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Topic: A guys moon in womans first house?
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ash20
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posted December 25, 2013 07:25 PM
 
And his moon possibly conjunct her pluto .. How would that make the guy feel about the woman?IP: Logged |
filleaspirant
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posted December 25, 2013 08:23 PM
Don't know about the Pluto conjunction, but I've had my Moon in a guy's 1st house. I think he felt very in tune and comfortable around me, so much so that he'd tell me things that were clearly very private. We didn't ever get romantic and we're not really close friends. We're more acquaintances than anything else.He's a Capricorn, so you can guess how private and closed off he's naturally like... I'm a girl, btw. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 25, 2013 08:46 PM
Woman is obsessive and controlling towards the mans emotions.
The man feels that the woman is intense and darkThat's my 2 c IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted December 26, 2013 01:36 AM
i'm also curious about this as well - i know a guy whose moon is in my first house, but for me that first house is also shared with my venus and ascendant in pisces...which happens to be in his 8th house, halp!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted December 26, 2013 07:23 AM
Generally speaking, the woman would represent the "ideal" of the man on the emotional level - he could feel exposed in her presence and depending on the aspects and the overall syanstry (and probably natal chart as well), he could feel safe around her and open up emotionally, and feel a strong bond, or on the reverse feel too vulnerable around her and prefer to retreat and keep an emotional distance to protect his feelings.His Moon conjunct her Pluto - she could overwhelm him with her intensity or personality in some way. There can be attraction in a sort of weird way "You have something special but it kinda scares me" type of thing. There could be hidden feelings and/or mind games if not controlled. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted December 27, 2013 08:51 PM
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ash20
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posted December 28, 2013 11:14 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Generally speaking, the woman would represent the "ideal" of the man on the emotional level - he could feel exposed in her presence and depending on the aspects and the overall syanstry (and probably natal chart as well), he could feel safe around her and open up emotionally, and feel a strong bond, or on the reverse feel too vulnerable around her and prefer to retreat and keep an emotional distance to protect his feelings.His Moon conjunct her Pluto - she could overwhelm him with her intensity or personality in some way. There can be attraction in a sort of weird way "You have something special but it kinda scares me" type of thing. There could be hidden feelings and/or mind games if not controlled.
Well we have some not so good aspects i guess and i completly agree with the emotional distancing because as of now he has completely cut me out of his life without listening to anything i have to say!.. Which frustrates me because im soo in love with him but he doesn't (or won't) believe it. His Venus sq my pluto
His Mars sq my uranus & neptune
His Sun sq my moon
My Sun sq his pluto
My Sun conj his saturn
My Saturn sq his moon
My Saturn opp his venus
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ash20
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posted December 28, 2013 11:16 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Woman is obsessive and controlling towards the mans emotions.
The man feels that the woman is intense and darkThat's my 2 c
Is that for moon conjunct pluto or his moon in her 1st house? IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 29, 2013 12:14 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
Is that for moon conjunct pluto or his moon in her 1st house?
Conjunct pluto. Moon in 1st means moon and Asc are in the same sign (most of the time). So his natural emotional responses match up with how she views herself and how she would approach life. She feels warm, understood and compatible. He feels that his emotions are reassured IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted December 29, 2013 12:34 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Conjunct pluto. Moon in 1st means moon and Asc are in the same sign (most of the time). So his natural emotional responses match up with how she views herself and how she would approach life. She feels warm, understood and compatible. He feels that his emotions are reassured
what about the other times? lol
I realized that I forgot to add the fact that the person whose moon I was talking about has their moon conjunct my jupiter not my venus/ascendant - i just happen to have both my jupiter and venus/ascendant all in my 1st house. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted December 29, 2013 09:52 AM
Does the house person usually become dependent on the moon person? Because i feel that im the one that can't let go of the relationship... its been months but i still feel the same for him IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 29, 2013 10:01 AM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
what about the other times? lol
I realized that I forgot to add the fact that the person whose moon I was talking about has their moon conjunct my jupiter not my venus/ascendant - i just happen to have both my jupiter and venus/ascendant all in my 1st house.
