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Topic: Uh, Dating an Aquarius?
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ElizabethO
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posted January 03, 2014 07:15 PM
  
I'm a Cancer with Libra Moon and Gemini Venus. I suppose I can see the appeal; I'm a bit... chaotic. But I don't know how to make this guy happy, what to talk about, or how to approach this courtship. He really seems to like me (talks to me everyday) and I do like him, but I've never dated an Aquarius. He thinks everything I do is either hilarious or fascinating, which I find odd. I'm moody, emotionally unreserved, yet detached; who the hell finds that fascinating? An Aquarius I guess. Maybe it's because I said I don't mind open relationships, which he's into? It's kinda like dating a foreigner.IP: Logged |
mcmlxix
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posted January 03, 2014 07:23 PM
Your Libra Moon responds to his Aqua Sun. The Gem Venus is compatible as well, but more importantly where is your Mars?Where's his Moon and Venus? Water signs? My experience is more with Aqua women, who from my POV are effortless to fall into a friend-dating thing with. I think the men can be more aloof. IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted January 03, 2014 09:09 PM
an aquarius will like your quirks. what makes you different.
just be yourself you dont have to talk about anything to make him happy. you either do or you dont. ------------------
Sun Aries Moon Pisces
Mars Pisces Venus Pisces
Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo
Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio
Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn
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ElizabethO
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posted January 03, 2014 10:04 PM
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Originally posted by mcmlxix:
Your Libra Moon responds to his Aqua Sun. The Gem Venus is compatible as well, but more importantly where is your Mars?Where's his Moon and Venus? Water signs? My experience is more with Aqua women, who from my POV are effortless to fall into a friend-dating thing with. I think the men can be more aloof.
I have Mars in Pisces. I actually usually date Pisces Sun but it never leads anywhere. He has Scorpio moon, Aries venus and Sag mars. He's always on the go, very physically active, but he keeps in contact better than most, even better than my best friend who's a Gemini. IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted January 03, 2014 10:17 PM
A Sag Mars will chase if he's interested. An Aquarius is also very direct when interested. Actually Scorpio/Aries too. I think it's obvious why he's hanging around you more. Just be patient and see when he's ready.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted January 04, 2014 09:47 AM
It may feel like you're more friends than lovers sometimes. But maybe his Scorpio Moon will be a bit more intimacy-oriented though.IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted January 04, 2014 02:09 PM
I would say he is interested! However being an aquarius and having dated aquarians, there are differences between us so I can't speak for the boys but here I go anyways...If I am talking to someone that much. I like them. Plain and simple. I'm interested. Now that doesn't mean I will be committed. I don't mean not committed in the fidelity sense, but like my mind won't want to recognize it as something I am really jump into yet. So I am guessing he is just very interested in you, but he has that foot out the door and is just seeing how things go. To see if you are worth committing to because once actually committed it's not easy for us to uncommit. Aquarians aren't that detatched. But while in the first stages of dating I play very very cool. I don't know why. Until the other person confesses their love and devotion to me I don't even though I fall very fast and hard. I don't need to be stimulated or interested all the time. But I am a huge sucker for deep conversation. No small talk! Nothing better than cuddling and talking about life and all it's mysteries. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted January 04, 2014 04:39 PM
it lost my reply but as an aqua with a sag mars, i think gemini venuses are soooo hilarious and fascinating without even trying. I agree, just be yourself, he'll be fascinated with you no matter what, that's what happens with opposites. If he talks to you everyday he DEFINITELY likes you.What are both of your mercurys? Also, personally I've found that gemini and pisces placements actually have a really good connection together even though they're air and water. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 04, 2014 11:58 PM
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Originally posted by summerlite:
A Sag Mars will chase if he's interested. An Aquarius is also very direct when interested. Actually Scorpio/Aries too. I think it's obvious why he's hanging around you more. Just be patient and see when he's ready.
Yes! I was a bit surprised with how direct Sag Mars can be. I've never been involved with one. I'm used to passive aggressive guys who I have to chase down and get answers from. :/ IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 05, 2014 12:02 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
It may feel like you're more friends than lovers sometimes. But maybe his Scorpio Moon will be a bit more intimacy-oriented though.
There are moments were I question what his motivations are... This morning he texted me about how he felt and I was really thrown off by it. I wanted to give him advice but he told me he just wanted to share how he felt. As a Libra Moon, I always feel like any exhange should be an even give and take. I've never had anyone just tell me their emotions and not need anything back... IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 05, 2014 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I would say he is interested! However being an aquarius and having dated aquarians, there are differences between us so I can't speak for the boys but here I go anyways...If I am talking to someone that much. I like them. Plain and simple. I'm interested. Now that doesn't mean I will be committed. I don't mean not committed in the fidelity sense, but like my mind won't want to recognize it as something I am really jump into yet. So I am guessing he is just very interested in you, but he has that foot out the door and is just seeing how things go. To see if you are worth committing to because once actually committed it's not easy for us to uncommit. Aquarians aren't that detatched. But while in the first stages of dating I play very very cool. I don't know why. Until the other person confesses their love and devotion to me I don't even though I fall very fast and hard. I don't need to be stimulated or interested all the time. But I am a huge sucker for deep conversation. No small talk! Nothing better than cuddling and talking about life and all it's mysteries.
My biggest concern is keeping his mentally stimulated. There are times where I feel like there's nothing left to talk about because we are always talking! I had thought that I wouldn't really see or speak to him that often. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 05, 2014 12:20 AM
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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
it lost my reply but as an aqua with a sag mars, i think gemini venuses are soooo hilarious and fascinating without even trying. I agree, just be yourself, he'll be fascinated with you no matter what, that's what happens with opposites. If he talks to you everyday he DEFINITELY likes you.What are both of your mercurys? Also, personally I've found that gemini and pisces placements actually have a really good connection together even though they're air and water.
Mine is in Gemini, his is in Aquarius. I love my Gemini and Pisces placements! I'm like a chameleon. IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
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posted January 06, 2014 11:04 PM
i have an aqua mercury too and one of my best friend is a gemini mercury/venus and a pisces mars - i love those two together too.Gemini mercurys are my favvvourite mercurys!
i guarantee you wont bore him, he loves to talk, just keep going and stop worrying<3 Scorpio moons just want to soak you all up, so keep talking and telling him what makes you tick. yes, we sag mars are very aggressive but in a friendly way. IP: Logged |
edinburghrose
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Registered: Oct 2013
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posted January 06, 2014 11:19 PM
I had a crush on an Aquarius and while I loved his intellectual charisma, I couldn't stand that he was so detached and cool all the time; he never got fired up about anything. But I'm a Leo, so go figure.IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted January 09, 2014 01:54 PM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
My biggest concern is keeping his mentally stimulated. There are times where I feel like there's nothing left to talk about because we are always talking! I had thought that I wouldn't really see or speak to him that often.
Aquarius isnt as flighty as they make us seem. Still a fixed sign! I would gemini is the kind to get bored and move on. An aquarius would just try to rip you apart looking for something else underneath there. There is ALWAYS something to talk about. Also it seems like the men aquariuses prefer to take the lead in conversations anyway. Everyone has their own story, and trying to figure that one person out is enough to keep me mentally stimulated. IP: Logged |
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