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ariestaurus
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posted January 03, 2014 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I posted a while ago about my new Scorpio. He has Sun, Venus, and Pluto conjunct in Scorpio in his 10th house, and cappy ascendant and moon.

How can one tell the difference between when a Scorpio is playing mind games/being distant, and being actually disinterested/using you? I've never really dealt with one before, so I'm very confused by his on-off behaviour.

The first date, he told me he loved me 4 times (during sex- to which I said nothing since I figured it was just the heat of the moment), and he Said it again on our 2nd date!

However, now that I'm developing feelings for him and have told him so, he had become so on-off! Why?!

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Kerosene
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posted January 03, 2014 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES HE IS IN THE OLYMPICS.
just stay away..

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ariestaurus
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posted January 03, 2014 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hahaha


I like you :-)

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Kerosene
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posted January 03, 2014 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I mean it's not normal to say I love on the second date and just stay distant after that.

he is extremely socially awkward or just playing games.
either way it's a waste of your time.

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summerlite
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posted January 03, 2014 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio Sun and Cappy moon again? wow...

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summerlite
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posted January 03, 2014 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for summerlite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh that was you.
Cap moons blow hot and cold all the time. Get used to it.

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ariestaurus
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posted January 03, 2014 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh

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ariestaurus
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posted January 03, 2014 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ugh

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NeptunianSag
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posted January 03, 2014 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There is no point in questioning a scorpios true intentions, because half the time they don't know themselves or you wouldn't want to know due to the filthy darkness they can harbour.

It's best to move on and as hard as it can be, try and not become obsessed, because it's easy to become obsessed with a Scorpio. Although if a Scorpio is truly interested you'll definitely know.

However, in relationships, both romantic and friendships they do need their space to emotionally recharge, just don't get mad at them for doing this, persue your interests be yourself, have your own life. If they are truly interested they will always come back to you.

I don't know scorpios 100% but all I know is being honest with yourself is key to winning over a Scorpio.

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Odette
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posted January 03, 2014 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How long did you know each other before the first date?
How did you meet?

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posted January 04, 2014 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe he's re-thinking the whole thing, and trying to figure out if he really has feelings for you, or he freaked out because you reciprocated and he has intimacy fears - in which case his feelings probably turned from love to fear / repulsion / indifference.

I don't think he's playing games. He is probably genuinely lost and trying to figure out what to do next.

Let him know you're there for him if he needs to talk and what not, and give him some space.
He'll most probably come back and tell you his decision.

Hang in there!

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ariestaurus
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posted January 04, 2014 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met him at a mutual friend's party. My best friend is dating his best friend. I slept with him that night and he told me he loved me :/ he insisted we go out on a proper date, so we went out the next week, and we've been talking/seeing one another for 3 months now.

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charlie
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posted January 04, 2014 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cappy Mooners can be tricky as all hell. Just saying...

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posted January 04, 2014 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my experience, scorpio men have the habit of saying i love u during sex but not that fast. Was he drunk? He seems like he has issues. I would just stay away from him honestly. Thats kiddie crap. That distancing thing is annoying.

A scorpios weakness is sex and for them sex is emotional. Maybe hebis scared.

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