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Mvs424
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posted December 31, 2013 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mvs424     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im talking to a Virgo sun Cancer moon guy right now.. First date is Friday Ive found conflicting information though, do they like to be "nurtured" per say? My pisces moon likes to be babied haha, but I can certainly dish it out as well.

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 31, 2013 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??

My darling - the answer is BOTH.

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posted December 31, 2013 09:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My cancer moon ex husband was good at mothering his kids, but not me. He didn't even try, but maybe that was the composite moon in the sixth playing itself out, who knows? He did expect to be mothered by me a lot, though. Even demanded it! And when our son was born, he very soon thereafter said he felt I wasn't paying enough attention to him, as a husband.

I, too, have cancer moon, and I prefer to do the mothering, otherwise it starts to feel claustrophobic. I don't mind if someone calls to find out if I am okay, offers to cook a meal, etc., but please...don't hover...my Aquarius ascendant won't like it!

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Mvs424
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posted December 31, 2013 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mvs424     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??

My darling - the answer is BOTH.


Haha I was sort of hoping that would be the answer. Plus, Virgo sun is a giver by nature so I am hoping that is the case with him However Ill probably have to hold back on the babying a bit, (my moon is in the 4th house) don't want to scare him away

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posted December 31, 2013 09:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyKitty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope... My cancer moon is in 10th conjunct AC , which is in capricorn House
The moon squared by Sun,AC,Saturn( Libra) ,all in 1st House.

So , I have a conflicted Cancer Moon , which highly prefer in the 10th area but really against myself (1stH) and the sign of relationship(Libra) .

For the cancer moon and mothering /ed quality , I think you should consider the hard aspect of Mars ,Uranus , Saturn to the Cancer Moon . These 3 planets , when make a hard aspect , might alter the mothering/ed quality........ i.e. The uranus conjunct the Cancer Moon might not show this quality as well.
Except the Neptune , if hard aspect , could be more clingy ?

Although my moon squared by saturn , I 'm always craving for mothering .

HTH

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LovelyAries86
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posted December 31, 2013 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mvs424:
Haha I was sort of hoping that would be the answer. Plus, Virgo sun is a giver by nature so I am hoping that is the case with him

Let's hope so!

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Jessica2407
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posted December 31, 2013 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moons usually yearn to be understood,to be loved, to be 'taken care of',and if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.

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Ami Anne
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posted December 31, 2013 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Do we like to give OR receive the mothering??

My darling - the answer is BOTH.


I was just gonna answer the same way. Great minds think alike

Hi Crabby

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posted December 31, 2013 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
My cancer moon ex husband was good at mothering his kids, but not me. He didn't even try, but maybe that was the composite moon in the sixth playing itself out, who knows? He did expect to be mothered by me a lot, though. Even demanded it! And when our son was born, he very soon thereafter said he felt I wasn't paying enough attention to him, as a husband.

I, too, have cancer moon, and I prefer to do the mothering, otherwise it starts to feel claustrophobic. I don't mind if someone calls to find out if I am okay, offers to cook a meal, etc., but please...don't hover...my Aquarius ascendant won't like it!


Speaking of that, I just saw your text message, Crabby. I am sorry I did not get back.

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posted December 31, 2013 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:

if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.


*Hallelujah*

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posted December 31, 2013 12:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've dated one forever. It's not about being their mommy, maybe the ones that have mommy issues. They want you to show how much you love them. The easiest to do that is by feeding them, they love to be spoiled!!!!!

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posted December 31, 2013 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I've dated one forever. It's not about being their mommy, maybe the ones that have mommy issues. They want you to show how much you love them. The easiest to do that is by feeding them, they love to be spoiled!!!!!


Yes, we loved to be spoiled

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posted December 31, 2013 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moon here. I love to give nurturing and being nurtured kinda has an erotic effect on me.

So unless you really wanna turn things up a notch, rather let me be the one who does it.

My Mars is in Libra and I think it can be synonymous with Mars in Cance:I look for someone to treat me in the same way that i treat them. I look foer a lot of tlc.

Why don't you check out his Mars sign to see what turns him on?

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posted January 01, 2014 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Cancer moon here. I love to give nurturing and being nurtured kinda has an erotic effect on me.


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crabbypatty
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posted January 01, 2014 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi Ami (((hugs)))

I really don't want to be mothered, so maybe I should put up my chart to figure out why. In a romantic relationship, I'd like it if my S/O brought home flowers, or made reservations to a restaurant knowing I like to eat there, but that's not mothering, is it?

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posted January 01, 2014 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSurvivor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer moon here, too.
Answer: It depends on my mood LOL

Actually, I like the giving part. It's easier for me to give.

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posted January 01, 2014 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSurvivor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Cancer moons usually yearn to be understood,to be loved, to be 'taken care of',and if you are someone worthy of their love, they will reciprocate all the above tenfold.

I found this true with Cancer Moon men. They are looking for someone who is emotionally available to them. And they have so much to give.

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posted January 01, 2014 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Canadiangirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know this is about cancer moon men but I thought I might be able to give some insight. I'm a cancer sun and I tend to want to nurture/help people but enjoy being 'protected' by my partner. It may be a general characteristics of cancers.

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mcmlxix
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posted January 02, 2014 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mcmlxix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo Sun & Cancer Moon male here and I cannot stand to be smothered…I mean mothered…corralled, domesticated, or any of that. Maybe it’s because my Moon is in the 11th and my Sag Mars is in the 4th.

I’m also not a motherer…I like independence in others as well. That said, I do have the Virgo tendency to continually do “little things” for people, I also love to cook and feed others, and might take it a little personally if you don’t have a hearty (and adventurous) appetite.

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LovelyAries86
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posted January 02, 2014 05:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
Virgo Sun & Cancer Moon male here and I cannot stand to be smothered…I mean mothered…corralled, domesticated, or any of that. Maybe it’s because my Moon is in the 11th and my Sag Mars is in the 4th.

I’m also not a motherer…I like independence in others as well. That said, I do have the Virgo tendency to continually do “little things” for people, I also love to cook and feed others, and might take it a little personally if you don’t have a hearty (and adventurous) appetite.


Yeah, you aren't a typical Cancer Moon. LOL. The 11th House has taken you over.

I'm an Aries, I do like my space of course. But also I love to feel protected, looked after, loved.

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Marandana
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posted January 02, 2014 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best friend has a cancer moon and she's really proud of it. She loves both to be mothered, and do the mothering. She's in her early twenties and all she wants in the world is to find a husband and start having babies.

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Mvs424
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posted January 02, 2014 10:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mvs424     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know cancer moons are a bit "traditional"....... How do you think he would feel if I snuck the check tomorrow night? That's my independent aries venus talking lol, but his venus is in libra so I don't think he'll mind!

I do hope he likes some good ol fashion nurturing though, its something I like to give/recieve

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posted January 02, 2014 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My libra friend has a cancer moon and likes to be mothered. She can be a ***** when it doesnt happen.


My other capricorn friend with cancer moon likes to mother and be mothered. Will hold a grudge if she doesnt get enough attention.

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