feel that I'm the one, not just emotionally but sexually. I think he has childhood issues about sex before marriage, based on his religious upbringing. Maybe that's the problem, because there's plenty of sexual energy between us to be honest.

His saturn is in Taurus, mine is in Cancer. I have virgo on the 6th house cusp.

Our composite chart puts my sun in his second house. Any thoughts on that? So far, I've noticed I've been spending much more money than I did before I met him. I feel compelled to give him things. His sun is in my 5th house.

If you have any ideas about our compatability sexually and in a long term relationship please enlighten me because I'm starting to get frustrated with our differences and eager to go deeper into things with him but don't know how.