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Topic: synastry and mind games? which aspects?
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moonstruck87
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From: Indianapolis, IN
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posted December 29, 2013 12:40 PM
  
I am leaving this pretty open here but I want to hear from you all about any synastry aspects you've had in relationships where there have been mind games? manipulative behavior? hot & cold behavior? from either one person or both...
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Rosalind
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posted December 29, 2013 01:00 PM
Squares to Neptune.IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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From: Indianapolis, IN
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posted December 29, 2013 01:16 PM
I currently have double whammy moon square neptune with someone... ouchIP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 29, 2013 01:26 PM
Sun or Moon square Neptune brings mind games.IP: Logged |
starchaser
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posted December 29, 2013 01:28 PM
i guess Pluto aspects too.IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted December 29, 2013 01:40 PM
starchaser - negative aspects to pluto? or pluto overall?IP: Logged |
starchaser
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posted December 29, 2013 01:51 PM
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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
starchaser - negative aspects to pluto? or pluto overall?
Conjunctions too [if you don't include them in ''negative'' aspects] Though i believe Pluto overall can do that more or less even in a sweeter way for ''easy'' aspects! That's just my opinion of course  IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 29, 2013 03:07 PM
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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
I am leaving this pretty open here but I want to hear from you all about any synastry aspects you've had in relationships where there have been mind games? manipulative behavior? hot & cold behavior? from either one person or both...
Pluto, Pluto, Pluto.
And...Pluto. Which doesn't necessarily mean it always manifests in a negative manner like that...but yeah, when the energy isn't handled right in a relationship you get people trying to headf u c k each other.
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hannaramaa
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posted December 29, 2013 04:20 PM
Neptune doesn't bring games, it's about illusions, but it's not as conscious so as to say someone is using it to play a mind game.Pluto DOES like to control, but even then it's not what comes to mind first for mind games. At least not by itself. Drumroll... Mars. Mars is competitive and wants to win. When you have Mars and Pluto in synastry it undoubtedly creates energy where mind games can manifest. Mars is all about the ego and achieving goals, makes perfect sense.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 29, 2013 10:10 PM
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Originally posted by IMoppedtheFloor:
Pluto, Pluto, Pluto.And...Pluto. Which doesn't necessarily mean it always manifests in a negative manner like that...but yeah, when the energy isn't handled right in a relationship you get people trying to headf u c k each other.
I agree its pluto and not neptune...neptune is just dreamy and can lead u to think someone is ideal and to save u and then they let u down but it isnt mind games IP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted December 29, 2013 10:23 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I agree its pluto and not neptune...neptune is just dreamy and can lead u to think someone is ideal and to save u and then they let u down but it isnt mind games
I think it's more that the person lies to themselves, and lets themselves down than the other party - because Neptune makes them put the other person up on an impossibly high pedestal no one can live up to, so then when the partner inevitably fails - and by that I mean, shows signs of being VERY human - the other one feels betrayed and disillusioned, even if the other party was pretty upfront and clear about who they were/are all along. It's like that line from that NIN song, "I just made you up, to hurt myself". THAT is Neptune. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 60
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 30, 2013 11:56 AM
Interesting about mars... So my mars is square my bf's pluto by an orb of 8' Is that too wide to be felt or is this the culprit??IP: Logged |
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