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Topic: Taurus men are clingy?
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prettyinpink
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posted January 01, 2014 08:33 PM
  
I'm a Sag girl and I'm dating this Taurus guy. He's usually really sweet and a bit clingy but other times he's a bit cold...so idk how close I can get. I don't want him to run away from me lol we talk a lot online but conversations are usually better when he starts them...so should I wait for him to call me or should I take the first step?and are they clingy? haha thanks! IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted January 01, 2014 08:49 PM
what's his moon sign?IP: Logged |
prettyinpink
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posted January 01, 2014 09:06 PM
Pisces! mine is AquariusIP: Logged |
IMoppedtheFloor
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posted January 01, 2014 09:10 PM
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
Pisces! mine is Aquarius
That's why you think he's clingy. Aquarius Moons need a lotta space. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted January 01, 2014 09:19 PM
A Taurus can be possessive. I'm not familiar with Pisces moon though.Your Aquarius moon probably has a hard time understanding his emotions. lol. IP: Logged |
prettyinpink
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posted January 01, 2014 09:23 PM
oh sometimes it's just awful and I feel like I should give up.
we've had SO MANY arguments because he says something and I understand something else (communication is terrible).
Yeah, I don't undestand his feelings :/ even because he doesn't show them oftenIP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted January 01, 2014 09:32 PM
I don't know your angles but you guys probably have a Sun square Moon double whammy going on.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 02, 2014 11:02 PM
Snuggly, not clingy.IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted January 03, 2014 12:04 AM
Im very new to astrology but I would like to share my opinion. I know few Taurus guys really well. I have zero Taurus placements in my natal chart but I am a Taurus magnet.Dont ask me why.
Taurus men are NOT clingy. They are very stable and protective (read possessive) . If u hurt him it might probably be the last time u get to hurt him cuz he will disappear.IP: Logged |
prettyinpink
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posted January 03, 2014 10:22 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Im very new to astrology but I would like to share my opinion. I know few Taurus guys really well. I have zero Taurus placements in my natal chart but I am a Taurus magnet.Dont ask me why.
Taurus men are NOT clingy. They are very stable and protective (read possessive) . If u hurt him it might probably be the last time u get to hurt him cuz he will disappear.
Same happens to me. Most of my friends (men and women) are Taurus. I've dated 2 other Taurus guys. I'm a Sag with Aquarius moon, so..maybe it's my Cancer ascendant? I also have Venus in Capricorn...all the rest is Sag (Mars, Jupiter...)my chart is a mess lol
Yes, I don't think they're really clingy but I couldn't think of a better word...but he kind of acts like I don't give him enough attention. Maybe he's spoiled?
Thanks for your advice  IP: Logged |
Delilah423
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posted January 03, 2014 11:09 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Snuggly, not clingy.
That definitely describes my Taurus man! IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted January 03, 2014 07:27 PM
Taurus with Pisces Moon here.Taurus are not clingy by nature because they are actually self-reliant by nature. The stubborn side can come out because they can be set in their routines. Moon in Pisces will soften his nature a bit and make him more imaginative and sensitive but when dealing with things, it's not going to be with his Moon that he does, it'll be either Sun or Mars. What I read from your statement is less 'clingy' and more 'security' oriented which Taurus definitely are. He's assessing whether you're girlfriend/wife material and every 'argument' probably makes him withdraw and consider how he 'feels'. Not sure if that helps. If you can assess where the mis-communication came from it'll help him feel better about the whole thing. IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted January 03, 2014 07:29 PM
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SDragon
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posted January 03, 2014 07:31 PM
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prettyinpink
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posted January 03, 2014 09:22 PM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Taurus with Pisces Moon here.Taurus are not clingy by nature because they are actually self-reliant by nature. The stubborn side can come out because they can be set in their routines. Moon in Pisces will soften his nature a bit and make him more imaginative and sensitive but when dealing with things, it's not going to be with his Moon that he does, it'll be either Sun or Mars. What I read from your statement is less 'clingy' and more 'security' oriented which Taurus definitely are. He's assessing whether you're girlfriend/wife material and every 'argument' probably makes him withdraw and consider how he 'feels'. Not sure if that helps. If you can assess where the mis-communication came from it'll help him feel better about the whole thing.
this helps for sure, thank you!
