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Topic: CANCER MOONS- do you like to be mothered or do the mothering??
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Mvs424 Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted December 31, 2013 08:54 AM
Im talking to a Virgo sun Cancer moon guy right now.. First date is Friday Ive found conflicting information though, do they like to be "nurtured" per say? My pisces moon likes to be babied haha, but I can certainly dish it out as well. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1211 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 09:13 AM
Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??My darling - the answer is BOTH. IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 31, 2013 09:18 AM
My cancer moon ex husband was good at mothering his kids, but not me. He didn't even try, but maybe that was the composite moon in the sixth playing itself out, who knows? He did expect to be mothered by me a lot, though. Even demanded it! And when our son was born, he very soon thereafter said he felt I wasn't paying enough attention to him, as a husband. I, too, have cancer moon, and I prefer to do the mothering, otherwise it starts to feel claustrophobic. I don't mind if someone calls to find out if I am okay, offers to cook a meal, etc., but please...don't hover...my Aquarius ascendant won't like it! IP: Logged |
Mvs424 Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted December 31, 2013 09:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??My darling - the answer is BOTH.
Haha I was sort of hoping that would be the answer. Plus, Virgo sun is a giver by nature so I am hoping that is the case with him However Ill probably have to hold back on the babying a bit, (my moon is in the 4th house) don't want to scare him away IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 341 From: 12th House with pr.moon Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 09:50 AM
Nope... My cancer moon is in 10th conjunct AC , which is in capricorn House The moon squared by Sun,AC,Saturn( Libra) ,all in 1st House.So , I have a conflicted Cancer Moon , which highly prefer in the 10th area but really against myself (1stH) and the sign of relationship(Libra) . For the cancer moon and mothering /ed quality , I think you should consider the hard aspect of Mars ,Uranus , Saturn to the Cancer Moon . These 3 planets , when make a hard aspect , might alter the mothering/ed quality........ i.e. The uranus conjunct the Cancer Moon might not show this quality as well. Except the Neptune , if hard aspect , could be more clingy ? Although my moon squared by saturn , I 'm always craving for mothering . HTH IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1211 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 09:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mvs424: Haha I was sort of hoping that would be the answer. Plus, Virgo sun is a giver by nature so I am hoping that is the case with him
Let's hope so! IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4499 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 10:29 AM
Cancer moons usually yearn to be understood,to be loved, to be 'taken care of',and if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50806 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 31, 2013 10:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyAries86: Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??My darling - the answer is BOTH.
I was just gonna answer the same way. Great minds think alike Hi Crabby ------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50806 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 31, 2013 10:48 AM
quote: Originally posted by crabbypatty: My cancer moon ex husband was good at mothering his kids, but not me. He didn't even try, but maybe that was the composite moon in the sixth playing itself out, who knows? He did expect to be mothered by me a lot, though. Even demanded it! And when our son was born, he very soon thereafter said he felt I wasn't paying enough attention to him, as a husband. I, too, have cancer moon, and I prefer to do the mothering, otherwise it starts to feel claustrophobic. I don't mind if someone calls to find out if I am okay, offers to cook a meal, etc., but please...don't hover...my Aquarius ascendant won't like it!
Speaking of that, I just saw your text message, Crabby. I am sorry I did not get back.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1211 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 11:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407:
if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.
*Hallelujah*
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7999 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 31, 2013 12:38 PM
I've dated one forever. It's not about being their mommy, maybe the ones that have mommy issues. They want you to show how much you love them. The easiest to do that is by feeding them, they love to be spoiled!!!!!IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 50806 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 31, 2013 01:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I've dated one forever. It's not about being their mommy, maybe the ones that have mommy issues. They want you to show how much you love them. The easiest to do that is by feeding them, they love to be spoiled!!!!!
Yes, we loved to be spoiled
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AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 798 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted December 31, 2013 05:32 PM
Cancer moon here. I love to give nurturing and being nurtured kinda has an erotic effect on me.So unless you really wanna turn things up a notch, rather let me be the one who does it. My Mars is in Libra and I think it can be synonymous with Mars in Cance:I look for someone to treat me in the same way that i treat them. I look foer a lot of tlc. Why don't you check out his Mars sign to see what turns him on?
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Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 4499 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 01, 2014 02:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: Cancer moon here. I love to give nurturing and being nurtured kinda has an erotic effect on me.
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crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 786 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 01, 2014 09:00 AM
hi Ami (((hugs)))I really don't want to be mothered, so maybe I should put up my chart to figure out why. In a romantic relationship, I'd like it if my S/O brought home flowers, or made reservations to a restaurant knowing I like to eat there, but that's not mothering, is it? IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor Knowflake Posts: 123 From: USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 01, 2014 11:38 AM
Cancer moon here, too. Answer: It depends on my mood LOLActually, I like the giving part. It's easier for me to give. IP: Logged |
PlutoSurvivor Knowflake Posts: 123 From: USA Registered: Sep 2011
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posted January 01, 2014 11:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: Cancer moons usually yearn to be understood,to be loved, to be 'taken care of',and if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.
I found this true with Cancer Moon men. They are looking for someone who is emotionally available to them. And they have so much to give. IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 367 From: Kingston, On, Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 01, 2014 11:50 AM
I know this is about cancer moon men but I thought I might be able to give some insight. I'm a cancer sun and I tend to want to nurture/help people but enjoy being 'protected' by my partner. It may be a general characteristics of cancers.IP: Logged |
mcmlxix Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Jupiter Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 02, 2014 11:30 AM
Virgo Sun & Cancer Moon male here and I cannot stand to be smothered…I mean mothered…corralled, domesticated, or any of that. Maybe it’s because my Moon is in the 11th and my Sag Mars is in the 4th. I’m also not a motherer…I like independence in others as well. That said, I do have the Virgo tendency to continually do “little things” for people, I also love to cook and feed others, and might take it a little personally if you don’t have a hearty (and adventurous) appetite.
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LovelyAries86 Knowflake Posts: 1211 From: OH, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 02, 2014 05:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by mcmlxix: Virgo Sun & Cancer Moon male here and I cannot stand to be smothered…I mean mothered…corralled, domesticated, or any of that. Maybe it’s because my Moon is in the 11th and my Sag Mars is in the 4th. I’m also not a motherer…I like independence in others as well. That said, I do have the Virgo tendency to continually do “little things” for people, I also love to cook and feed others, and might take it a little personally if you don’t have a hearty (and adventurous) appetite.
Yeah, you aren't a typical Cancer Moon. LOL. The 11th House has taken you over. I'm an Aries, I do like my space of course. But also I love to feel protected, looked after, loved. IP: Logged |
Marandana Newflake Posts: 10 From: Mex Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 02, 2014 10:24 PM
My best friend has a cancer moon and she's really proud of it. She loves both to be mothered, and do the mothering. She's in her early twenties and all she wants in the world is to find a husband and start having babies.IP: Logged |
Mvs424 Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted January 02, 2014 10:25 PM
I know cancer moons are a bit "traditional"....... How do you think he would feel if I snuck the check tomorrow night? That's my independent aries venus talking lol, but his venus is in libra so I don't think he'll mind! I do hope he likes some good ol fashion nurturing though, its something I like to give/recieve IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1318 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 02, 2014 10:30 PM
My libra friend has a cancer moon and likes to be mothered. She can be a ***** when it doesnt happen. My other capricorn friend with cancer moon likes to mother and be mothered. Will hold a grudge if she doesnt get enough attention.
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