posted December 26, 2013 05:29 AM            

So he can be a wishy washy guy, being warm and loving one minute and cold and distant the next. I attributed this part of his personality to his Moon being in the 12th house. When I did more reading on his chart, I observed his Mars in Gemini. Gemini can be so aloof sometimes. But I've recently read over his chart again and I found the real reason for his lukewarm approach in relationships is his Venus opposite Pluto. He has Venus in Taurus so he can be loving and warm, while his Mars in Gemini makes him aloof again, but that's natural. What his Venus opp Pluto does is use that coldness to manipulate. My Libra moon, Libra rising lover hates conflict, but his Venus opp Pluto definitely creates unnecessary issues.

Venus opp Pluto tends to attract the wrong mate. This is true for my bf, as I look at his past girlfriends like, "Wtf were you doing ?? These girls obviously don't suit you". I always say that I found him because he definitely was not looking in my direction.

Is my Scorpio moon or Sun + Merc sextile Pluto right for him? I feel like I've helped him confront a lot of his demons, something that is a transcending factor for people with Venus opp Pluto. Upon meeting me, he's transformed so much.

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posted December 26, 2013 07:02 AM            

You can help him with his "issues" (contradictions, inhibitions, whatever) but ultimately he's the one who has the aspect so he's the one who's gotta deal with it.