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I'm so cappy
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posted December 29, 2013 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What's your opinion?

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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.

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DaniPepper87
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posted December 29, 2013 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DaniPepper87     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Cappy!

Between my mother and me, I think Moon Conjunct NN. I tend to mold my destiny because of her emotions. For me is a burden!

My Jupiter Opposite her Mars too. When I take initiative, she comes and throws cold water in any plan I have... Ahhhh!

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I'm so cappy
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posted December 29, 2013 08:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Dani! Thanks for sharing.

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12muddy
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posted December 29, 2013 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm I wouldn't want moon, mars, moon/Saturn harsh aspects... Sounds like the making of one explosive stew pot. Mercury harsh aspects may mean misunderstandings.

My mars squares my mother's mercury, mars, Jupiter, Uranus. Her mars square my pluto. Her moon squares my stellium.

My mercury squares her moon n venus - it feels like we speak in different languages.

No wonder why it's hard for us to have a normal conversation haha we have moon conjunct moon though. It may explain why she gets under my skin so easily. In a way, I think we clash coz we're so alike, in many ways.

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Leocassandra
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posted December 29, 2013 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leocassandra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the most problems with my relationship with mother are because of:
-My Saturn Square her Venus- I dont appreciate her loving
-Her Saturn Square my Sun- she doesn't appreciate my persona
-Her Saturn square my Saturn
-My Saturn on her Moon- she thinks im unemotional, for me she can be childish
- Her North Node on my Uranus-im unpredictable in her view.
IMO Saturn/Chiron and Pluto aspects are the worst

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filleaspirant
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posted December 29, 2013 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for filleaspirant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a good relationship with my mother, even though she's a Leo and I'm a Virgo.

I think the friction comes from our house overlays.

I've got a very sensitive 8th house, with Venus in there, and she conjuncts my Venus with her own Pluto-Sun conjunction. My Sun is also in her 8th. My 4H Mars falls in her 2H, so I tend to want to control how she runs the house and her finances/how she spends money. Her 4H Moon falls in my 6H, conjunct my Jupiter, so her emotional needs feel a lot like work to me, but I'm always willing to put in the effort.

House overlays, when activated, are powerful stuff.

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fireopal09
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posted December 29, 2013 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mother's Saturn is conjunct my Ascendant & opposite my moon. My Pisces moon is treated rather harshly. She is demanding and highly critical of me. My daughter and had to move in with her after I separated from my now ex husband. If I had the financial wherewithal to get out, I would. She still tries to bully me, but I'm not a child anymore; so, it doesn't work. She has wondered aloud why I have been in mentally abusive relationships. Duh! It is what I was raised with and what is familiar to me. The past few years I think she as asked how I am maybe a handful of times. Sorry for the rant. She got drunk last night & tried to pick a fight (verbal) fight with me.

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Violets
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posted December 29, 2013 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ummm...

AC square AC and opposite Mercury.
My mom has Chiron conjunct AC in natal, so both are opposite my Mercury and square my AC/DC.

We both have Sun and Moon in opposition (go figure).

Her Sun is opposite my Mars, and her Moon/Pholus is conjunct my Mars. Rather explosive.

Also, her Pluto sits on my AC. It's too heavy and controlling, along with her Scorpio AC.
Her Pluto is also opposite my Mercury. Too controlling again. No one ever says the right thing at the right time.

I have Venus opposite Pluto in natal.
Her Mars is conjunct my Pluto, and opposite my Venus.

Her Mercury is conjunct my Saturn, square my Pluto, and square my Venus. Everything she says grates on my nerves. I love her, but she's grating.

Jupiter square Jupiter

Her Uranus square my Jupiter

Her Venus square my Jupiter.

Her NN/POF is square my Mercury, AC/DC, and POF.

Her Karma is about 2-3 degrees from my Vertex.

My Uranus in her 12th.
Her Sun in my 12th.

Fun, eh?

Somehow we manage, but it hasn't been an easy ride.

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Violets
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posted December 29, 2013 01:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Now that I think about it, we both have a few oppositions in our charts that touch on each other's planets.

Also, the hard aspects between our charts involve our chart rulers, or the rulers of our luminaries. It always felt like I was wearing a sweater that was way too small and really itchy.

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Selene
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posted December 29, 2013 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have Moon conjunct Uranus DW. Her Uranus conjuncts my Moon by 2 degrees, mine conjuncts her Moon exact.

I love her dearly, but i cannot live with her. She's over protecting and can't let me go on with my own life. Speculates with her health to make me feel guilty, etc. I'm over 22 now, yet she still sees me as a little girl, not being able to be myself. Basically, she's the reason i had bad relationships with my peers when i lived at home.

Now i visit her in 2-3 months, call her every day, because she lives alone. And it's all fine. If i stay at her place longer than 2-3 days, it's too much for me. It's easier to love her from a distance. I blame my Moon -Pluto square for this. And Moon - Uranus DW conjunction very well fits in the picture.

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AriesLilith
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posted December 29, 2013 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesLilith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mom was not mature enough and she was cold, emotionally hurtful, harsh when I was young. Our relationship was at its rockiest when I was a teenager, and she even needed me to be her support.
But our relationship has been improved a lot since then, she also improved a lot herself (was depressive and emotionally unstable), and now our relationship is more balanced. I forgave her as I empathized with her pain and she was just lost and a human back then, thought I think that she having changed a lot to better was what saved our relationship.

I guess that the worst aspects would be her Moon in Cap which is in a square sign of my Aries Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus/BML, and then her Saturn is on my DC, squaring my Saturn/IC/MC. Ouch! Well, she has Jupiter cj my Aries stellium and Venus cj my Mars, Moon trine Mars and a few other aspects to balance out.

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incognito
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posted December 29, 2013 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for incognito     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mars conjunct saturn worst. I had this with my mom. I was the mars. She would beat me with whatever she could get her hands on. When she got really angry she would pull me across the floor by my hair and my older brother would have to intervene. My dad would tell her to at least not hit me on the face or head. I was young so I thought maybe she would get so angry she might kill me.

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lifefullofwords
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posted December 29, 2013 07:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lifefullofwords     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mom's Moon in Libra is square my natal Cancer Sun-Cap Mars opposition, and in tight orb too. We're very close but our relationship is difficult and lately we've been fighting a lot. We have some nice aspects to help us through our problems though.

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Mango
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posted December 30, 2013 03:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mango     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mums moon is square my sun. I hate her Aries impulsive and insensitive moon, especially being a Gemini sun it's too much.

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ash20
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posted December 30, 2013 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ash20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My moms moon is in my 8th house and we've had alot of physical confrontations. I also think she is manipulative and is always guilt tripping.

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