Our arguments are not really arguments. It's like he says something, I tell him I don't believe him, he insists and I ignore him lol
I like him a lot so I hope we can work it out IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted January 03, 2014 10:52 PM
U welcome pretty in pink.
I am also a cancer Asc : ) From my experience with being around them if they tell u something n insist they are serious they actually are serious about it. Best thing is ask them n they would explain.if u think he adjusts a lot for u n makes loads of time to be around u touches u at the drop of a hat n shows u off to many of his friends n family then he definitely loves you.
They also tend to look around n really notice how many men r checking out their date! Maybe u should avoid arguments n talk sweetly n use some feminine tricks hehehe. I dont think they like too much of arguments.all the best n hope it works out for u.IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 03, 2014 10:57 PM
Being a bit of a Taurus myself, you don't like to be rushed.Having time to mull things over and make an intelligent, slowly arrived at decision is a Taurean must for true happiness. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted January 03, 2014 11:08 PM
When u mean clingy do u mean he says something lovey dovey/romantic n maybe u tend to brush it off? Im a gemini n I wouldnot be receptive when a guy gets romantic around me. I become cold n clumsy.IP: Logged |
Sven555
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posted January 04, 2014 05:01 AM
Clingy meaning lack of independance. They always want to be around you and don't actively pursue things. If you go off with friends and they're like "No! Sray with me! I thought we're together" Usually being clingy is a Cancer trait, esp the Moon. IP: Logged |
prettyinpink
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posted January 04, 2014 07:07 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
When u mean clingy do u mean he says something lovey dovey/romantic n maybe u tend to brush it off? Im a gemini n I wouldnot be receptive when a guy gets romantic around me. I become cold n clumsy.
yeah sometimes I do that too haha but usually I just ignore what I don't like. I'm not cold towards him though...I'll try to do what you said on the other post. Thanks again!IP: Logged |
prettyinpink
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posted January 04, 2014 07:11 AM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
Clingy meaning lack of independance. They always want to be around you and don't actively pursue things. If you go off with friends and they're like "No! Sray with me! I thought we're together" Usually being clingy is a Cancer trait, esp the Moon.
hmm so he's definetely not clingy... of course he wants to spend time with me but, if I want to go somewhere (without him) and he doesn't want me to go, he just says 'ok,go' and gives me the cold shoulder 
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Sven555
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posted January 04, 2014 08:25 AM
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
hmm so he's definetely not clingy... of course he wants to spend time with me but, if I want to go somewhere (without him) and he doesn't want me to go, he just says 'ok,go' and gives me the cold shoulder
That sounds more like a possessive trait then.
He doesn't want you to go, but he knows he can't stop you; so he's trying to make you feel guilty about leaving him. IP: Logged |
SDragon
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From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 04, 2014 08:59 AM
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Originally posted by prettyinpink:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Sven555:
[b]Clingy meaning lack of independance. They always want to be around you and don't actively pursue things. If you go off with friends and they're like "No! Sray with me! I thought we're together" Usually being clingy is a Cancer trait, esp the Moon.
hmm so he's definetely not clingy... of course he wants to spend time with me but, if I want to go somewhere (without him) and he doesn't want me to go, he just says 'ok,go' and gives me the cold shoulder [/B][/QUOTE]
Oh, that's passive aggressive behavior.. Ya, that can come out when we're younger. People in general, but feminine/yin planets tend to do it more.
Don't let him guilt trip you and if it really bothers you, let him know what it is you think he's doing. It is a form of possessiveness/clinginess actually.
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geminigal2805
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posted January 04, 2014 09:46 AM
Awww thats bad.
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geminigal2805
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posted January 04, 2014 09:52 AM
If I were you I would definitely discuss it with him.not in a confrontational manner. IP: Logged |
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