If you have your Asc in say, late degrees of sag and your first house goes into capricorn and his moon is in capricorn, the effect would be similar but milder. Your 1st house is how you view yourself. If it's both sag and cap, you are a little mix of both while he only matches with your cap persona
Moon conjunct jupiter means how he responds emotionally makes you feel lucky and happy, or your sense of expansiveness (learning, life, viewpoints) reassures his emotional nature. For example, I have jupiter in virgo. I'm most expansive, lucky when I am organized and critical (virgo). Hence I attract Virgo ascendants because their persona (critical, organized, workaholic) is affirmed by my sense of expanding myself. I feel lucky to be with them and they feel lucky to be with me. You didn't post your chart so that's as far as I can go. You can google specific placements (ie moon in Cap, jupiter in cap...) to read up for urself IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 29, 2013 10:02 AM
I had this aspect with the first boy I liked. I was 14. His Moon was in exact conjunction with my ASC. I really liked him. He was dead gorgeous BUT his personality wasn't that gorgeous. He was a drug addict and abusive. He was beating his gf regularly.
When he found out I liked him he laughed. Life laughed at him years after. He is miserable.IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted December 29, 2013 11:48 AM
quote:
Originally posted by theunknown:
If you have your Asc in say, late degrees of sag and your first house goes into capricorn and his moon is in capricorn, the effect would be similar but milder. Your 1st house is how you view yourself. If it's both sag and cap, you are a little mix of both while he only matches with your cap persona
Moon conjunct jupiter means how he responds emotionally makes you feel lucky and happy, or your sense of expansiveness (learning, life, viewpoints) reassures his emotional nature.For example, I have jupiter in virgo. I'm most expansive, lucky when I am organized and critical (virgo). Hence I attract Virgo ascendants because their persona (critical, organized, workaholic) is affirmed by my sense of expanding myself. I feel lucky to be with them and they feel lucky to be with me. You didn't post your chart so that's as far as I can go. You can google specific placements (ie moon in Cap, jupiter in cap...) to read up for urself
thanks, that actually helps a lot. i didn't quite think it was the right place to post my chart. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted December 29, 2013 12:37 PM
that seems like a great place for his moon to be! he is probably really comfortable with you and it probably feels natural for both of you 
What do you all think about man's moon in woman's 8th house sextile her sun? (orb5'15)
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theunknown
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posted December 30, 2013 01:13 AM
@freebrainstorm: you're welcome. Yeah, I'm just giving examples and how you can help yourself. I dont know much about 8th house but sex and death (and other plutonic stuff) come to mind.
Sextile in synastry doesn't mean much beyond the fact that his emotional responses go smoothly with yours IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted December 30, 2013 10:51 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
Does the house person usually become dependent on the moon person? Because i feel that im the one that can't let go of the relationship... its been months but i still feel the same for him
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litarot
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posted October 23, 2022 01:11 PM
Well, let's go. I have a person who has her moon in Aries in my house 1. Honestly, as the person in the house I didn't feel much. I think the Moon person felt very comfortable with me. When I started working with this person, I didn't see her romantically, I just felt comfortable with her, but she seemed more comfortable and open to me. Over time, we created a very strong bond (Moon Conjunction with Saturn). She has her Venus in Capricorn, and she's more restrained... a romantic attraction has developed over time that I don't even know how it was possible. She is married and has 2 children. She is 16 years older than me. We walked away... the romantic feeling I'm sure started from her, because every time I caught her looking at me and she made some insinuations, but with that Venus in Capricorn things weren't so expressive.IP: Logged |
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posted October 31, 2022 02:53 PM
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posted November 24, 2023 06:34 AM
i have a guy’s moon in my 1H and yes, he told me he feels like he could do anything and everything with me by his side.
sometimes he’d tell me things… secrets, about his family, friends.. after that he was reluctant like “damn, i can’t believe i told you that. you mustn’t tell anyone.” and so on.
there was a deep understanding, sometimes too much of it and we’d clash. his moon is conjunct my ASC at 0°.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted November 24, 2023 11:07 AM
I have had attractions to men w/ moon in Gemini. My ex husband had his moon here. but in my 12th house. Also it squared my Venus Pisces...this can be a big "I don't feel appreciated" aspect for my Venus and I think I would try to avoid this like the plague. Oooo but there is another guy with moon in Gemini. We have great chemistry. He talked me into coming back home when things really hit a wall in my marriage. He was super supportive to talk to. While I moved back in with my family. When my health was recovered we hooked up. I've also have had group sex with him. Don't know what house his moon is in. IP: Logged |
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